Wuphephe umzabalazo ongunaphakade nomsebenzi wasekhaya

Intombazana yenza umsebenzi wasekhaya wobuntwana iyodwa.

Abantwana boyisiwe kwaye abaqhubi kakuhle nasesikolweni, baziva benyanzelekile ukuba benze iiyure zomsebenzi wesikolo.

Unyaka emva konyaka abantwana nabazali kufuneka bajongane nomsebenzi ongekenziwa esikolweni. Ekhaya, abazali kufuneka baphinde bafunde izifundo ezahlukeneyo ngokwesantya sabantwana babo kwaye bathathe uxanduva lokugqiba umsebenzi wabo wasekhaya. Masibone indlela yokujongana nokubuyela emsebenzini wesikolo ngaphandle kokubandezeleka kakhulu.

Umsebenzi wasekhaya: umsebenzi owoyikisayo kunye odinayo

Wonke umzali uyayikhumbula loo nto kwiminyaka eyadlulayo owona mcimbi uphambili xa wayeka iklasi yayingengowasekhaya. Ngaphambi kokuba uyeke isikolo ubuya kufumana i-snack ethuleyo phambi komabonwakude eneentsomi Imidwebo obekukhapha rhoqo emva kwemini emva koko wenze imithambo. Emva koko, ubunalo ixesha lokuphuma uyokudlala nabahlobo bakho. Ngoku oku kunzima, ukuba akunakwenzeka.

Namhlanje kukho abantwana, ngokuxhomekeke kwinqanaba labo lesikolo, abachitha ixesha elininzi besenza umsebenzi wesikolo kunokudlala okanye ukuphumla. Basishiya isikolo kwaye kufuneka baqhubeke nokufunda. Abantwana kufuneka bajongane nolo xanduva lwemihla ngemihla kwaye bazali ngokulinganayo. Abazali kufuneka babone ukuba bayenza njani imisebenzi yabo yootitshala kwaye bayenza ngaphandle kokubuza, ngomnqweno nomgudu.

Ngale nto, ingxoxo-mpikiswano inokuvela malunga nokuba imisebenzi yesikolo ebekwe kulo naliphi na ibakala lemfundo mininzi kakhulu emntwaneni. Ngokuqinisekileyo umzali ngamnye unoluvo kunye nomzekelo wokuzibeka. Ewe ewe Ndingayiphepha silwe Okuqhubekayo kukuba abantwana bangakonwabela ukonwaba kwabo kwemihla ngemihla emva kokuchitha iiyure zabo ezihambelana nokufunda esikolweni.

Abazali abavela emsebenzini abafuni kuqhubeka besebenza ekhaya, kodwa bafuna ukuba nobomi bosapho, bathethe, batshintshe kwaye benze ezinye izinto ... Okwangoku abantwana baxakekile kwaye abaqhubi ngokufanayo esikolweni. Umntwana akanako ukuziva ekhululekile, onwabile okanye ephumle ukuba uziva enyanzelekile ukwenza iiyure imisebenzi  Yiza Ekhaya.

Uxanduva lokwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya

Udiniwe umntwana emva kokubuya ekhaya evela esikolweni kwaye kufuneka enze ngakumbi umsebenzi wesikolo.

Kubonakala kugqithisile kwaye kungenankathalo ukunika umntwana imithambo ngaphandle komlinganiso, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ukuba uyasiqonda isifundo.

Umntwana kufuneka afunde ukuba noxanduva kwaye athobele oko kufunwa kuye. Nangona kunjalo, masingalibali ukuba ungumntwana. Oko kubonakala kugqithisile nokungakhathali ukubeka uqeqesho ngaphandle komlinganiselo, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ukuba uyawuqonda lo mbandela. Kuchanekile ukwenza umthambo wokujonga kwakhona zifundo ezintsha ukubenza bachaze ngcono okanye babuze imibuzo ngosuku olulandelayo eklasini. Ngokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo omninzi kangaka, umntwana akazukuzenza ngcono izinto, uya kudinwa kukuzenza.

Ukwenza imisebenzi yesikolo kunceda izakhono zabo zexesha elizayo, kubavumela ukuba basebenzise izixhobo ezinjengokukhangela ulwazi kunye nokuzimela kwabo kunye nokuzimisela. Nangona kunjalo, ayizobufundisi ukuthumela abanye abantwana umsebenzi wasekhaya kuba, ukuze bagqibe incwadi ixeshaEkhaya kunemveliso ukuphinda ufunde isifundo sakho esitsha ukuze usithathe Umhala olandelayo.

Abazali bahlala benomsebenzi owongeziweyo wokuphinda bafunde izifundo okanye ukuzilolonga xa umntwana wakho ecele uncedo lwakho. Kwaye oku ukuba banokuhlala nabantwana, kuba kuyaziwa ukuba iishedyuli zabazali zihlala zingabavumeli ukuba babe sekhaya ngamanye amaxesha xa abantwana babo befika bevela esikolweni. Umntwana uyakhathazeka ngamaxesha amaninzi. Ukuba awuyazi indlela yokwenza umsebenzi, zive ukuhluleka  nokungakwazi ukusebenza. Ukuba ucela uncedo kujongeka kukubi kuba kufanelekile ukuba ukwenze wedwa. Oku kubangela ukuba umntwana abe kumzabalazo rhoqo kunye nokungazinzi.

Impixano evelayo ekhaya nomsebenzi wasekhaya

Nangona kunjalo, Ukuhlala iiyure edesikeni yakho ayisosisombululo sisiso. Amaxesha amaninzi oku kwenza ukuba umntwana adikwe, atyhafiswe, adinwe kwaye angawenzi umsebenzi wasekhaya ngokuchanekileyo okanye aqiniseke. Amaxesha amaninzi umntwana ufuna ukugqiba kwaye angakhathali nokuba enze njani okanye uyala, abe nomsindo, angafuni ukucima umabonwakude okanye axoke esithi akanamsebenzi wesikolo okanye sele egqibile. Pha i ngqu zulwano noxinzelelo phakathi kwamalungu osapho.

Eklasini nangamathandabuzo anokuba nawo, uhlala encediswa okanye ecaciswa kwakhona. Abantwana ekhaya mabaxhaswe nakumsebenzi wabo wasekhaya, bancedwe ukuba balahlekile. Kodwa nawuphi na umzali ofumana umntwana wakhe ehluthi, evaliwe ngokongeza kunye nesixa sokuzilolonga, uya kubenza. kwaye oku akuyi kubenza bakrelekrele kancinci okanye bakulungele ukulandela ubuchule babo kwixesha elizayo. Abazali ke baya kuthatha inxaxheba ekufundeni kwabo kwaye baya kuba nakho ukunika izimvo ngako.


Amanqaku okujongana nabazali nabantwana nomsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya

UNiño akakwazi ukugxila kumsebenzi wakhe wesikolo.

Emntwaneni akufuneki kungcungcuthekiswe ukuba abe nomsebenzi wesikolo, kodwa luxanduva alwenzileyo ngokuzithandela.

  • Yenza umkhwa wokufunda: Funda ngaxeshanye, emva kokutya kunye nokuphumla, ubukele inkqubo ye-TV okwethutyana.
  • Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali: Abantwana akufuneki bavalelwe egumbini labo, ngaphandle kokukwazi ukuphuma, okanye ukubuza imibuzo. Kukho ukungqubana okungakumbi xa umntwana ebona isibophelelo, eziva ehlukene, ethatha ukuba ngqongqo kunye nokuchaneka nangona engayiqondi imigaqo kwaye engakwazi nokucela uncedo, kunokuba abazali bakhe basebenzisane, bemkhaphe kwaye bamkhusele.
  • Lungisa iimfuno zakho, iimeko zobuqu, iingxaki zokhathalelo…: Umntwana kufuneka azive ekwazi ukusondela kubo kwaye angaziboni engeloncedo okanye enqatshelwe. Umntwana unokukufumanisa kunzima ngakumbi ukubandakanya izinto ezithile kunabanye. Basenokungasiqondi isifundo, bathandabuze, boyike ukubuza ... Umntwana kufuneka akhuthazwe, abeke kwimisebenzi eyakhiwe kakuhle abanokuyiqonda kwaye bayigqibe. Ukumohlwaya esikolweni okanye ekhaya ukuze abagqibe kuya kuba lilize.
  • Cwangcisa ixesha elimiselweyo lomsebenzi wesikoloIxesha kufuneka lithathelwe ingqalelo lincitshisiwe kunye nemisebenzi ethile ekulula ukuyenza. Abantwana ngabantwana kwaye kufuneka bakwazi ukudlala nokuphumla. Ukuba sele beyile esikolweni okanye kwizinto ezenziwa ngaphandle, akunamveliso kubo ukuba baqhubeke nokusebenza bediniwe.
  • Cinga ngezixhobo zoqoqosho ze intsaphoIintsapho ezininzi azikwazi ukusebenzisa itekhnoloji ethile okanye iiklasi zabucala. Ngale ndlela umntwana uyakucalulwa kwaye angabinakho ukujongana ngokufanelekileyo nomsebenzi wakhe. Oku kulandela ukuba into ebalulekileyo mayigqitywe ngeeyure zesikolo kunye neengcebiso zikatitshala.

Umsebenzi wesikolo ewe, kodwa bambalwa

Umsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya khuthaza ukuzimela, umsebenzi, umgudu womntu, imikhwa, izixhobo ukuba isetyenziswe ... Ukuphunyezwa kwayo kufuneka kuyalelwe ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye nentsebenziswano ngamaxesha athile abazali okanye abagcini. Kumntwana akufuneki kube kungcungcuthekiswa, kodwa luxanduva alwenza ngokuzithandela. Ngokweminyaka kunye namabanga, umntwana ngamnye kufuneka abenexesha lokuphinda abuyele ekhaya, apho aqhubeka nokuba khona kwaye afezekise iinjongo ezicetywayo, ezijolise kuwo onke amaxesha xa kufuneka njalo.

Umntwana akenzelwanga ukuba abeke ecaleni uxanduva lwakhe, kodwa ukujongana nabo baphumle, bakhululekile kwaye ngaphandle kokwaliwa. Umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya ubusoloko uyingxoxo-mpikiswano, ngakumbi kuye kwagxininiswa ukusuka kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Umzali ngamnye unoluvo lwakhe kwaye kubalulekile kuluntu ezemfundo fikelela kwisivumelwano malunga nentlalontle yomntwana. Ngale ndlela, kuyenzeka ukuba kuthintelwe iingxabano, ukungqubana, uxinzelelo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwemihla ngemihla kumakhaya phakathi kwabazali nabantwana.


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