Kutheni unyana wam ofikisayo endizonda

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Unyana okanye intombi yakho ekwishumi elivisayo akakuzondi, uthi uyakucaphukela. Ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha oku, musa ukuzibetha ngokuzibuza zonke iimpazamo ozenzileyo. Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho obusondeleyo nobubele kunye naye buhamba kubanda kunye nokuqina kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Akukho nto imbi uyenzileyo. Yinkqubo ekufuneka niyenze nobabini ukuze nikhule kulwalamano.

Recuerda que ubuqhetseba, ukuqonda okanye ukungakwazi, kunye nokufikisa kuyahambelana. Njengasebuntwaneni, ndiyakucaphukela okanye andisakuthandi, yimiyalezo ezalwa ngumsindo. Kwimeko yokufikisa, lo msindo awunxamnye nawe, kodwa nxamnye nayo yonke into ngokubanzi.

Ndingenza ntoni xa unyana wam esithi uyandizonda?

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Eyokuqala yile ukungathathi amagama ngokwexabiso lobuso. Ukuba umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo ukuxelela ukuba uyakucaphukela, ayisiyonto yobuqu leyo, uyakuthanda. Ucaphuka nje kwaye uyiveze ngoluhlobo. Zama ukuqonda ukuba le nto ungayenzi kangako ngokubaluleka, njengokukwazi ukunxiba enye okanye enye ihempe, kuye ngumcimbi obalulekileyo.

Le ngcebiso ilandelayo kunzima ukuyenza, kodwa sicebisa nomonde. Ukuba ngexesha lomntwana umonde unento yokwenza nezinto zomzimba, xa abantwana bakho bekwishumi elivisayo kuya kufuneka uqokelele idosi ezinkulu ukuze zingakukhupheli ngaphandle kweebhokisi zakho. Abafikisayo banamandla okuzalwa oku.

Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, mlinde ahlise umoya ukuze athethe naye. Ngendlela efanayo yokuba uvelana naye, mcele ukuba abe nawe. Mxelele ukuba amazwi akhe ayakukhathaza, ukuba uyaziqonda iinjongo zakhe, kodwa uyakukhathaza ngokukuxelela ukuba uyakucaphukela.

Kutheni le nto ixesha lokufikisa lintsokothile?

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Ngexesha lokufikisa abantwana bethu ba ukufumanisa ubuqu babo, ngaphandle kwethu. Ke baya kubeka onke amandla abo ekushenxeni kwaye bazohlula kuwe, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, awuthatheli ingqalelo umonakalo abawenzayo kwilinge.

Bafuna inkululeko engakumbi, inkululeko kunye nokuzenzela izigqibo, bahlukile kwabo babelawula imiba yobomi babo kude kube lelo xesha. Impixano yangaphakathi phakathi kokufuna ukwenza izigqibo zam, kwaye ungenzi into ondixelela yona yiyo ebakhokelela ekubeni bathi: Ndikuthiyile, enokuthi iguqulelwe ngoluhlobo: ndicacise ukuba kutheni. Ngaphandle kwayo yonke into, unyana okanye intombi yakho iyaqhubeka nokubeka ukubaluleka kwinto oyithethayo kubo.

Kumntu ofikisayo, igama elithi intiyo alinangqondo yokwenyani, kwaye alinalo uluvo lothando. Ukuba unyana wakho ukuxelele ukuba uyakucaphukela, yeyona ndlela yomeleleyo yokufumana ingqalelo. Xa umntwana wakho ofikisayo esahlukana nawe ngokupheleleyo, kwaye uyazi ukuba uya kwazi, uya kuqhubeka efuna isikhokelo, inkxaso nothando olungenamiqathango.

Iingcebiso zoomama abakwishumi elivisayo "ukuthiya"

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Ungamvumeli umntwana wakho alawule iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo akwenzayo. Musa ukumnika amandla eemvakalelo zakho. Bonke oomama bayazi ukuba abantwana bethu bayasidinga naxa beziphethe kakubi. Inyani yile, ngokuqinisekileyo ngalo mzuzu wokukuthiya, bayakudinga.


Zama ukuthetha naye, mbuze ngokuphandle wenze ntoni ukuze ndikucaphukele. Phantse yonke into yehla iye kwi-anecdote yento ongakhange umvumele ukuba ayenze, izimvo zakho malunga noku okanye loo mhlobo. Thetha naye endaweni yokuphikisana uchaze izizathu ezakhokelela ekubeni uthathe eso sigqibo. Unokuba ungalunganga kwindlela ocinga ngayo, ukuqonda ukuba impazamo ayikokuphulukana negunya, ngokuchaseneyo.

Sisebenzisa izijekulo zethu xa sihamba namagama. Qaphela unxibelelwano olungafakwanga ngomlomo xa esithi uyakucaphukela. Unokuphuhlisa uhlobo lweradar ukuze ukwazi ubungakanani bamazwi akhe. Ukuba unkqonkqoza emnyango, phosa into phantsi, ukudumzela phantsi komoya wakho yimiqondiso yokuba kuza isiphango. 


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