Umfundisa njani umntwana wam ukuhlamba yedwa

Ukuhlamba yedwa

Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba bazimele yinxalenye yobuzali obunoxanduva. Kuba ubuntwana ikakhulu linqanaba lokufunda, apho abantwana kufuneka baphuhlise zonke iintlobo zezakhono, izakhono nolwazi abaya kuba nakho ukuphuhlisa ubomi babo bonke. Ootata noomama abaninzi bathambekele ekubekeni abantwana babo babe ngabantwana abagqithisileyo, kuba becinga ukuba ngenxa yokuba bengabantwana akufuneki babenoxanduva.

Kodwa yonke into efundwa ngabantwana kunye nokuyiqonda ukusuka ebuntwaneni, yimikhwa eya kubavumela ukuba basebenze kulo naliphi na icandelo lobomi. Ucoceko luyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokhathalelo lwawo nawuphina umntu kwaye ke ngoko ukufundisa abantwana ukuhlamba bodwa kubalulekile. Kungenxa yokuba ucoceko olungeyiyo inokuba sisiphumo sezifo ezahlukileyo kwaye yinto enokuhlala ithintelwa.

Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlambe yedwa

Igumbi lokuhlambela lelinye lawona macandelo mahle iindlela zononophelo ukusuka ebuntwaneni babantwana, apho kukonwabela kakhulu kwaye apho abantwana bonwabela umdlalo wokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba balale. Ngesi sizathu, kumaxesha amaninzi kugcinwa ukhuseleko olugqithisileyo endaweni yokunceda abantwana bazimele. Nangona inyaniso ikukuba linyathelo ekuya kufuneka balithathe. Qaphela la macebiso ukuze ufundise umntwana wakho ukuhlamba yedwa.

Ukhuseleko phambi kwayo yonke into

Nini ukumfundisa ukuhlamba yedwa

Okokuqala kukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lomntwana kwaye ungaze umshiye yedwa xa esegumbini lokuhlambela. Ngawo nawuphi na umzuzu unokuba nengozi kwaye kwigumbi lokuhlambela, zihlala ziyingozi. Lungisa yonke into anokuyidinga umntwana ebhafini esezandleni, ukuze bangabikho ntshukumo ingaqhelekanga. Ngaphezu kwako konke, soloko uhlala ecaleni kwakhe ukumnceda ngayo yonke into ayifunayo, kuba uya kuhlala efuna ukuba ube ecaleni kwakhe.

Uqala nini?

Akukho mithetho kule meko kuba umntwana ngamnye wahlukile kwaye kuya kufuneka uhloniphe amaxesha abo, kodwa malunga neminyaka emi-4 lixesha elilungileyo lokuqala ngokuzimela. Ukongeza ekufundiseni umntwana wakho ukuba ahlambe yedwa, ungamfundisa ukuxubha amazinyo kwaye enze eminye imisebenzi ekhaya. Nawuphi na umsebenzi wokuzimela uya kulunga kuphuhliso lwabo.

Chaza ukuba ungayenza njani inyathelo ngenyathelo

Fundisa umntwana wam ukuhlamba

Ungaqala umfundise ukusebenzisa isiponji ukucoca umzimba wakhe. Ukwenza umsebenzi wakho ube lula, ibeka yonke into oyifunayo ezandleni zakho, njengesiponji kunye nesepha yokuhlamba kwisitya esifanelekileyo sokusisebenzisa. Ukuba ijeli iza kwibhotile enzima, umntwana wakho ngekhe akwazi ukuyiphatha ngokulula. Kukhethwa ukuba usebenzise ibhotile encinci enomthamo efanelekileyo ngakumbi ezandleni zomntwana.

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlambe ngokupheleleyo wedwa, iinwele umzekelo zifuna ubuchule ngakumbi kwaye ungathatha ithutyana ukufunda. Yonwabele inkqubo kwaye uhambe kancinci kancinci, okokuqala ufunda ukuhlamba umzimba wakho kakuhle. Mfundise ukuba asponge kwaye asebenzise ezakhe izandla. Akukho ndlela ingcono yokuzivavanya ngaphandle kokuhlamba izandla, yazise umntwana wakho ngaloo ndlela.

Nini ukumfundisa ukuhlamba iinwele zakhe

Akukho mithetho kwaye ixhomekeke kakhulu ekubeni uneenwele ezinde, ezimfutshane, ezithe nkqo okanye ezigobileyo, kuba uhlobo ngalunye lweenwele kunzima okanye kunzima ukuhlamba. Kwiminyaka emithandathu, abantwana banakho amandla kunye nobuchule ezandleni nasezandleni zakhe ukuze ahlambe iinwele zakhe, ukuze ibe yindawo elungileyo. Kodwa uhlala unakekela iimfuno zomntwana, ukuba ngaphambi kwelo xesha ucinga ukuba zilungile, qhubeka. Ngokufanayo, ukuba ufuna ixesha elingakumbi lokufunda, akukho nto yenzekayo.

Imikhwa abantwana abayifumanayo ebuntwaneni igqiba ngokuba yeyiphi na imikhwa yabo eya kuba badala. Qinisekisa ukuba ezi zihlala zihlala imikhwa esempilweni, ucoceko, isondlo, impilo kunye nokuzikhathalela. Le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bakho bayayazi indlela yokuzikhathalela xa kufika ixesha.



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