Ukuba ungumama, uyazi ukuba ukuba ngumama akukho lula kwaphela kwaye nabani na okuxelela ngenye indlela uyakube exoka ebusweni bakho. Kodwa nangona kungelulanga, yeyona nto inomvuzo ebomini eya kukunika, kwaye oku kuyinyani enkulu. Njengakuyo yonke into, kuya kubakho amaxesha apho kuya kufuneka uchithe iintsuku ezingwevu.
Kuqhelekile ukuba ungayamkeli yonke imeko, ukuba unoxinzelelo kwaye unexhala. Iimvakalelo zinokungalawuleki kwaye ubukrelekrele bakho bunokugcwala kwimicimbi yemizuzwana. Ungazibeki tyala, kwenzeka kuthi sonke, ke yeka ukuziva ungenamandla ngokuchasene nayo.
Xa kukho into embi eyenzekayo kuqhelekile ukuba ube buhlungu, kwaye kufuneka ukhuphe iimvakalelo zakho kwaye kufuneka uthathe izigqibo ezinzima. Xa woyisa ezi meko, uya kuba ufunde ukuphatha izinto kokubini impumelelo yakho kunye nokusilela kwakho. Xa kubuhlungu ngenye imini kuba uziva ukoyiswa yiyo yonke into enento yokwenza noxanduva lokuba ngumama, Uya kuyigqitha kwaye uyayixabisa loo ntlungu iya kukomeleza.
Amanxeba aya kuphola kwaye ngexesha eliya kuhlala kuphela kwinkumbulo. Vumela loo mava ukuba agcwalise intliziyo yakho ngokufunda nobulumko, kuba ukuba kukho into abantwana bakho abakunika yona, bubulumko, nalo lonke uthando olungenamiqathango olukhoyo!
Kuko konke oku, sifuna ukukunika ingcebiso: wonwabele amaxesha angalindelekanga kwaye cinga ukuba loo mizuzu ayimibi, kuba iya kukufundisa izinto ezinkulu ebomini bakho. Imvakalelo inokukwenza uhleke okanye uncume, kwaye kulula ukuyamkela kunabantu ababi. Izimanga zamkelekile kuba into engaziwayo inomdla kwaye umphumo uya kuba mnandi.
Izinto azenzeki ngendlela obucinga ngayo kusapho lwakho, kodwa ufikelele kwiinjongo zakho. Kungenxa yokuba sibona ikamva ngeglasi ezipinki. Ukufika kwindawo esiya kuyo kunzima kakhulu kunokuba sicinga, kwaye le mizabalazo yeyona ndlela ibuhlungu yokuphumelela. Kuyamangalisa ukukuqonda oko, kodwa imizabalazo ikubekele umlo wokwenene ongaphambili. Vumela iintloko ezipholileyo ziphumelele kwaye zisebenze ngotshintsho olungalindelekanga. Oku kusilela okwethutyana kuya kukukhokelela kwimpumelelo yokuba ngumama owonwabileyo kunye nabantwana bakho.