Ukuhlala nomntwana ofikisayo ngexesha leeholide zasehlotyeni kunokuba nzima kwabanye abazali. Ukujongana nokutshintsha kwemozulu, ukuthandabuza, hayi kuyo yonke into, ukuxhomekeka kubahlobo, ukuzikhetha ngokuzithandela, kunye ne-fizz yehomoni ngumceli mngeni..
Esinye sezitshixo zokuba nehlobo elungileyo nabo bantwana bakhulu kukwazi balindele ntoni kwiholide zabo kwaye ujonge ukhetho ukuze ulindelo lwabo lufaneleke kubomi bentsapho.
Ixesha elininzi elikhululekileyo?
Iphupha lolutsha lonke kukuvuka ngexesha lesidlo sasemini, uchithe iiyure ngeetekhnoloji ezintsha, ukuba kunye nabahlobo babo okanye ungenzi nto kwaphela imini yonke. Ayinakuxhalabisa abazali. Esona sisombululo sisigqibo ngothethathethwano.
Ungathethana njani nolutsha
- Ngokudibeneyo, cwangciseni ukhululekile imihla ngemihla, masingakulibali ukuba useholideyini.
- Bandakanya zonke izihloko (umhla wokugqibela wokuvuka, ixesha abanokuba ngalo nekhonsoli, iselfowuni okanye iinethiwekhi zentlalo, ngubani inkunkuma ethatha ixesha, ixesha lokufika ekhaya, njl.
- Bandakanya onke amalungu osapho.
- Recuerda que ingxoxo sisitshixo.
- Yenza izivumelwano ezikwenza uzive ukhululekile.
- Ukuthetha-thethana ngeminyinyiva ethile kuya kubenza babone ukuba umbono wakho ubalulekile nawo. Banokwenza izindululo ezinomdla.
- Lonke usapho kufuneka luzinikele ekulandeleni inkqubo yesiqhelo.
Ngokuseka imigaqo esisiseko kunye neendlela, uya kuthintela ukungaqondani okuninzi kunye neempikiswano.
Imisebenzi kude nekhaya
Namhlanje kukho iindlela ezininzi onokuzenza ehlotyeni, izifundo zolwimi, ezemidlalo, ukuzithandela, iinkampu zolutsha, ukuhlala phesheya, njl. Uninzi lwabazali bafuna ukuba abantwana babo bahlale bexakekile ehlotyeni kwaye, ukuba bafunda into, ngcono kakhulu.
Ke ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi ngamava amnandi kubalulekile ukuba ibe ngabo abagqiba ekubeni bazenze kwaye abanyanzeliswa ngabantu abadala njengembopheleleko.
Ulutsha olufikisayo lusafuna ukuba abazali balo babekhona, bathethe nabo, babakhokele kwaye babacebise, nangona kusenokubonakala ngathi yinto eyahlukileyo.
Ukucwangcisa uhambo kunye nolutsha
Kucacile ukuba ulutsha alunazo izinto esizithandayo okanye silindeleyo xa kufikwa kumba wokuhamba. Ukuba sicwangcisa uhambo losapho ngaphandle kokuthatha loo nto kunokuba yinto yobusuku kuye wonke umntu.
Uthethathethwano lubalulekile kule meko. Unokubonelela ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye uvavanye njengentsapho izinto ezilungileyo kunye nezinto ezimbi nganye nganye. Ngale ndlela akukho mntu uya kuziva eshiywe ngaphandle. Ungasoloko ujonga ezinye iindlela, umzekelo unyana wakho ucinga ukuba uza kukruquka, ungamema umhlobo wakhe.
Nangona ulutsha ngamanye amaxesha lubonakala njengolona luhlu lungenamdla nolonqenayo emhlabeni, lufumana umbono wokufumana izinto ezintsha kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Kwenzeka ntoni xa kukho amanqanaba amabi?
Iingcali zicebisa ukunqanda ukusebenza kakubi kwesikolo ekubeni ngumdlalo weqonga wosapho lonke ihlobo. Ukohlwaya akusebenzi kwezi meko.
Kusebenza ngakumbi ngakumbi ukwenza ukuba umntwana wakho athathe uxanduva kwaye ahlanganise isicwangciso sokupasa ngoSeptemba. Nika uncedo lwakho nenkxaso xa bayidinga kodwa kufuneka uhlale uqinile ukuze oko kuvunyelwene ngako kuzalisekiswe.
Ukonwabela iholide kunye kunye nokomeleza amaqhina osapho kubaluleke njengokuphumelela iimviwo zikaSeptemba.
Abahlobo
Uninzi lolutsha, abahlobo babo "lusapho" lwabo. Ngexesha lokufikisa, intlalontle ibalulekile, ngakumbi nabantu abakwiminyaka yakho.
Ukuba unyana wakho unoxanduva kwaye uyazi isangqa sakhe sentlalontle, akufuneki ube noxinzelelo xa ephuma nabahlobo bakhe.
Cinga ngokucwangcisa umsebenzi weqela ngexesha lekhefu lasehlotyeni. Itheko okanye isidlo ekhaya lolunye ukhetho olufanelekileyo kulutsha ukuba luhlalisane.
Ihlobo lithanda
Ihlobo lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba ulutsha luthandane. Ngubani ongalukhumbuliyo uthando lwakhe olukhulu lwasehlotyeni?
Njengabazali kufuneka sicinge ukuba abantwana bethu bayakhula, sibahloniphe ubumfihlo babo kwaye siphephe ukubagweba. Ewe siya kuba ngasemva ukubanika isandla, nokuba yintoni na, xa besibuza.
Umntu okwishumi elivisayo osemathandweni ulutsha olonwabileyo, olwamkela ngakumbi kwaye luzele ngamandla.
Ukonwaba kusapho!