Sele ehambile amacebo okulala umntwana ngokumyekisa akhale (ngethamsanqa) Sele uyazi imiphumo emibi yeemvakalelo yokuba ukungaziva uzolile, ukuthandwa kunye nokuthuthuzelwa kunokuzisa usana. Kanye njengokuba sifundisa kwaye sibonisa uthando kubantwana bethu luya kuchaphazela lonke ukukhula kwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo. Masibone ufundisa njani umntwana wakho ukuba alale yedwa.
Ukulala ngokulala okanye hayi
Inyani lokusebenzisa ukulala kunye okanye hayi, sisigqibo sosapho ngalunye lonto kufuneka ihlonitshwe. Ukuba ufuna ukuyisebenzisa, izakulunga kwaye ukuba akunjalo. Akukho sidingo sokugweba okanye ukohlwaya ezi zigqibo kuba kungekho nto ikhoyo nokuba kukhetho lunye okanye enye.
Kodwa ukuba ubulala kunye kwaye ucinga ukuba lifikile ixesha lokuba umntwana wakho alale yedwa okanye uzame kodwa akakwazi, sikushiya ingcebiso esebenzayo kucetyiswa ziingcali ukuba zikufumane usana lwakho lulele lodwa. Into esebenzela abanye abantwana akufuneki isebenzele abanye, kuyakufuneka uzame kwaye ulahle kude kube ufumana okona kulungele umntwana wakho.
Ungamfundisa njani umntwana wakho ukulala yedwa?
Abantwana bathambekele ekuvukeni amaxesha ngamaxesha ebusuku ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo: ukungonwabi, ukunxanwa, indlala, isidingo sothando ... Kwaye into esiya kuyizama kukuba oku kuvuswa kuncinci kunokwenzeka okanye ubuncinci ukuba babuye balale bodwa.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyibonile yile yintoni isiko lokulala umntwana analo. Ngaba ulala ezandleni zakho? Ngaba unayo i-pacifier? Ngaba kukho naziphi na izibane zesibini? Jonga iimeko alala phantsi kwazo umntwana wakho. Xa uvuka, into oyifunayo ukuze ukwazi ukuzola kwaye uphinde ulale kukufumana iimeko ezifanayo obukade unazo ngaphambi kokuba ulale.
Oko kukuthi, ukuba walala ezingalweni zakho uya kufuna ukubuyela kubo, ukuba wayelayite isibane waza wavuka ebumnyameni uya kukhala, ukuba wayenaso isixhobisi kwaye wasilahleka uya kufuna ukusifumana ... Ukuba abazali bakho babandakanyeka kwinkqubo yakho yesiqhelo, uya kubabiza ukubuyela ebuthongweni. Emva koko iklasi iyakutshintsha ezo ndlela zabanye apho abazali bengafakwanga khona, ukuze akwazi ukuzilawula kwaye abuye ayokulala yedwa.
Olu tshintsho kufuneka lube nenkqubela phambili, ungalindeli ukuba lusebenze usuku olunye ukuya kolandelayo. Kufuneka kubekho uhlengahlengiso kunye nokwenziwa kwinqanaba losana ukuze ludibanise kwaye kungabikho mntwana nabazali banexesha elibi. Ukuba isigqibo sakho kukubuyela emsebenzini, zama ukuqala kwangoko ukuze umntwana akwazi ukuziqhelanisa notshintsho olutsha.
Singazitshintsha njani iinkqubo
Abantwana bafuna ezinye iindlela ezilungileyo zokulala. Babandakanya iintshukumo zangaphambili, ezinje ngokuhlamba okuphumlayo, ukuthambisa kunye nebali. Yiyo loo nto abantwana bedibanisa ukuba emva kwesi senzo, emva koko balale.
Ezinye iingcali zicebisa ukuba xa usana lwakho okanye ibhotile yakho isancancisa, mnike njengesiqhelo kwaye xa ubona iimpawu zokuqala zokulala, mbambe ezandleni zakho. Xa ezolile (engalali) mbeke ebhedini yakhe. Ukuba uyacaphuka okanye uyakhala, bancomela ukumphinda amphakamise, bambambe kwaye bambuyisele ebhedini yakhe ngaphambi kokulala. Ke kaninzi-ninzi de alale. Ngamanye amaxesha iyakuba yeyokuqala kwaye abanye babe ngo-15. Inqaku lelo Unyana wakho akalali ezingalweni zakho ukuze ungayidibanisi nesiqhelo sakho.
Enye ingcebiso yile mnike isambatho esinuka njengawe. Iintsana zinemvakalelo ephucukileyo yokuphunga kunye nevumba lakho liya kubazolisa ukuba bayavuka. Akukhuthazwa ukusebenzisa i-pacifier ukuba awuzange uyisebenzise ngaphambili. Yazisa ngento entsha eza kuthi gqolo ukwenza nzima ukulingana. Kungcono ukusebenzisa izinto esele zisaziwa ukuze ungazenzi nzima ngakumbi.
Kuba khumbula ... ukhetho lokulala nomntwana wakho okanye hayi lolwakho. Wonke umntu uyazazi iimeko zakhe kunye nendlela afuna ukubakhulisa ngayo abantwana babo.