Unyana wam ulimaza izilwanyana

Ndifota Amaxesha Amsulwa Wabantwana abanezilwanyana (30 Pics) | panda enesithukuthezi

Unyana wam uziphethe kakubi izilwanyana. unyana wam ngaphandle kwesizathu ikati umsila tsala. Andazi ukuba ndingayichaza njani into yokuba bayinxalenye yefamily, ayizonto zokudlala kwaye kufuneka ubaphathe ngembeko...

Ngaba olu hlobo lwezimvo okanye ibinzana livakala liqhelekile kuwe ngezilwanyana? Nangona kubonakala kungakholeleki ukuba umntwana ufuna ukwenzakalisa omnye umntu ophilayo, ngamanye amaxesha kukho iimeko apho «bayathanda ukubaphatha kakubingaphandle kokuqaphela. Namhlanje siza kuxoxa nge impatho-mbi kwizilwanyana ngabanye abantwana. 

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba abantwana batsaleleke kwizilwanyana nangona indlela yabo, ngakumbi xa bebancinci kakhulu, ayisoloko ifanelekile. Bafumanisa ihlabathi, kwaye phakathi kwayo yonke into abayifumanayo sifumana izilwanyana. Izidalwa eziphilayo ezishukumayo, ezahlukileyo kuzo nezikhangeleka njengeempukane ezinokuzibona kwigumbi lazo okanye kwiikhathuni.

Akunzima ukubona abantwana bangcungcuthekisa izilwanyana zasekhaya, bebulala izinambuzane ezincinane okanye ukubamba izilwanyana ezirhubuluzayo ukuze uziqwalasele kwaye ufunde ngazo. Yaye oko akuthethi ukuba bangabantu ababi.

Siza kujongana nombandela ngokwembono yengqondo nenzululwazi.

Iintsomi zobuxoki kunye neenkolelo zobuxoki malunga nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantwana nezilwanyana

nasiphi na isenzo sobundlobongela esenziwa ngumntwana kwisilwanyana ngokuqinisekileyo sisenzo esibangela inkxalabo emehlweni omzali. Iqhelekile ke loo nto kuba siyayazi into eyenzekayo, kodwa abantwana abazi.

Ngokubanzi, xa abantwana bebancinci kakhulu (sithetha malunga nobudala isikolo sokuqala) umdla wabo wendalo unokuvelisa amava angathandekiyo kwizilwanyana zakho zasekhaya. Isenokuba ngamava akho okuqala ngesilwanyana kwaye awukafundi indlela yokuphatha nokusikhathalela. Abantwana abakakulungeli ukusebenzisana nesilwanyana kunye nokuncinci kunye neempendulo ezingalindelekanga zezilwanyana ezincinci. Kufuneka sibafundise indlela yokwenza.

Ithini inzululwazi ngokukhulisa abantwana ngezilwanyana?

Kuphononongo lwezenzululwazi olupapashwe kwi Ijenali yengqondo yePediatric Psychology Kwaphandwa ukuba ngaba ukufundisa abantwana kubudlelwane obuchanekileyo kunye nesilwanyana kunokusebenza kakuhle kwaye kunokwenziwa njani. Ingongoma esisiseko evele kolu phando yile ukungaqiniseki ngendlela abasabela ngayo abantwana abancinane kakhulu nakwizilwanyana ngokwazo. Iimpendulo ezinokuthi ngamanye amaxesha zibe mnandi kwaye azikwazi ukulawulwa. 

En isikolo sokuqala, into ebhidaniswa nempatho-gadalala, kwiimeko ezininzi, inokufundwa njenge ukungabikho kwamava ononophelo (okanye umdlalo) wokuziphatha nesilwanyana.

Intetho yahlukile kancinci xa ifika kubantwana abadala. Kule meko, abantwana besikolo sele bekwazi ukuqonda ukuba isilwanyana asiyonto yokudlala, kodwa umntu ophilayo onokuva iintlungu ukuba wonzakele. Kule meko, ukuba uyaqaphela le ndlela yokuziphatha kwicala lomntwana wakho, ingcebiso yam kukuqhagamshelana nengcali yengqondo yezemfundo enokukunceda kwaye ikunike ulwazi oluxabisekileyo.

Nanga amacebiso ethu:

Ziziphi iimvakalelo esizivayo?
Ndiyoyika: ingaba iza kuba likamva lolwaphulo-mthetho na?
"Iyandicaphukisa, ndiyazithanda izilwanyana!!"

Sicinga ntoni:
"Uyenzela ntoni lonto?"
"Mhlawumbi andizange ndiyinike ingqwalasela efanelekileyo!"
"Kuthekani ukuba le meko iya isiba mandundu?"
"Ngubani owaziyo ukuba abamelwane bam baya kucinga ntoni xa bebona le mifanekiso kwibalcony!"

Yintoni esinokuyenza:
"Ndingabuza"
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  • Musa ukulindela ukuba umntwana wakho abe nako ukuhoya isilwanyana ngoko nangoko: funda ukukhathalela yinto ekwafuneka ifaniswe, iqondwe kwaye ifundwe. Kancinci.
  • Qwalasela kwiingcinga zakho: zama ukunciphisa iimvakalelo kwimeko oyiqwalaselayo.
  • Imalunga qaphela ukuphuculwa okuncinci (njengokusondela kwisilwanyana ngobunono) kwaye ubeke ingqalelo efanelekileyo kula maxesha, umdumise xa esondela ngokufanelekileyo. 
  • Ukuba ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga kwenzeka, buza umntwana wakho ukuba wayeziva njani (kwaye kungekhona isizathu sokuba enze oko).
  • Ukuba ukuziphatha kuxhaphake kakhulu, funa iingcebiso zeengcali.

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