Akhonto inkulu kobu bomi ngaphandle kothando lukamama kubantwana bakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ubomi abukho rosy kwaye ngamanye amaxesha olu lwalamano lukhuni kwaye lunzima. Kwimeko yeentombi, olu manyano ludla ngokwahlukileyo koloonyana njengoko besisini esinye.
Ukuba ubona ukuba ubudlelwane bakho kunye nentombi yakho ayisiyiyo into ongathanda ukuyenza, ungaphoswa ziinkcukacha zezi ngcebiso zilandelayo okanye izikhokelo ekufuneka uzilandele. oko kuya kukuvumela ukuba uqinise ubuhlobo kunye nentombi yakho ukuya phezulu.
Indlela yokuphucula ubudlelwane bakho nentombi yakho
Okulandelayo siza kukunika uthotho lweengcebiso kunye nezikhokelo ezilungileyo ukuba Baza kukuvumela ukuba uphucule kwaye womeleze ubudlelwane bakho nentombi yakho:
- Kwiimeko ezininzi, ubudlelwane buyawohloka ngenxa yokungabikho konxibelelwano kunye nokungabikho kwexesha kumacala omabini. Ungalibazisi nangaliphi na ixesha ukuthatha ixesha kunye nentombi yakho. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba nicwangcise izinto eniza kuzenza kunye kunye nokomeleza amaqhina ngokweemvakalelo.
- Elinye icebiso xa kufikwa ekuphuculeni ubudlelwane ngokweemvakalelo nentombi yakho kukuhlala ecaleni kwakhe imizuzu embalwa ngosuku uze ukwazi incasa yakhe, iinkxalabo kunye nezinye iinkalo ezinceda ukuphucula ubudlelwane phakathi kwezi zibini. Enye yeengxaki zeentsapho zanamhlanje, Kukunqongophala konxibelelwano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana, ichaphazela kakubi ubudlelwane bakho okanye ubudlelwane.
- Uvelwano kunye nokuzingisa ziinqobo ekufuneka uzibethelele kwintombi yakho kwasebuntwaneni. Kuqhelekile ukuba ungacingi njengaye, kodwa kubalulekile ukuzifaka ezihlangwini zentombi yakho ukuze wazi ukuba yintoni emkhathazayo okanye emkhathazayo. Ukuze ulwalamano lube lolona lubalaseleyo, kuhle ukuzibeka kwindawo yabo kwaye ubaqonde.
- Las iintombi Kwakhona kufuneka babe neendawo zabo zokuzikhupha nabahlobo babo okanye benze ezinye izinto. Akulunganga ukumngcungcuthekisa ngokuthe rhoqo ekubeni ngaloo ndlela usenokuziva ecinezelekile yaye ngokuthe ngcembe uya kuluphelisa ulwalamano lwakhe. Kukho ixesha layo yonke into kwaye akucebisekanga ukuba umfake kuzo zonke iiyure zemini.
- Umama kufuneka abonise indlela ayithanda ngayo intombi yakhe kwaye uyinqwenelela okona kulungileyo. Kubalulekile ukumxhasa kuyo yonke into afuna ukuyenza kwaye umdumise ngempumelelo ayizuzileyo. Intombi yakho ifanele ivakalelwe kukuba inonina ngayo nantoni na eyifunayo, ngamaxesha amnandi nanzima. Akufanele uzive ulilolo nangaliphi na ixesha. kuba oku kuya kumenza ahlukane nawe kancinci kancinci ekuhambeni kwexesha.
- Imfundo ibalulekile xa kufikelelwa kulwalamano oluhle nentombi yakho. Ungalibazisi nangaliphi na ixesha ukumfundisa kwaye ubethelele kuye uthotho lwemilinganiselo emnceda ukuba akhule njengomntu olungileyo kwaye axabise usapho lwakhe. Uthando, ukuthembela, ukhuseleko ziinqobo ekufuneka intombazana ifunde. Ngaloo ndlela iqhina eliphakathi kwakho nentombi yakho liya kuhlala lingenakonakala.
- Khumbula ukuba ubudlelwane kunye nentombazana akufani nomntwana osemtsha. Kuya kufuneka wazi indlela yokusingatha umzuzu ngamnye kuba iingxabano kunye neengxabano ezinokuvela kunye nomntwana azifani nowesifazane oselula. Iziseko ke ngoko zibaluleke ngokwenene ukuze ubudlelwane nentombi yakho buhambe kakuhle ngokuhamba kweminyaka. Imfundo efanelekileyo ukususela kwixesha intombi yakho encinci ingundoqo ukuze ubuhlobo kunye naye banele kwaye bufunwa nguye nawuphi na umama.
Ngamafutshane, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuba nobudlelwane obuhle nentombi, nangona kunjalo ngemfundo elungileyo kunye nokunxibelelana rhoqo, Iqhina linokomelela ngokuhamba kweminyaka.