Elinye lamava oya kuwakhumbula ubomi bakho bonke Kuza kuthi xa ufunda ukukhwela ibhayisekile. Lo mzuzu apho uloyiko lokuwa kunye neemvakalelo zoloyiso kulo mngeni zihlala zihleli kwimemori. Lelinye lala manyathelo abalulekileyo aya kuthathwa ngumntwana wakho ekukhuleni kwakhe, kwaye uyakukhumbula ngawe ngalo lonke ixesha lokuphila kwakhe. Namhlanje sifuna ukukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukukhwela ibhayisekile.
Imozulu entle lelona xesha ulithandayo
Ngokufika kwemozulu elungileyo, kuxa abantwana abaninzi benesibindi sokutsiba kwibhayisikile ngaphandle kwamavili. Iintsuku zinde, ke kukho iiyure ezininzi zokunikezela kuyo. Ayisiyonto ifezekiseka ngokulula, kungoko ukubaluleka kwayo, kwaye sisizathu esikhulu sokwenza isicwangciso esikhethekileyo sosapho.
Kukwakhona Kubalulekile ukuba usebenzise ibhayisekile. Kufuneka ibe yibhayisikile elungele iminyaka yakho nokuphakama ukuze ukwazi ukuyiphatha ngokulula, kwaye ayiphantsi kakhulu okanye iphezulu kakhulu okanye inzima kakhulu. Yenza kube lula ukuyisebenzisa, ikhuselekile kwaye ikhululekile. Inkqubo ye- isigcina-ntloko siyimfuneko kuba asizukukwazi ukunqanda ukuwa kwamaxesha okuqala. Sonke siyayikhumbula ngovuyo ibhayisekile yethu yokuqala, esathi safunda ngayo ukuyikhwela.
Ngelo xesha, abazali abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba bangenza ntoni ukunceda abantwana babo bakhwele ibhayisekile. Kungenxa yoko le nto namhlanje sikunika ezi zitshixo ukuze usapho lonke lube namava awodwa kwaye awulibaleki.
Ungamfundisa njani umntwana wakho ukukhwela ibhayisekile
- Fumana indawo efanelekileyo. Fumana indawo ebanzi enjenge-esplanade eyenziwe kakuhle apho kungekho bantu okanye zithintelo kwaye unokuziqhelanisa ngaphandle kweengxaki.
- Ukhuseleko kuqala. Isigcina-ntloko siya kukugcina kwimeko yokuwa. Kufuneka ubakhumbule kwaye ubaqhelise abantwana kwizinto abanokuzinxiba. Isigcina-ntloko sinyanzelekile, iiphedi zamadolo kunye neengqiniba azikho.
- Kuqala kufuneka usebenze imali eseleyo. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuqala kukufezekisa ibhalansi ngaphambi kokuqala ukukhwela ibhayisekile. Ngale nto sinokukunceda ukuthoba isali ukuze ibe nokunxibelelana ngakumbi nomhlaba kunye susa iiphedali. Unokufumana ithambeka elincinci ukuze likunike amandla kwaye kufuneka ugcine ibhalansi yakho, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka malunga nokuhamba ngenyawo. Oku kuya kuphucula ibhalansi yakho kunye noloyiko lwakho lokuwa.
- Funda ukujika. Emva kokuba ugcine ibhalansi yakho, okulandelayo kukufunda indlela yokutshintsha ulwalathiso ngeempondo. Nje ukuba eli nyathelo lisebenze kakuhle, singabeka iiphedali kuyo.
- Ukusonga okokuqala. Ngokuhamba kwakhe okokuqala, eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba usecaleni kwakhe. Ungahamba ecaleni kwakhe Ngelixa umbambe ngasemva okanye ngamagxa, ngelixa umkhuthazayo ukuba anyohlise. Iya kukunika ukuzithemba kunye nenkuthazo yokuqhubeka nokuzama nokuba uyawa. Sukuyibamba ibhayisekile kutheni kungenjalo umntwana akazokwazi ukulawula ibhalansi.
- Unomonde omninzi. Ayisiyonto ifezekisiweyo ngosuku. Musa ukumcinezela, ukumngxolisa, okanye ukohlwaya ukuba akayifumani kwakamsinya. Kukho abantwana abafuna iiyure ezimbalwa kwaye abanye bafuna iintsuku, akukho nto iphosakeleyo kuloo nto. Ukuba uyamthethisa, into oza kuyifumana kukuba uza kumthiya. Okona kulungileyo kuhlala kungo ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo. Mkhuthaze kwimpumelelo nganye, mvuyisele kwinyathelo ngalinye aliphumeleleyo kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba aphumelele elandelayo.
Izibonelelo zokuhamba ngebhayisekile
Ukongeza kwixabiso elinomdla wokufunda ukukhwela ibhayisekile, ikwanazo nezinto ezininzi ezilungileyo. Ngokwenza umthambo uya kuba nempilo engcono, umzimba wakho uya usomelela kwaye nokuphefumla kwakho kuya kuphucula. Amajoni akho omzimba aya kuphucuka kwaye uya kulunga. Umkhwa osempilweni kunye nendalo, luluncedo emzimbeni wethu nakwindawo esingqongileyo. Njengoko sibona, kungaphezulu kwesiko.
Kuba khumbula ... nokuba uhlala kwisixeko esikhulu okanye akunjalo, kuyakuhlala kukho indawo kunye nexesha lokufundisa umntwana wakho ukukhwela ibhayisekile.