Kunjalo ewe ungasusa i-manias ebantwaneni, okanye ubuncinci sinokuzama. Into yokuqala yokwenza kukuba Ukwahlula phakathi kwe-mania kunye ne-tic. I-Manias zizenzo zokuzithandela, nangona zingazi nto, kwelinye icala, ii-tics zihamba rhoqo kwaye zimfutshane, ziyaphindaphindwa, kodwa azibandakanyekanga, kwaye zibonakala ngokungaqhelekanga.
Kukho abantwana abathi banezinto ezithandwayo njengabazali babo kunye nabantakwabo. Amasiko abawabonileyo kwaye bawafaka ngaphakathi emakhayeni abo, njengokuvala kwangoko nayiphi na idrowa evulekileyo kancinci. Kwelinye icala, ezinye ziqhelekile kumntwana ngamnye, okanye kwintombazana, kwaye iyasebenza ukulawula imicimbi yangaphandle kuye.
Yintoni imanias?
Izinto zokuzonwabisa zizo Iindlela zokuziphatha ezisoloko ziphindaphindwa ngumntwana, kwaye iyasebenza ukulawula imicimbi yangaphandle. Umzekelo, i-mania yokujija iinwele zakho kuba unovalo okanye unovalo. Ngokubanzi ezi nkqubo bayaphumla njengoko umntwana ekhula, kodwa okuchaseneyo kunokwenzeka kwakhona, oko kukuthi kuyaqiniswa. Kungelo xesha ngeli xesha, xa bangenelela kubomi obuqhelekileyo bemihla ngemihla bomntwana, okanye intombazana kwaye baba yinto ephambeneyo xa kufuneka kucelwe uncedo.
Sinceda ukuhlukanisa into eyi Ukutyekela kwe-mania. Ukuthabatheka kukuphindaphindeka, ukuphazamisa, ukungathandeki, kunye nengcinga engafunekiyo okanye iingcinga eziphindaphindayo nezingalawulekiyo ezikhula engqondweni yomntwana. Oku kubangela uloyiko oluqhubekayo kwaye ke uxinzelelo. Nangona kule blog sithetha ngabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo, inyani yile Ukuphazamiseka okunyanzelekileyo banokunikwa nangaliphi na ixesha. Oomama abaxolelwanga kubo kwaye singabadlulisela njengesiqhelo kubantwana bethu.
Kwakhona kufuneka Yahlula phakathi kweemanias kunye nezithethe zeqela abantwana abaninzi bakhula bekwiminyaka yokuhamba isikolo. Umzekelo, soloko ulayini emva kweqabane elinye, nokuba akukho myalelo ucwangcisiweyo. Imibuliso evela kwiqela lezemidlalo kunye nabanye abayithandayo. Ezi "manias" zinxulunyaniswa nokukhula kunye nokuziqinisekisa komntwana.
Ngaba izinto zokuzonwabisa zabantwana zinokususwa?
Njengoko besitshilo ngaphambili, ngokubanzi, ii-manias zinokususwa, kwaye eneneni zihlala zidlula ixesha. Kubalulekile ukuba njengomama uzame sukugxininisa kakhulu Kwinto eyenzekayo kuye, kwimania anayo, ke ngekhe ayinike yona. kubhetele ukuba ubone i-manias yabo njengesiqhelo kunye nobudala obuqhelekileyo. Oko akuthethi ukuba awuphaphileyo kwimeko ewohlokayo.
Manias Zizixhobo umntwana anazo zokugubungela iimfuno ezithile okanye ukunciphisa iimvakalelo ezimbi. Kubalulekile ukuba umfundise, kancinci kancinci, ukubuyisela esi "sixhobo" ngezakhono ezitsha. Abantwana kufuneka bazive bekhululekile ngexesha elithile, ukuba bazole xa bencokola ekhaya, esitratweni okanye esikolweni, kwaye kulapho bakhula khona umkhwa wobundlongondlongo. Umgangatho ofanelekileyo kukumfundisa ukuba ajongane nobunzima bobomi. Umzekelo wakho ubalulekile koku, ukuze abone kuwe ukhuseleko kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Menze aqonde ukuba akukho nto yenzekayo xa esenza impazamo xa esenza izinto.
Ziqhelanise naye iindlela zokuphumla kosana Kwaye ukwazi indlela yokuchonga imeko ebangela le mania kuya kukunceda. Umzekelo, ukuba uyabona ukuba uluma iinzipho, into eqheleke kakhulu, endaweni yokumthethisa, zama ukuyiphambukisa encinci iye komnye umsebenzi.
Ungabanceda njani abantwana balahle i-manias
Emva kwezinto zokuzonwabisa zabantwana kuhlala kukho imeko yokungakhululeki kwicala lomntwana. Indlela yokulwa ne-manias kukufumana umthombo woxinzelelo. Enye indlela, nangona singazi ukuba yintoni ebangela ukungonwabi ukuphumla, imidlalo okanye umculo. Uyazi ukuba yintoni ebangela imania, uya kuba kufutshane ekusombululeni.
Khulula umzimba, udanise, Ukuhamba, ukwenza umthambo, kuyanceda ukukhulula uxinzelelo. Oku kuhamba kunye nokuzilolonga kuya kuthoba inqanaba lomsebenzi wakho. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana abe neendawo zakhe ezizolileyo.
Khumbula ukuba ngokwembono yendaleko, abantwana baba ngqongqo ngakumbi xa bebancinci kwaye kancinci kancinci baba bhetyebhetye. Ngumnqweno wabo wokulawula imicimbi ebakhokelela ekubeni basoloko benxiba ikomityi enye, iipijama ezifanayo ... Xa bephumelela ukuzithemba, Bayazikhulula ezi manias.