Kuhlala kucingwa ukuba umntwana okhula kunye nomntakwabo omdala uzakukhulisa izakhono zakhe zolwimi ngokukhawuleza… Kodwa kubonakala ngathi akunjalo. Ngokophando lwaseFrance olwenziwe liZiko leSizwe loPhando lwezeNzululwazi kwelo lizwe, Kufunyenwe ukuba umntwana onabantakwenu abadala uza kuphucula ubuchule bakhe bolwimi.
Oku kwenzeka kuphela xa ungumntwana, kuba xa unodadewenu omdala, oko akunampembelelo kuphuhliso lolwimi. Olu phando lupapashwe kwiphephancwadi Iingcali zeNzululwazi. Uphando oluninzi lubonakalisile ukuba umntwana ufumana ulwimi kancinci ukuba unomnakwenu omdala kwaye awunayo ukuba unodadewenu omdala.
Emva kohlolisiso oluninzi bafumanisa ukuba amakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana anabantakwabo abadala banolibaziseko lweenyanga ezimbini zolwimi xa kuthelekiswa namanye amakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana abanodade wabo abadala. Zimbini iingcinga zokuba kutheni le nto inokwenzeka:
- Oodade abadala bayathetha ngakumbi kwaye banokuba sisikhuthazi esihle sokufunda isigama.
- Oodade abadala abanamona ngokuhoywa ngabazali njengabantakwenu abadala.
Ukongeza, kolu phando bayenza yacaca loo nto ngaphezulu abantakwenu abadala ... izakhono zolwimi ezingaphantsi. Mhlawumbi yonke into inxulumene nokhuphiswano olujolise ekuqwalaselweni ngabazali, amakhwenkwe akhuphisana ngakumbi kunamantombazana kwaye asusa umntakwabo okanye udade wabo omncinci ngendlela ethile, ke ngekhe ibe sisalathiso esihle kulwimi.
Izifundo zibonisa ukuba Iziphumo ezingalunganga kuphuhliso lolwimi lwabantakwenu okanye oodade abancinci zenzeka kuphela xa abantakwenu abadala bengamakhwenkwe. Ngale ndlela, ukuba unabantwana abadala abangamakhwenkwe, kuya kufuneka uxhase ngakumbi ukukhula kolwimi lwabantwana bakho abancinci.