Ukudlala kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwabantwana, ekwabelwana ngako kunye nokudlala komntu ngamnye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana afunde imigaqo yemidlalo, Ukwabelana noontanga bakhe kunye nabanye abantu, kukuba ufunda ukudlala yedwa. Kumdlalo ngamnye umntwana unokukhangela indawo ezahlukeneyo ezinje ngobuchule bokuyila, ukucinga, ukuzenzela izigqibo okanye ukuphonononga amandla abo ngaphandle kokuziva ebonwa.
Oko kukuthi, xa umntwana edlala, kufuneka baphuhlise ukucinga kwabo ukuze nantoni na okanye into yokudlala ibe ngumlingani ofanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantwana abafuni ukudlala bodwa kwaye bakhetha ukuba nenkampani yomnye umntu ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuba umntwana wakho akadlali yedwa, ungazama ezinye izikhokelo zokukunceda ufumane ulonwabo kumdlalo ngamnye.
Kodwa usenokuzibuza ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho engadlali yedwa kwaye impendulo, nangona ingumnqa, kukuba umntwana akakwazi ukudlala yedwa kuba kufuneka afundiswe ukwenza njalo. Kuba abantwana kulindeleke ukuba bakhulise imeko yokudlala ngokwendaloKodwa ukufunda ukusebenzisa izinto okanye ukucinga kwakho kuthatha ixesha. Abantwana abazalwanga benolwazi, kufuneka bafunde yonke into, kubandakanya nokukhulisa izakhono zabo.
Umntwana wam akadlali yedwa, yintoni unobangela?
Ngokufuthi abantwana abafuni dlala wedwa ngoba bayabhida into yokudlala wedwa nokuba wedwa. Oko kukuthi, yenye into yokuba umntwana abe nakho ukuthatha iithoyi zakhe kwaye onwabe ngamanye amaxesha yedwa, kwigumbi lokuhlala, kufutshane nosapho lonke. Enye into eyahluke kakhulu yile Umntwana kufuneka ayodlala egumbini lakhe, into ethetha ukuba yedwa.
Esi sesona sizathu siphambili sabantwana abaphepha ukudlala bodwa. Abantwana kufuneka bazive bekhathalelwe, Bafuna umntu osondeleyo kubo, ukuze ahambise uxolo lwengqondo kwaye uyazi ukuba xa kukho into eyenzekayo, baya kukhuselwa. Xa kufuneka baye egumbini labo ukuya kudlala bodwa, nokuba umgama mncinci, baziva behlukene. Ngesi sizathu basebenzisa izizathu zokuba abayazi indlela yokudlala bodwa.
Kwelinye icala, kubalulekile ukuba umdlalo ngamnye uncede ezinye iintlobo zemidlalo. Nangona abazali belisebenzisa eli xesha ukuze bakwazi ukwenza ezinye izinto, akunakulindeleka ukuba umntwana ahlala edlala ukuze abe nexesha lokuzonwabisa. Kuyimfuneko ukuba unikezele ixesha lemihla ngemihla lokudlala nabantwana, ngaphandle kwezinye iziphazamiso, ngaphandle komabonwakude okanye iselfowuni ekufuphi. Kuya kufuneka kufumaneke imali eseleyo ukuze umntwana azive amkelwe.
Indlela yokukhuthaza umdlalo ngamnye
Ukuba ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho adlale yedwa, kuya kufuneka umnike izixhobo ukuze afunde ukuba ukuchitha ixesha yedwa kuyonwabisa. Yenza indawo apho umntwana angadlala khona, akuyomfuneko ukuba iithoyi zingene kwigumbi lokuhlala. Ufuna kuphela ikona encinci, ibhokisi enezinto zokudlala, amabali, imizobo kunye neminye imidlalo engenzi nto. Oko kukuthi, izixhobo ezicela umntwana ukuba aphuhlise ubuchule babo.
Lumkela imithetho, ukuba ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho adlale kufuneka umyeke akhethe indlela afuna ukuyenza ngayo. Musa ukugxeka umdlalo wakhe, okanye uzame ukumkhokelela ukuba ahambe ngendlela ofuna ngayo. Yonke loo mithetho kunye nolawulo yenza umntwana azive enganqabisekanga. Makhe aphonononge ukucinga kwakhe kwaye aphuhlise ubuchule bakhe, uqinisekile ukuba ungothuka. Ungaqala umdlalo ngokufanayo, ukuba umntwana wakho uqala ukwenza inqaba ngeebhloko, unokwenza ulwakhiwo lwakho.
Dlala nomntwana wakho yonke imihla, ayithathi ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-20 okanye engama-30 ngosuku ukuze umntwana azive ukuba unikwe ingqalelo. Kuba xa oku kungenzeki, into eqhelekileyo kukuba umntwana akukhangele rhoqo kwaye ufuna wena ngayo yonke into ofuna ukuyenza. Ixesha lomntu ngamnye liyimfuneko, kokubini kubantwana nakubantu abadala. Ukufunda ukuchitha ixesha yedwa kukwayinxalenye yophuhliso.