Oonobangela abaziintloko bokuzibulala kulutsha

Ixesha lokufikisa lixesha elinzima apho umzimba nengqondo zitshintsha khona kakhulu. Ebuntwaneni, abantwana badlula kuhlobo lokufikisa, kuphela kukuba ngokungabinangxaki, okanye ukungabazi, abanamngcipheko wokuzibulala njengabantu abadala. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka sikhathalele impilo yengqondo yabantwana bethu kwasekuqaleni kwaye hayi xa sele lihambile ixesha.

Ukwazi izizathu zokuba kutheni ulutsha luthatha isigqibo sokuzibulala kubalulekile ukuzama ukukuthintela kwimeko ezizayo. Kwilizwe lethu, ukuzibulala kungunobangela wesithathu okhokelela ekufeni kwabantu abatsha ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-15 ukuya kwengama-29 ubudala. Ngaphandle kokungabali mali kuninzi lokusweleka, izizathu ezinokubakho kufuneka zaziwe ukuze kuthintelwe kwixesha elizayo. Eyona ndlela isetyenzisiweyo, Ngokwezifundo zamva nje, bexhonyiwe, ukukrwitshwa okanye ukufuthaniseka kulandelwa kukutsiba kungena.

Izizathu eziphambili zokuzibulala phakathi kolutsha

Uxinzelelo

Es Esinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuzibulala, hayi kuphela kulutsha, kodwa nakwabadala. Nabantwana abancinci banokuyifumana. Uxinzelelo kufuneka luthathwe njengeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukuxelela ukuba unoxinzelelo, mveni yena. Asiyondlela nje yokuthetha; usenokuba uxinezelekile kwaye ufuna uncedo. Esi sifo sengqondo sibangela iimvakalelo ezibi kakhulu kunye nemida, njengokuphelelwa lithemba kunye nokungaxabiseki. Bazi abantu abatsha abaziva bengaxabisekanga kwaye bengenayo igalelo kulo mhlaba.

Ukongeza, imeko yomngcipheko yindawo embi yasekhaya. Ukuxhatshazwa kwabantu abaninzi kunokubangela uxinzelelo. Ukuba baziva bebodwa esikolweni okanye ekhaya, kunokwenzeka ukuba badandatheke okanye babe neengcinga ezibuhlungu, ezinokubangela ukuzenzakalisa kwaye ekugqibeleni bazibulale. Yazisa umntwana wakho yonke imihla ukuba ukhona ukumnceda; ukuba akayedwa emhlabeni kwaye unokuhlala ethembele kuwe. Mncede nanini na xa kunokwenzeka kwaye ummeme ukuba axoxe ngokudakumba kwakhe nengcali. Kodwa eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukufika kwindawo yokuqala yeli lizwe kwaye wazi ukuba kungenxa yantoni.

Bandezeleka kakhulu

Kubekho iimeko zokuzibulala kwabantu abancinci ngaphandle kwengxaki ezibonakalayo, benobomi obonwabileyo ngokupheleleyo, abathathe obabo ubomi ukusukela ngemini enye ukuya kolandelayo. Ukubandezeleka ngenxa yempembelelo yeemvakalelo okanye ukuphoxeka kungakhokelela kutyekelo lokuzibulala ukuba awazi ukuba ungajongana njani nezi ngxaki. Ukwahlukana kwezothando, ukwaliwa komntu owayexatyisiwe okanye ukusilela koko bebezimisele ukukwenza, zezona meko ziphambili ezikhokelela ulutsha kwinqanaba eliqatha njengokuzibulala.

Uxinzelelo

Ngakumbi nangakumbi ulutsha lufunyaniswa lunoxinzelelo, kwiimeko ezininzi ukusuka kwizifundo okanye iingcinga ezingalunganga ngekamva labo. Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kunye nokucinezelwa kakhulu okanye uxhalabile kunokubeka umzimba nengqondo kwimeko yeemvakalelo abaninzi abangayaziyo ukuphuma kwayo.. Kuya kufuneka uzame ukubafundisa kwasebuntwaneni ukuqala ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo.

Mamela umntwana wakho xa ecaphukile. Unokuba nomthwalo omninzi entlokweni yakho, enokuthi ikhokelele kwimeko yoxinzelelo lwemanic, ukuzenzakalisa okanye ukusebenzisa izinto ze-narcotic ukuzama ukuphuma kuloo meko.

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Ungamnceda njani uMntwana oXinzelelekileyo noXhalabileyo

Iziyobisi

Ubulula bokuthenga iziyobisi kwilizwe lethu yingxaki enkulu kulutsha lwethu. Into eqala ngokuthi "ukuzama nje" inokuphela ububi obunzima ukususa Phakathi kweengqondo ezibuthathaka Iziyobisi zibonakala ziyindlela elula yokuphuma, kodwa iya kuba yeyokwexeshana. Ngokuhamba kwexesha ingqondo iya isiba mandundu kwaye isenokukhokelela ekuzibulaleni.

Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo

Okokugqibela, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kungakhokelela kulutsha lwethu ukuba luzibulale. Inkqubo ye- abakwishumi elivisayo abanembali yosapho yeengxaki zengqondo okanye abanamava okuzibulala kwelinye ilungu losapho, basemngciphekweni omkhulu wokuzibulala. Izizathu ezingasentla zingakhokelela kukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okunzulu, njenge-paranoid schizophrenia, ukuphazamiseka kobuntu kunye nezinye izifo zengqondo ezinokutshintsha indlela elijongwa ngayo ilizwe.

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Ukuziqhelanisa nokuncamathisela abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo.

Into ekhohlisayo ngokuzibulala kukuba ayinasizathu sinye; ukuba ebenayo, ngesele isisombulule okanye ibinokwenzeka kwizihlandlo ezimbalwa. Ukuba ungumntu owakha wanazo okanye oneengcinga zolu hlobo, cela uncedo. Thetha ngayo nomntu omthembileyo, kwaye uthathe inyathelo lokubuyela umva. Khumbula; Nokuba angakanani na amafu esibhakabhakeni, ilanga lihlala likhanya ngaphezulu.