Iintsana zibonisa iimvakalelo zazo Ngokukhala nangokunye ukuphuma kwezandi, kwiimeko ezininzi ukubuza okanye ukubanga iimfuno zakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyangxola kakhulu kufuneka uyicinge lonto yindlela yakhe yokutyhila ulwimi lwakhe kwaye inokuthetha into.
Amakhwenkwe namantombazana Kuya kufuneka babonelele ngeemvakalelo ezingapheliyo kwaye bafumane uninzi lwezinto ezikhuthazayo. Ukusuka kwi-0 ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3 baziva bengenasiphelo seemvakalelo kwaye kufuneka bazichaze ngezandi okanye ngolunye uhlobo lomboniso. Njengoko ikhula Iigrunts zinokubonisa uhlobo oluthile lokunyanzelwa kuba ufuna into ngeli xesha, nangona kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba iyintoni na.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa usana lugquma?
Ukugquma yingxolo emfutshane yamathumbu. Ukuba ikhutshwe lusana iya kudala uhlobo oluthile lonxibelelwano okanye ukubonisa uhlobo lomzamo. Ngokubanzi bahlala bezenzela ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, okanye xa benxunguphele kwaye kufuneka bayibonakalise okanye kuba bekruqukile.
Xa umntwana kufuneka bonisa isenzo somzamo, bayafinga kwaye bayakrokra, kuxa babonisa ukuba bazokuzikhupha ngenxa yokuhamba kwabo kwamathumbu. Ngokukhula kwayo, umntu oza kuthethathethana naye unokuvela, kuba usana lunokuziqhelanisa nalo ukwenza ukuba kube nzima ngakumbi.
Umntwana ngasekupheleni konyaka usengaya Ndiyisebenzisa njengendlela yonxibelelwano kwaye rhoqo kakhulu, kule meko akuyomfuneko ukunika ukubaluleka okukhulu, kodwa kuyanyaniswa Ingxolo yesifo somntwana (i-GBS). Ukuba uqaphela ukuba esi sandi sikhutshwe ziimpawu ezincinci ezinje ngokubomvu kobuso okanye ukuphefumla kancinci, kuya kufuneka ubonane nogqirha wabantwana.
Kutheni usana lwam lugquma kakhulu?
Esona sizathu sokukhula kwabo kakhulu Kungenxa yendlela yokubonisa kunye neendlela zonxibelelwano. Umntwana akakwazi ukuthetha kwaye ikhuphe ukugcuma okuhamba nokukhala okuncinci kunye nokuhleka. Luhlobo lwabo lokuzonwabisa kwaye kunokwenzeka Ndifuna ukuthathelwa ingqalelo ngabantu.
Ukuhamba kwamathumbu ngexesha lokuhamba kwamathumbu yenye indlela yokuyichaza ngokugcuma. Umntwana unezihlunu ezingaphuhliswanga kwaye xa etyhala isitulo sakhe umenza ukuba asivelise ngezimbo zomzimba kunye nezandi. Xa uxinzelelo oluninzi lwenziwa ngenxa yokuqhinwa, uyabona ukuba kulapho ucofe phantsi kwisithsaba sikhatshwa ngumzamo wokufuduka. Kulapho ke ububomvu buvela ebusweni kunye nokugquma.
Kukho abantwana abancwina kakhulu ngelixa bencancisayo. Kungenzeka ukuba wenza iinzame zokuncancisa kwaye ibango lakho lobisi ligqithile. Kule meko, abantwana baziva benxunguphele kuba inkqubo yabo yokwetyisa itya ubisi oluninzi kwisondlo esinye kwaye ibangela ukungonwabi. Ukufunxwa ngokukhawuleza kobisi kuxubeka njengoko uphefumla umoya kwaye kulapho bakhula khona.
Ukuphefumla kwakho kunokubangela nokukrokra. Xa umntwana evukile angadala ukuzamla kuhamba kunye nokuncwina, kubangela ukuba imiphunga igcwalise ioksijini kwaye ikhatshwe zezi zandi. Kodwa abanye abantwana bayayichaza xa belele.
Ngelixa beleleyo benza ingxolo kuxhomekeke kubume benkalakahla nempumlo yakho. Kukho iintsana ezoyikayo malunga nokubonisa ukurhona okuncinci ngelixa zilele kwaye oku kungenxa yokuba inkqubo yabo yokuphefumla inokubangela ukukrokra. Kule meko ukuba ihlala ihleli kwaye iyacaphukisa, ungahlala uhlala Yiya kugqirha wabantwana kuvavanyo lwale meko.
Ezinye iimeko ezinzulu ngakumbi zinokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba zinoluhlobo oluthile lwezifo ezinxulumene noko. Ngeli xesha ukugquma kukhatshwa kukuhamba rhoqo kumoya ngamnye, kukhatshwa kukubandezeleka kunye nezandi zobushushu. Inokuba ngumbandela onzulu kuba inokukhokelela kwizifo ezithile ezinjengeengxaki zentliziyo, iingxaki zemiphunga, meningitis okanye i-sepsis.
Nangona kunjalo, umntwana ngamnye lihlabathi elahlukileyo, kukho iintsana eziqala ukugquma kwiiveki ezi-2 okanye ezi-3 ubudala kwaye bayayeka kwiinyanga ezi-3 ubudala. Kuyakubakho abantwana abangaze bagungqe kwaye abanye bahlala bekhona. Ngethuba nje umntwana wakho ephilile kwaye elele kakuhle, akukho mfuneko yokukhathazeka.