Fundisa abantu abadala abanoxanduva ngale migangatho ebuntwaneni

Fundisa abantwana abanenkathalo

Siphila kwihlabathi eliya lisanda ukutshintsha, apho abantwana bekhula benokuyekelela ngakumbi kunye nolawulo oluncinci, Kodwa enyanisweni, zombini ezi zinto zimbi zinokuba yingozi nakubantwana. Ukuze abantwana babe nobuntwana obuhle kwaye bakhule bexanduva, baya kuyidinga imigaqo kunye nemida, ewe, kodwa bahlala bezolile kwaye behlonipha abantwana, kuba ngabantu abafanelwe yimbeko yakho kuzo zonke iinkalo.

Njengotata okanye umama, kufuneka ucinge ukuba abantwana bakho kufuneka bakuthobele kuzo zonke izinto, kodwa enyanisweni, Into efunwa ngabantwana bakho luthando lwakho olungenamiqathango, kwaye baya kukunika ingqalelo engakumbi kuwe xa ubahlonipha. Kuphela ke baya kuthi baqonde ukuba imigaqo kunye nemida ikhona ekufuneka ihlangatyeziwe, okoko ungabanyanzeli ngendlela yokohlwaya.

Imigaqo inika ukhuseleko

Abantwana badinga imithetho kunye nemida ukuze bazive bekhuselekile, bazi ukuba kulindeleke ntoni ngawo onke amaxesha, bazi ukuba usapho ngummangali apho wonke umntu afuna okuhle kuye wonke umntu, kodwa ngabazali abafundisa indlela yokuphila ubomi. Ngale ndlela, abazali banoxanduva olukhulu kuba kufuneka babe ngumzekelo obalaseleyo ebantwaneni babo, ngalo lonke ixesha.

Kuyimfuneko ukuyithathela ingqalelo le nto, kodwa kananjalo, ukuba ubanika imithetho emininzi kakhulu, ungaluphazamisa uphuhliso lwabo. Nokuba uneminyaka emingaphi abantwana bakho okanye mingaphi iminyaka yakho, kukho imigaqo efunekayo kubo bonke abantwana ebuntwaneni babo ukuze babe ngabantu abadala abanenkathalo.

Imithetho eyomeleza ukhuseleko

Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuzikhathalela. Imithetho yezokhuseleko ibandakanya ukhuseleko lomzimba kunye nokhuseleko lweemvakalelo. Ukhuseleko lomzimba lunokujongana nezinto ezinje: 'Musa ukutsiba kwifenitshala enokuwa', okanye: 'Sukuvula ucango nakubani na xa umama eshawa'.

Ukhuseleko lweemvakalelo lunokubandakanya imithetho yasekhaya enje ngala, 'Sebenzisa amagama anomusa', 'Ungachaza indlela oziva ngayo ngokubonisa imbeko kwangaxeshanye'. Xa abantwana baziva bekhuselekile, bakhululekile ukugxila kumandla abo ekuphononongeni iitalente zabo nakwindawo ezibangqongileyo.

Imigaqo yokuziphatha

Kuyimfuneko ukuyila imithetho ebethelela imilinganiselo yokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha okuhle ebantwaneni. Umzekelo, abazali banokufundisa abantwana babo ukuba bathethe inyani okanye baxolise xa benze into engalunganga kwaye bazisole ngokuyenza.

Khumbula ukuba ukuze kuthotyelwe imigaqo yokuziphatha, kubalulekile ukuba ube ngumzekelo olungileyo wokulandela le mithetho. Abantwana bakho baya kufunda ngakumbi kwizenzo zakho kunamazwi akho. Ngale ndlela, kuya kufuneka ucinge malunga nento oyenzayo kwaye uyenza njani ngaphambi kokucinga ngento oza kuyithetha kubo.

Imigaqo yokuphuhlisa imikhwa esempilweni

Abantwana bafuna iinkqubo kunye nolwakhiwo. Ngale ndlela unokwenza imithetho ekhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba avelise imikhwa elungileyo yemihla ngemihla. Umzekelo, kuya kufuneka ufundise abantwana bakho imikhwa emihle yococeko njengokuhlamba okanye ukuhlamba amazinyo, ukubeka iimpahla ezimdaka ebhaskithini, ukufunda ukufaka oomatshini bokuhlamba, njl.


Ngokwenza iindlela zemihla ngemihla ezisempilweni ekhaya, umzabalazo wamandla uyancitshiswa. Xa abantwana besazi ukuba bafanele ukuxhoma idyasi yabo xa befika ekhaya bevela esikolweni okanye ukuba benze umsebenzi wesikolo kanye emva kwesidlo sasemini, Unokunciphisa ubuninzi bempikiswano okoko nje kukho iziphumo ezicacileyo zokuziphatha gwenxa.

Imigaqo yokuphucula izakhono zentlalo

Kulungile ukuba abantwana babe nobuhlobo okoko nje bubuhlobo obusempilweni apho abantwana banokuziva bonwabile kwaye babe nezihlobo zabo ezibangqongileyo. Kodwa abantwana bafuna nemithetho ebafundisa ngezakhono zokuhlala. Umzekelo; 'Yabelana ngeethoyi zakho nomntakwenu' okanye 'Kuya kufuneka ulinde ithuba lakho', zizinto eziphambili ezifundisa abantwana iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokunxibelelana nabanye kwaye ziya kukhuthaza iindlela ezingcono zokufumana ubuhlobo obunempilo.

Abantwana abadala banokufuna imigaqo malunga nezixhobo zabo ze-elektroniki. Kuyimfuneko ukuseka imigaqo ethintela ukusetyenziswa kwezi zixhobo. Umzekelo, abantwana banokwazi ukuba ixesha lesidlo sasemini okanye lesidlo sangokuhlwa iya kuba yimizuzu engenatekhnoloji kunye nonxibelelwano lwe-elektroniki kuba bazimisele ngakumbi kunxibelelwano lomntu ngeli xesha. Kuya kubakho kwakhona imimandla yasimahla ye-intanethi ekhaya kunye namaxesha athile okusetyenziswa kwabo.

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Imigaqo yokuphila kwihlabathi lokwenyani

Abantwana bafuna imigaqo yokubanceda ukuba balungele ukuba ngabantu abadala. Misela imigaqo efundisa izakhono zobomi eziya kubanceda ukuba basebenze ngcono bakushiya ikhaya lakho. Imithetho ecacileyo kunye noncedo umntwana wakho aya kulufuna ukukhulisa ezi zakhono ziya kuxhomekeka ikakhulu kubushushu bomntwana wakho. Abanye abantwana kunokwenzeka ukuba baziphathe kakuhle kwaye bahlale bekhuthazwa ngumsebenzi wabo wesikolo, ngelixa abanye abantwana befuna imigaqo eyongezelelweyo ukuze yenziwe.

Umzekelo, ukumisela imithetho malunga nomsebenzi wasekhaya kunye nemali kunceda ekulungiseleleni abantwana indawo yokusebenza. Ngale ndlela, unokubonelela abantwana ngemisebenzi kunye nethuba lokufumana imali okoko nje besenza imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo engadibaniyo neyabo yesiqhelo (njengokucheba ingca). Kuya kufuneka ubafundise malunga nemali ukuze bafunde indlela yokonga kunye nokusebenzisa imali ngobulumko. ukuzilungiselela ngcono ukuhlawula amatyala abo njengabantu abadala.

Yicacise le mithetho ukuze abantwana bakho bakhule benoxanduva

Yiba noluhlu olusemthethweni lwemithetho ebhaliweyo ekhayeni lakho ngayo yonke enye into engqondweni. Umzekelo, banokuba yimithetho yohlobo:

  • Yenza ibhedi rhoqo kusasa
  • Coca igumbi lokulala ngokugqibeleleyo yonke iMigqibelo
  • Ukwabelana ngezinto ekhaya
  • Soloko uthetha inyani

Kuya kufuneka unemigaqo ethe ngqo ngakumbi yeemeko ezithile kuxhomekeke kubuntu babantwana bakho. Nokuba awunawo umthetho wokukhwaza ekhaya, kuya kufuneka uxelele umntwana wakho ukuba anciphise ivolumu yelizwi lakhe. Yonke imigaqo kufuneka ibe nesizathu esivakalayo ngasemva kwayo, kuba kuphela kwendlela yabantwana yokumamela: ukuba bayasiqonda isizathu sokuba befanele. Ngale ndlela baya kufunda izifundo zobomi.


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