Andazi nokuba ikhe yakwehlela na. Ingubo evulekileyo kunye nonyana okanye intombi yakho enomsindo omubi kuba ufuna ukukhetha iimpahla zakhe. Ewe, ngenxa yale meko madreshoy Sifuna ukukunika uncedo, kwaye uzive ubandakanyekile ekukhathazekeni kwakho, kuba ngamanye amaxesha amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana banokuba neenkani ngokwenene.
Ayisiyonto malunga nokuhle okanye okubi. Umntwana wakho akahambi kumbuzo wobuhle, kodwa kumnqweno wokunxiba le okanye leya ngubo, kuba uyayithanda engqondweni yakhe, iyamkhumbuza ngeqhawe okanye ikhangeleka ngathi inxibe umhlobo wakhe osenyongweni.
Ubudala kunye nezibonelelo zokukhetha iimpahla zakho
Ukusukela kwiminyaka emibini Kuxa bona kunye nabo, ayingombuzo wesini, ukuqala ukuveza uluvo lwabo kwaye oku kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo. Amagqabantshintshi afana nala: Andiyithandi le nto, andiyifuni, iyandirhawuzelela, iyandilimaza, iqala ukuba ngumkhwa. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi ziimpawu zewim, kodwa uninzi lwamaxesha abantwana bayayazi eyona nto bakhululeke kuyo, ngoko bamamele. Hayi! Kuyo yonke iminyaka kunokwenzeka ukuba usebenzise impahla yendalo, sikushiya apha inqaku malunga nolu hlobo lwesambatho, esinexabiso elongeziweyo lokusebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umnyamekele kwaye uvule eyakhe Amandla okwenza izigqibo. Abo njengabantwana babengenalo ithuba lokukhetha, kunzima kubo ukuba bazi ukuba bangakwenza njani oko ebusheni, xa izigqibo ziqala ukubaluleka. Ukukhetha iimpahla, kunye nokuziva uqinisekisiwe kuyo, yinto ebalulekileyo yokuzithemba.
Nathi, njengoomama, kufuneka sizenze thina Ukucinga ukuba ingaba sikhathalele kakhulu malunga "nothini" Izalamane zethu okanye abamelwane malunga nokuba unxibe njani unyana wethu, umzekelo, ezo flip-flops zePaw Patrol kumthendeleko womzala azibethi nto, okanye zimnike inkululeko yokuthatha isigqibo. Apha kufuneka sisebenze ukunyamezelana kwethu kunye nemvo yokuhlekisa.
Amacebo kunye nezicwangciso ukuze bakwazi ukukhetha iimpahla zabo
Sikubonisa ezinye izimvo, ukubona ukuba ucinga ntoni. Ungamxelela: Khetha namhlanje into ongathanda ukuyinxiba ukuya epakini, kwaye siza kubona ukuba ingaba kunjalo. Yenze icace kwasekuqaleni ukuba unelizwi lokugqibela. Ukuba ukhetha ihempe enemikhono emifutshane phakathi kuJanuwari, yenze icace ukuba kuya kufuneka aye kwagqirha kamva.
Elinye iqhinga onokuthi ulilandele yiyokuthenga kwaye inkwenkwe okanye intombazana iyakhetha. Ungaqala ngezinto ezincinci, iimpahla zakho zangaphantsi, iipijama, izincedisi, kwaye emva koko uthathe ingqalelo kwimpahla yesitalato ofuna ukuyinxiba. Kulungile ukucacisa kubo, ngokwemeko yethu yenkcubeko, ukuba ingubo nganye inexesha layo.
Ngamanye amaxesha bahlobo kunye nezinto abazithandayo abantwana benza i-T-shirt yale okanye loo mlinganiswa, kwisithuba seeveki ukusuka kwinombolo yokuqala uye kwi-drawer yokulibala. Kule meko, khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba wayeyithanda kangakanani kwaye ufunde ukucacisa ukuba kutheni engafuni kuyinxiba ngoku. Ungamnika ithuba lokuyinxiba ekhaya, okanye undwendwele lo okanye umhlobo.
Kancinci kancinci uyakuqonda ukuba ukunxiba yindlela yokubonisa abanye umfanekiso wakho.
Andifuni kunxiba iimpahla zomninawa wam
Kuqheleke kakhulu ukuba iimeko ezimbini zenzeke. Ukuba abazalwana bafuna ukuhamba iilokhwe ezilinganayo omnye komnye. Ingakumbi encinci okanye encinci njengabadala. Okanye imeko eyahlukileyo iyenzeka leya ayifuni ukuba yiyo, okanye ikhangeleke njengenye. Akukho sisombululo silungileyo koku, kodwa ukumamela kunye nokumamela. Isisombululo esiPhakathi sinokuba njalo zinxibe zilungelelaniswe. Oku kusebenza ngakumbi njengenkwenkwe nentombazana. Ke wonke umntu uya kugcina isazisi sakhe ngelixa eziva edibeneyo.
Kwi-Intanethi sifumene umbono endiwufumene unomdla. Abantakwenu badibene ziyahambelanaUmzekelo, iSuperman kunye neT-shirt yeSuperwoman, yabalinganiswa abaphambili ababathandayo. Imodeli efanayo, ukuba iyimfuneko, kodwa nganye ngokombala owuthandayo.
Siyathemba ukuba ezi zimvo sikuncede ukuba umelane ngcono nezo ngxaki zasekhaya andizinxibi! Andifuni! esidlule kuzo sonke.