Nabantwana badlala ngoonodoli

Siphila kuluntu oluqhele thina ukuba siziphathe kakubi ngokwesondo. Xa amakhwenkwe ezalwa, athenga iimpahla eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, amantombazana apinki. Amakhwenkwe adlala ibhola ekhatywayo kwaye amantombazana adlala oonodoli. Amakhwenkwe arhabaxa kwaye amantombazana amnandi… kwanele! Ayingawo onke amakhwenkwe adlala ibhola ekhatywayo, kwaye ayingawo onke amantombazana adlala oonodoli… baya kudlala nantoni na abagqiba ukuyidlala, ngaphandle kokubonisa ukuba yeyiphi engcono okanye embi.

Nabantwana badlala oonodoli

Ngelishwa baninzi abantu kule mihla abasacinga ukuba ukudlala ngoonodoli akulunganga ebantwaneni kwaye eyona midlalo iphambili okanye eyomeleleyo mayikhuthazwe ... xa inyani kukuba mababonise iimvakalelo zabo njengabafazi.

Oko kubuya kwakhona kwakucinga ukuba amakhwenkwe adlala kuphela ngeemoto kwaye amantombazana kuphela ngoonodoli kufuneka ahambe kuba amakhwenkwe nawo adlala ngoonodoli kwaye amantombazana nawo adlala ngeemoto. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazihlonele izinto abazithandayo kunye nezinto abanomdla kuzo abantwana babo kunye neentombi kwaye ngale ndlela, banokwazi ngokwenene ukuba banjani, ngaphandle koluntu ludyobhe ubuntu babo ziinkolelo.

Ukuba awucacanga gca malunga nokuba kufanelekile na ukuba abantwana badlale ngoonodoli- ukuba nje ngabo abagqiba ukwenza njalo- ungaphoswa zezi zibonelelo zilandelayo banokuba nazo abantwana ngokudlala ngoonodoli. Ungalahli iinkcukacha.

Kutheni kulungile ukudlala ngoonodoli KWAKHO kubantwana

Iidoli zentsana zigcwele amandla okufundisa abantwana ngazo kunye nehlabathi elibangqongileyo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabo kwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.

Ukuphucula izakhono zokuqonda kunye nezakhono zokuzinceda

Oonodoli babantwana banika abantwana amathuba amaninzi okuphucula amandla abo okuqonda, ukuphucula izakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto kunye nokuphucula izakhono zokuzinceda. Abantwana bahlala bekufumanisa kulula ukuziqhelanisa nezakhono kunye nabanye- umntu okanye into- kunokuba bazisebenzise kubo. Kuba amakhwenkwe aphuhlisa izakhono zokuqhuba iimoto-njengokunxiba-mva kunamantombazana kubalulekile ukuba bavezwe amathuba amaninzi okuziqhelanisa, kwaye oonodoli bakulungele oku. Umzekelo:

• Ukudlala okungumfuziselo nodoli. Ukusukela kwiminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala, abantwana banokudlala ngoonodoli ngokungathi banxibelelana nabo. Bangadlala ukumtyisa, bamhlambe, bambeke ebhedini, njl. Le midlalo yokulinganisa ibaluleke kakhulu kuphuhliso lwakho lwengqondo.
• Khulula iimpahla zakho. Abantwana baxhamla ngokunxiba nokukhulula oonodoli ngaphambi kokuba bazenzele ngokwabo.
• Nxiba iimpahla. Kungaba lula ukuziqhelanisa nonodoli kunokwabo, ukuze babone ukuba zifakwa njani iikawusi, zikhutshwa kanjani, indlela ibhulukhwe ebekwa ngayo okanye ekhululwayo, indlela yokuqhobosha nokukhulula amaqhosha, njl.

Ukuphucula izakhono zonxibelelwano nolwimi

Unodoli yinto yokudlala enokunceda ukuvula kunye nokwandisa umdlalo womntwana. Abantwana bafunda okuninzi ngolwimi ngokudlala, kwaye ukudlala kunika amathuba okusebenzisa kunye nokuziqhelanisa nezakhono zolwimi nezentetho. Ukudlala ngonodoli kunokunceda umntwana:

• Funda isigama esitsha. Amalungu omzimba, igama lempahla, ukuziqhelanisa namagama amatsha, njl.
• Funda iziseko. Abantwana baya kufunda kwaye bandise amagama abo besebenzisa ezinye izinto zokudlala zoonodoli kwaye bandise ukwakhiwa kwezivakalisi, umzekelo: umntwana ulele.
• Bafunda izenzi kunye neemvakalelo ezintsha. Ezinye iithoyi zingasetyenziselwa ukufundisa izenzi kunye neemvakalelo ezinje ngokutya, ukusela, ukulala, ukuhlala, ukulamba, ukulala, ukudana okanye ukucaphuka, njl.
• Phucula ukuqonda. Ungabuza abantwana bakho imibuzo ukuze basebenzise ukuqonda kwabo ngamagama xa bedlala. Umzekelo: 'Uphi umntwana?', 'Kutheni umntwana elila?'
• Ukuphucula izakhono zentlalo kunye nepragmatic. Iidoli sisixhobo esihle sokunceda abantwana basebenze kwizakhono zentlalo kunye nezakhono zepragmatiki. Abantwana banokutshintshana ngokudlala ngoonodoli abohlukeneyo, banokuziqhelanisa nokusebenzisa ulwimi ukubuza imibuzo malunga nonodoli kunye nento abayenzayo.

Ukuphucula izakhono zentlalo-neemvakalelo

Abantwana basebenzisa umdlalo ukuze baqonde umhlaba kwaye oonodoli bayabanceda ukuba benze njalo. Abantwana abadlala ngoonodoli baya kuba ngabazali abangcono kubomi babo abadala kwaye babe ngabantu abangcono. Oonodoli baya kunceda abantwana abanezakhono zentlalo-neemvakalelo ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:

• Ukuba ngumzali kunye neendlela zokukhathalela ezentlalo-neemvakalelo
• Unxibelelwano ukuze ukwazi ukumela nabanye-oogqirha, usapho kunye nabahlobo
• Zilungiseleleni ukuba ngabazalwana

Nokuba siphi isini somntwana, ezi zakhono zizifundo ezibalulekileyo ebomini. Abantwana baziqhelanisa nendlela yokuziphatha nabanye, banokuba bebonisa indlela yabantu abadala kwilizwe labo lokukhathalela iintsana- oonodoli. Njengokuba abantwana bekopa abazali babo xa bethetha emnxebeni, bepheka, becoca ... ukudlala nonodoli akukho kwahlukile, yindlela yokuba abantwana baqonde kwaye baqale ukwakha ilizwe labo ngokwenza ezi ziganeko zemihla ngemihla.

Abanye abantwana bakhetha ukudibanisa ukudlala ngonodoli kunye nezinye izinto zokudlala kwaye yonke into iya kulunga. Abantwana bafuna umdlalo ukuze babaleke kwilizwe lokwenyani kwaye bafumane uxolo lwangaphakathi. Amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana kufuneka babe nethuba lokudlala ngoonodoli kwaye bafunde ukuziqhelanisa nezakhono eziyimfuneko kuphuhliso lwabo. Oonodoli ngokungathandabuzekiyo yinto yokudlala enkulu kuwo onke amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana.

Ngaba abantwana bakho bayadlala ngonodoli? Ngaba uyabavumela ukuba badlale ngoonodoli nangonodoli abafuna ngaphandle kwezithintelo? Ucinga ntoni ngayo yonke le nto?