Ukukhulisa i-18 Year Old

Ukufundisa unyana oneminyaka eli-18 ubudala

Ukukhulisa umntwana okwishumi elivisayo oneminyaka eli-18 ngomnye wemisebenzi entsonkothileyo yokuba ngumama okanye ukuba ngutata. Ngokuba Ngelo xesha, awungomntwana okanye umdala., ngumxube onokuthi wahluke kakhulu kumntwana ngamnye. Abanye abantwana bajika iminyaka eyi-18 banoxanduva kakhulu kwaye baqolile. Kodwa abanye, kwelinye icala, baqhubeka benesimo sengqondo sobuntwana kodwa benomxube wamadlala ekunzima ukuwalawula.

Kodwa into ephindaphindwayo phantse kuzo zonke iimeko yimfuneko yokuba nesazisi, ukuziva uzimele kwaye kude nekhusi labazali. Kuba ngokwasengqondweni, iminyaka eyi-18 yiminyaka yobudala, ubuncinci eSpain nakwamanye amazwe amaninzi. Ubudala obukunika imvume yokuba ukuvota, ukuqhuba okanye ukusela utywala kunye nokungena kwiindawo zokuzonwabisa. Ngaphandle koku kuthetha ukuba iminyaka yakho yokukhula ihambelana neminyaka yakho yomzimba.

Ukufundisa umntwana oneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala, umsebenzi onzima

Imfundo yabantwana ayipheli, kuba umntu uyaqhubeka engumzekelo ebantwaneni bakhe nokuba sele bebadala kangakanani na. Xa sele bekhulile yaye benobomi babo, baqhubeka becela icebiso kubazali kuba umntwana uvakalelwa kukuba uyise okanye umama unobulumko obukhethekileyo, kwanokuba nabo baba ngabazali. Kodwa Ukuze ufikelele kwelo nqanaba lokuqola, kufuneka udlule kumanqanaba amaninzi inzima.

Umntu okwishumi elivisayo Kwiminyaka eyi-18, unobomi obahlukileyo phambi kwakhe, obugcwele ama-adventures kunye neemeko awayengenaso isitshixo ngaphambili. Kodwa ngaba abantwana bakulungele ukujamelana nembopheleleko yokuba ngabantu abakhulu? Ukuba neminyaka eyi-18 ubudala uxanduva olukhulu kwaye abantwana kufuneka bazi ngayo. Nangona beya kukuphepha ukuba neencoko ezithile nawe, kubalulekile ukubacacisela izinto ezithile ezibalulekileyo kwimfundo yabo.

Hlonipha indawo yakho yobuqu

Ulutsha ekhaya

Ukuze ube nolwalamano oluhle nomntu okwishumi elivisayo kufuneka ahlonele indawo yakhe yobuqu, aqonde ukuba ngoku kufuneka abe yedwa kwaye aphulaphule izimvo zakhe. Ngokukodwa kule mihla xa abantwana benolwazi olunjalo, kubalulekile ukubamamela kwaye yithathele ingqalelo into abayithethayo, kuba unokufunda okuninzi yabantwana. Nangona kuyimfuneko ukuba kubekho imigaqo yokuhlalisana emele ihlengahlengiswe ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka kunye nokukhula kwabantwana, ukuhlonipha ukuba bayakhula kwaye bafuna indawo yabo kubalulekile.

Zibekele imida

Ubudala be-18 buphawula ukuguquka kuba utshintsho kwinani kwi-DNI luphawula ukudlula ukuya ebudaleni. Oku kuthetha ukuba imithetho kufuneka itshintshe, ngenxa yeemfuno zomntwana ofikisayo, kodwa imida imele itshintshe. Cacisa kakhulu kumntwana wakho kwaye uchaze kakuhle ukuba yintoni umda, kuba Kungenjalo iimeko ezinzima kakhulu zinokuvela ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekhaya..

Ngoku umdala

Ukuba ngumntu omdala kuthetha ukuba ufanele ukuphathwa ngolo hlobo, kodwa kukwathetha ukuziphatha ngendlela efanelekileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba noxanduva, ukuba nemithetho ecacileyo ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekhaya nokwazi yonke into enokuchazwa yihambo embi. Ngoku unyana wakho oneminyaka eli-18 ubudala ungumntu omdala kwaye Oku kuthetha ukuthwala uxanduva oluninzi.. Qinisekisa ukuba zicacile.

Imfundo yezesondo

Imfundo ngesondo kulutsha

Ubutsha yinqanaba elinzima eligcwele utshintsho lomzimba, i-hormonal kunye neemvakalelo. Amakhwenkwe aqala ukuphuhlisa iimvakalelo kunye nomtsalane kwabanye abantu. Oku kuqhelekile, kungokwemvelo kwaye kunempilo, ukuba nje bayazi ukuba bafanele baziphathe njani kubudlelwane. Akulula ukujongana nemfundo yezesondo kunye nabantwana bakho, kodwa kuyimfuneko qinisekisa ukuba bayayazi indlela yokuba nobudlelwane obunempilo ngandlela zonke.

Zama ukugcina ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo kunye nomntwana wakho oneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala, ukuze azive ekhululekile ukuthetha nawe kwaye uyazi ukuba unokuza kuwe nanini na kwaye nayiphi na imeko. Ngendlela efanayo, unokuthetha ngokwemvelo ngaso nasiphi na isihloko kunye nabantwana bakho. Ukubukela bekhula kukwaneliseka okukhulu, ukubona indlela ababa ngabantu abadala abathembekileyo kunye nabantu abalungileyo kunye nombulelo othandweni, imfundo kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni ezifunyenwe kusapho.



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