Amanani abantu ababhinqileyo abangamaxhoba obundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini ayaqhubeka ukothusa, ngaphandle kokuba amaziko kunye neminye imibutho yoluntu kunye neyabucala izama ukubonelela kunye nenkxaso kubo bonke. Khumbula ukuba Inombolo yomnxeba engu-016 inceda amaxhoba ababhinqileyo. Ayishiyi mkhondo kwi-invoyisi, kodwa kuya kufuneka uyicime kwimbali yokufowuna.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba umnxeba uye ku-016 Abasetyhini abaninzi ababuqondi ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini phakathi kwamaqabane abo. Ngamanye amaxesha uxhatshazo alubonakali kangako, kuba ngaphambi kokubethwa kufika ukuphulukana nokuzithemba okanye ukujongwa rhoqo. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ezinye zeempawu ezinokukunceda ubone imeko yobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini, masihambe nayo.
Iimpawu ezichonga umntu obethwayo
Nazi ezinye izinto ezinokukwenza uqonde ukuba uhlala kwimeko yobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini. Akukho mfuneko yokuba zinikwe zonke, nokuba zinganyelisi. Ngokuchanekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yendlela esidityaniswe ngayo nolu hlobo lokuziphatha, kunye nokuzithoba, yiyo loo nto bengachongwa njengobundlobongela, kodwa njengenxalenye yokuhlangana. Kwaye i ukuqheleka kwezi patheni zezona zinobungozi.
Eminye yale miqondiso yile, umzekelo, umona kunye nokuba nelifa, okuhlala kubonakala ekujongeni iselfowuni nangasiphi na isizathu, okanye ukubuza ukuba ngubani lo okanye leya ndoda, okanye yile iqhelekileyo, kutheni ekubizile? Kule meko, i isityholo sokudlala ngothando ngumfazi, okanye ngokuthe ngqo kwisityholo sokungathembeki, okanye ukufuna ukungathembeki. Ubunini bunokuzibonakalisa ngokucela iiakhawunti zeendleko, nokuba uzimele.
Singachonga abafazi ababethwayo ungafuni ukuphuma okanye ube nobudlelwane nabahlobo, abantu osebenza nabo okanye usapho, uyeke ukufunda nokuba uyasebenza okanye ulungiselela ezinye izikhundla.
Kwiimeko ezicace gca, amadoda ahlazisa la mabhinqa phambi kwabanye, kwiimeko ezininzi azikho, ke musa ukuvumela. Ngamana angafika izoyikiso, uhlaselo, Ukwabelana ngesondo nkqu, ukungakuvumeli phambi kwabantwana, okanye ukhuphisana nawe ukuze bakuthathele ingqalelo.
Ubundlobongela besini kuwo onke amacandelo ezentlalo
Ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini benzeka, ngakumbi kwiifayile ze- Ububanzi obuqhelekileyo, kuloo mbhangqwana, kwaye ayiqondi iiklasi zentlalo, iintlanga okanye amazwe. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, sele kudlulisiwe kwinani labasetyhini abangama-47 ababulawa ngamaqabane abo ngo-2018. I-80% yaba bafazi khange baxele kwaye, phantse ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba abazamkeli njengamaxhoba. Isikhalazo siza emva kweminyaka emininzi yokuphathwa gadalala kunye nobundlobongela cwaka.
Amaxhoba obundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini ayingobantu basetyhini kuphela abazuze njengelifa imfundo yobukhokho, okanye imfundo yesini, kodwa yonke imihla idlula ngamantombazana kunye nabasetyhini abancinci, kwizikolo eziphakamileyo nasezikolweni.
Ngokophando lwamva nje lwe-INE (Iziko leLizwe lezibalo) I-12,5% yabasetyhini ngaphezulu kwe-16 baye baphathwa gadalala ngokwesini.
Simahla, isicelo ngokuchasene nobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini
Iminyaka eliqela iSebe lezeMpilo kunye nezeNtlalo lisungule isicelo, Simahla. Sisibonelelo, esifumaneka kwi-Android kunye ne-Ios, kwabasetyhini abangamaxhoba obundlobongela, Kwaye nakwabo babona ezi meko kwimeko yabo, ngubani onokuzixela.
Imenyu ephambili yesicelo ibandakanya izicatshulwa, iifowuni eziluncedo, ubungqina, iividiyo, iaudiyo, iingcebiso, amaxwebhu kunye namakhonkco kumaphepha ewebhu aluncedo kakhulu. Unokufumana amanyathelo okuzikhusela ukukhusela ukhuseleko lwakho kunye nolwakho Oonyana.
Sisixhobo sasimahla, esigcina ifayile ye- ukugcinwa kwemfihloKulula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa kwaye ifikeleleke kubantu abanezakhono ezahlukeneyo. Nangona icingelwa kwaye yenzelwe ulutsha kunye nabasetyhini abancinci, yenzelwe yonke iminyaka, kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba uyayifuna, yisebenzise: nokuba awuziva “umncinci kakhulu, kwaye ungafakwanga kubuchwepheshe obutsha”.