Ewe njalo. Bonke abantwana kufuneka babe nethuba lokukhuthaza ubukrelekrele babo kwaye baphuhlise bonke ubuchule babo. Nokuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho akakho krelekrele kakhulu okanye bakho abanye abantwana abakrelekrele kunaye ... awusoze ubunciphise ubuchule bakhe. Umntwana wakho angangabonakali kwezinye izinto kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba angabonakala kwezinye.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze ukwazi ukuphucula ulwazi lwabantwana bakho kukungabathelekisi nabanye. Banee-idiosyncrasies zabo kwaye awunyanzelekanga ukuba uzithelekise naye nabani na ngaphandle kwabo. Unokuthelekisa iziphumo zabo zamva nje kunye nezangaphambili, kodwa ukuba kufuneka bakhuphisane nomntu, soloko unabo.
Ukuba unyana wakho ufumana amabanga asezantsi esikolweni, sukucinga ukuba akanasakhono ... cinga ngendlela onokumnceda ngayo aphucule ukubanakho kwaye abone ukuba angayifezekisa nantoni na abeka ingqondo yakhe kuyo. Nokuba ufuna uncedo lwe-psycho-pedagogical, iiklasi zabucala okanye ukumkhuthaza ukuze afunde (ngayo nantoni na) azive ngathi yinto emnandi eza kumzisela izinto ezininzi.
Umntwana wakho usenokukubonisa ukuba ufuna ucelomngeni olungakumbi, nokuba oko akufundayo akwanelanga, yaye ufuna okungakumbi. Jonga eziphi iinkalo abantwana bakho abazimeleyo ukuzenza ngcono. Mhlawumbi ngolwimi, kubugcisa, kwezemidlalo ... Kwaye xa uphucula eli candelo, uya kumangaliswa yinto enokuyiphumeza. Bonke abantwana banelungelo lokugqwesa kwinto ethile, ukongeza, banakho ukwenza njalo.
Mkhuthaze ngamazwi amnandi, umxelele ukuba xa enze impazamo ayizukwenzeka. Kungenxa yokuba enye yeendlela zokuphucula ubukrelekrele babantwana kukubafundisa ukuba iimpazamo ngootitshala bethu abakhulu kwaye enkosi kubo sinokufezekisa izinto ezintle ... Impazamo lithuba lokuzama kwakhona ukuba kwenzeke ntoni okokuqala.