Sele unomntwana wakho ezandleni zakho. Ukuzalwa nje kwakhe, wabekwa esifubeni sakho kwaye nobabini nafumana ulonwabo olukhulu. Ngoku lithuba lakho lokuba ujongane naye kwaye awuyazi nokuba ungambamba njani! Iintsana zikhangeleka njalo ithambile ukuba oomama nootata abaninzi, ingakumbi abo baqalayo ukuya kuqala, bayoyika ukubabamba ezingalweni zabo.
Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba uzive ngolu bhukisho. Kodwa Akukho mfuneko yokubonakalisa oku kungaqiniseki okanye uloyiko. Kufuneka ubambe umntwana osanda kuzalwa ngokuqinileyo nangononophelo, uya kudlulisela naluphi na uloyiko kumntwana kwaye uya kuziva ekhululekile kwaye engakhuselekanga kunawe.
Thembela ithuku lokuchola umntwana osanda kuzalwa
Ithuku lakho, nelotata ngokunjalo, liya kukunika isandla esilungileyo sokubamba usana olusanda kuzalwa ezingalweni zakho. Kodwa kuyo nayiphi na imeko akulimazi ukuba neengcamango ezicacileyo. Phakathi kwezi ngcamango khumbula ukuba nokanye uyibambe ngezandla ezibandayo okanye ezimdaka.
Thatha usana olusanda kuzalwa ukubamba umqolo wakho nentloko, Yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Intamo yakho ayisayi kukwazi ukuxhasa intloko de kube ziinyanga ezintathu zokuqala okanye kunjalo. Ngoko ngesandla esinye ubambe umqolo wakho kunye nentloko yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha kwaye, kunye nokuziqhelanisa, nokuba Ngesandla esifanayo ukuba ubambe umqolo wakhe unako ukubamba intloko yakhe. Ukwenza oku kufuneka ubeke intende yesandla sakho kwindawo ephezulu yomqolo womntwana kwaye uxhase intloko yakhe ngeminwe yakho. Ngesinye isandla uyibambe ngempundu uyisondeze emzimbeni wakho. Ukuhlala unaso kufutshane nomzimba wakho kuya kuwenza uzive ukhuselekile kwaye ukhuselekile.
ukuba mlalise Yayama phezu kwebhedi yakhe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Musa ukuyisusa emzimbeni wakho kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela. Okokuqala uxhasa iesile lakhe, aze emva koko axhase umzimba wakhe wonke, ngoxa esalibambile, yaye ekugqibeleni uxhasa intloko yakhe. Ide ilale phantsi, musa ukusisusa isandla sakho entlokweni yayo;
Indlela yokuthabatha umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa ukumondla?
Sele siphawule elinye inqaku izikhundla ezahlukeneyo zokuncancisa umntwana. Ezi ziza kutshintsha njengoko umntwana ekhula. Kodwa ngoku siza kugxila ekuncanciseni okanye ekuncanciseni ibhotile usana olusanda kuzalwa.
Njengoko sihlala sigqabaza Iya kuba ngumama kunye nonyana othatha isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi eyona ilungileyo, apho bobabini bekhululekile. Ukuba awuziva ukhululekile, uya kudlulisela le mvakalelo kumntwana, kwaye amava akayi kuba mnandi nakubani na.
Indawo Rhoqo Ukuncancisa okanye ukuncelisa ibhotile usana olusanda kuzalwa, lusemva kwabo, intloko yabo ibanjwe kwi-crook ye-elbow yakho. Unokufaka i-cushions kumqolo wakho naphantsi kwengalo ukuze bangasindi, okanye usebenzise izixhaso ezibekwe kwisofa kule njongo. Usenokuncancisa umntwana wakho elele ngecala. Ukwenza oku kuya kufuneka ubeke intloko yakho phezu komqamelo kunye nosana olusanda kuzalwa lulele ecaleni kwakho.
Indlela yokuhlonipha kwaye uxelele iindwendwe ukuba zingambambi umntwana
Ukuthatha umntwana osandul’ ukuzalwa nokumtotosa, ukuthetha naye ngamagama amnandi nokuzama ukumenza azive ekhululekile yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. ilungele abazali kunye nosana. Ukuyibamba kukhuthaza ukudibana kwesikhumba kunye notshintsho kwisikhundla kuyayivuselela kwaye incede kuphuhliso lwengqondo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba iindwendwe zithande kakhulu kwaye ziphuze.
Abantu abaninzi abaqondi uloyiko loomama ukuba iindwendwe ziya kuthabatha umntwana osanda kuzalwa. Ukususela ngoku ukuya phambili uya kuziva ukhuseleke ngakumbi. Yinto eqhelekileyo, ayenzeki kuwe. Oomama abaninzi baba nobunzima ngokwenene xa abanye abantu bebamba iintsana zabo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala. Baziva besongelwa, benzakele, benzakele. Khumbuza abo bafuna ukubamba umntwana ukuba ayingonodoli okanye unodoli onokugqithiselwa esandleni. Esi senzo sisenziwa ngoyena mntu ubonakalisa uthando, ekugqibeleni simenza usana luphakuzele, luze lumenze abhideke ukuba ngubani na ongumama walo.
Sincoma oko Iintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa zibanjwa kuphela ngumama, okanye iqabane lakhe. Kamva, ekhaya, abantakwenu abadala baya kubo baze bababonise uthando lwabo.