Ukuba ufuna ukumisela okulindelweyo kumntwana wakho ekuphela kwakhe, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo le nto sikuxelela yona apha ngezantsi ... Kuba ukuba ngutata okanye umama akukho lula, kodwa ukuba kuphela komntwana kunokubangela inkxalabo ngakumbi kunye nomnqweno wokwenza kakuhle.
Yiba sengqiqweni
Kuba abantwana abaninzi abangabantwana kuphela banobuchule bokuthetha kwaye baphumelele kakhulu besebancinci, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuba bazi ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha efanelekileyo kubo.
Kunzima ukuxelela xa utyhala kakhulu kwaye xa ungatyhali ngokwaneleyo. Ngeminyaka esi-7 okanye esi-8 ubudala, kuphela ngabantwana abakhangeleka ngathi ngabantu abadala, bahlala becinga ukuba abanye abantwana abafanga. Njengabazali, kuya kufuneka nizame ukuhlangabezana nolindelo olusengqiqweni- khumbula ukuba umntwana wakho unomntwana omnye kuphela
Andifuni kugqibelela
Uninzi lwabantwana kuphela, ukugqibelela kubonakala ngathi kuyahamba nomhlaba. Ngabantwana kuphela abafuna ukukholisa abazali babo, kwaye ekubeni benxibelelana nabantu abadala, bamkela imilinganiselo yabantu abadala. Oku kunokukhokelela kumthandi wepiyano oneminyaka eli-10 ubudala ukuzicinezela ngokungeyomfuneko ukuba afunde wonke umsebenzi kaTchaikovsky ngaphambi kokulala.
Yazisa umntwana wakho ukuba kulungile ukuzibekela iinjongo, kodwa ukuba kukho ezinye izinto ebomini ngaphandle komsebenzi, kwaye akazukuziqhenya ngaye ukuba akaphumeleli kwisikolo sepiyano esihle. Kuphela ngabantwana abadinga ixesha kunye nendawo yokwenza nantoni na abayifunayo.
Oomama kufuneka baqonde ukuba intombi yabo eneminyaka emi-6 ubudala ngekhe ingabi ngumdlalo wokuzivocavoca we-Olimpiki angazange abe yiyo, kwaye abazali kufuneka bayamkele into yokuba unyana wabo akazukuba ngugqirha, igqwetha. Okanye inkwenkwezi ye-rock ephumeleleyo nge-Grammy (oh, kunye noso-billionaire) xa egqiba iminyaka engama-30. Umntwana wakho ekuphela kwakhe ngunyana wakho ekuphela kwakhe, hayi ithuba lakho lesibini lokuhlawulelwa, ke sukunyanzela i-ajenda yakho kuye. Endaweni yoko, makaphonononge izinto azithandayo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.