Ukukhulisa umntwana ayonto ilula kwaye akukho mntu usifundisileyo ukuba siyenze njani. Amaxesha amaninzi kwilinge lokuphinda iipateni zemfundo yethu okanye kungenjalo, kwinzame yokungaphindi iipateni ezindala senza ngokuchaseneyo. Eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukufundisa, ukufunda kunye nokungafundi imikhwa, kwaye sizifundise njengabazali. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngendlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho kwaye wonwabe kwilinge.
Indlela imfundo yethu ebuchaphazela ngayo ubomi bethu
Es Impembelelo engenakuphikwa yemfundo esiyifumanayo ebuntwaneni bethu ubomi bethu. Ubungqongqo okanye imfundo evumelekileyo kakhulu iya kuba neziphumo ezahluke ngokupheleleyo kwikamva labantwana, kubuchule babo nakwimpumelelo ebomini.
Uninzi lwabazali luthi bakhulise abantwana babo ngendlela efanayo kwaye umntwana ngamnye uphume ngendlela eyahluke mpela. Umxholo awufanele ukufundisa umntwana ngamnye ngendlela efanayo. Asifani sonke, ngamnye kuthi uneendlela ezahlukeneyo zobuntu, ubuchule, ubushushu kunye neemfuno. Asidingi into enye sonke, kufuneka siyiqhelanise nemfundo kumntwana ngamnye kwaye ukufumana indawo efanelekileyo akukho lula kangako. Makhe sibone iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho kwaye onwabe xa uzama.
Ungamfundisa njani umntwana wakho
Umsebenzi wabazali kukonwabisa abantwana babo kodwa nokubanika izixhobo eziyimfuneko ebomini. Ukuba bazimele, banoxanduva kwaye banexabiso. Kumsebenzi onzima wokufundisa, amathandabuzo aqhelekile. Ngaba ndiyenza ngokuchanekileyo? Ndingenza njani ngcono? Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda emsebenzini wakho.
- Fundisa ngokuqonda. Njengoko sibonile ngaphambili, umntwana ngamnye wahlukile kwaye kufuneka simazi umntwana wethu ukuba azi ukuba yintoni ayifunayo ngakumbi kwaye ngawaphi amanqaku. Ukuphucula unxibelelwano, ukuqonda kunye nexesha elisemgangathweni kubalulekile ukuze unxibelelane ngakumbi nabantwana bethu.
- Abantwana bafuna imithetho nemida. Ukukhula ngokuchanekileyo kweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo kwabantwana kufuneka ukuba babe nemithetho kunye nemida. Kufuneka zingqinelane kwaye zihambisane neenkcazo ezisengqiqweni, kwaye kuya kubakho isiphumo ukuba azenziwa. Ukufundisa ngeziphumo kusebenza ngakumbi ekufundiseni abantwana kunokufundisa ukohlwaya. Ungayibona inqaku "Fundisa ngeziphumo" apho sithetha khona ngakumbi malunga nesihloko.
- Makaphosise. Abantu bafunda lukhulu kwiimpazamo zethu. Ukuba umhlutha lo mthombo wokufunda, uya kuphulukana nolwazi oluninzi aludingayo ngobomi bakhe. Makenze iimpazamo, enze iimpazamo, awe kwaye afunde ukuphakama. Ukuzama ukususa imiqobo ebomini kuya kubangela ukuba ungabinazixhobo ezifanelekileyo xa uneengxaki.
- Fundisa ngentlonipho. Ukumemeza akufuneki kubekhona kwimfundo. Ukongeza kwinto yokuba bengenamsebenzi, benzakalisa ukukhula komntwana. Kukho iindlela ezingcono nezisebenzayo zokufundisa, ezisekwe kwintlonipho nothando. Akukho namnye owafundiswa ngokumemeza okhumbula kakuhle ubuntwana bakhe. Sakha ukuzithemba kwabantwana bethu, kwaye ngokuyintloko imbeko esibanika yona.
- Musa ukumthelekisa nabanye abantwana. Ukuthelekisa abantwana yinto enentiyo, eyakhayo amanxeba ngokuzithemba ezihlala zihlala de kube kwinqanaba labadala. Ukuziva ungaxabisekanga, ukungonelanga okanye ukungaphantsi kunabanye ziinkolelo ezikhulayo xa uthelekisa abantwana nabanye. Ukongeza kokungabinanto intle, inezinto ezimbi kakhulu kangangokuba yinto ekufuneka siyisusile kwangoko kwisigama sethu.
- Misela umzekelo. Uyazi, omnye umthombo wokufunda kwabantwana kukuxelisa. Kufuneka sihambisane nabantwana bethu. Asinakubaxelela ukuba abanakuxoka emva koko silale phambi kwabo. Uyimpembelelo yakhe ephezulu kunye nomntu onokumxelisa. Yiba ngumntu ofuna umntwana wakho abe.
Kuba khumbula ... ukufundisa kunye nokonwaba kunokuhamba kunye.