Ngaphakathi kwimfundo yabantwana kunye nobomi babantu ngokubanzi, ukuguquguquka kubalulekile. Ivumela abantu ukuba bajikeleze iimeko kunye nobudlelwane, nangona kubonakala ngathi kunzima kwi-priori, kunokuba lula ngokuguquguquka okuthile. Ukuzinza, ngokuthe ngqo, kuthetha: "Ukuzimisela ukutshintsha okanye ukulalanisa."
Igama 'ukuzibophelela' lihlala liphathwa phantse njengegama elimdaka. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu banokuthetha ngenkqubo yokhuseleko 'yokulalaniswa', Oko kuthetha ukuba inempazamo okanye indawo ebuthathaka ethe yaphulwa.
Nangona kunjalo, intsingiselo yokwenyani yokuguquguquka okanye ukuvuma ukutshintsha okanye ukulalanisa kufuneka ivuleke, ingekuko kwimeko ebuthathaka okanye engalunganga "evulekileyo yokuhlasela." Ukuba bhetyebhetye luphawu olulungileyo lomzali nakwisazinzulu ngokufanayo. Utshintsho kwizicwangciso? Uvavanyo alusebenzi? Umntu oguqukayo uthatha lula kwaye uzama enye indlela.
Ukuba bhetyebhetye kunokunceda abazali:
- Khuthaza ukuvumelana: Kulula ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle nabantu abanokuvuma ukuba bayaphosisa okanye basebenze nawe ukufumana umhlaba ophakathi.
- Nceda utshintshe ikhosi xa izinto zingasebenzi: Thatha umzekelo njengomzekelo. Ukuba uyilo lwakho luyaqhubeka nokungasebenzi kakuhle, ukuba bhetyebhetye kukuvumela ukuba uzame isisombululo esahlukileyo ngaphandle kokujonga indlela ethile.
Ukuba bhetyebhetye kukuchasene nokulawula okanye ukuqiniseka, kokufuna ukuba nayo yonke into ngendlela yakho. Abantu ababhetyebhetye bayakhula kwaye bakhule kuba bezimisele ukubona imiceli mngeni kunye neemeko ezivela kwiindlela ezininzi kwaye bakulungele ngakumbi ukufumana indawo esivumelana ngayo.
Ke ngoko, ubhetyebhetye luphawu olulungileyo lwabantu, abantwana kunye neentsapho ukudala ubudlelwane bokwenyani. Ukuba bhetyebhetye kuyimfuneko ukuze ukhulise abantwana abonwabileyo kwaye uqhubele phambili ebomini nakweyiphi na iminyaka!