Ukuba nosana ekhaya kuhlala kwaye kuyonwabela yonke imihla utshintsho olutsha, izakhono ezintsha ezifunyenweyo. Ngokwenyani ukusukela ekuzalweni, usana lutshintsha ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba kuhlala kungabonakali. Ukubamba intloko yakhe, ukujika umzimba wakhe, ukuhambisa izandla zakhe ezincinci okanye ukubanokwazi ukulungisa amehlo akhe, ziimpawu zokuqala zokuvela kukhula komntwana.
Kodwa njengoko iinyanga zihamba, olo tshintsho luncinci lube ngamanqanaba okuphuhliswa. Oko kuthetha ukuba kulindeleke ukuba babe noxinzelelo kunye nenkxalabo ukuba azenzeki ngexesha elifanelekileyo. KUNYEukuqala ukuhamba okanye ukuthetha, zezona zibalulekileyo kwaye zezona zixhalabisa, kuba ukungabikho kwazo kunokunxulumana neengxaki ezithile.
Oku akuthethi ukuba zonke iintsana kufuneka zihambe okanye zithethe ngaxeshanye., kufuneka usoloko usihlonipha isingqisho ngasinye ngaphandle kokuthelekisa nabanye abantwana. Ukuqhuma kolwimi inokulibaziseka ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka eliqela, ngaphandle kokubangela ukuphazamiseka. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ugqirha wabantwana alandele nakuphi na ukulibaziseka kophuhliso kwangoko.
Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba amfundise ukuthetha
Into onokuyenza ekhaya kukukhuthaza umntwana wakho kangangoko unakho, ukuze ulwimi lube nengqondo kwingqondo yakhe kwaye ukulungele ukuhluma nanini na. Ngendlela ebanzi, umntwana kulindeleke ukuba akwazi ukucacisa amagama akhe okuqala malunga neenyanga ezili-12. Ukuba ziinyanga ezili-18 xa kukho ukwanda kolwimi kunye nokudubula kwalo.
Ukuba ufuna khuthaza ukuba ufundise umntwana wakho ukuthetha, qaphela ezi ngcebiso.
- Thetha nosana: Umntu unamandla okuzalwa nawo okuphucula ulwimi, xa okusingqongileyo kufanelekile kwaye kukho imeko ethanda unxibelelwano. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuba uthetha nosana lwakho, ulwimi lwakhe kunokwenzeka ukuba lukhule kwangoko ukuze unxibelelane nawe. Thetha nonyana wakho sebenzisa amagama alula, izivakalisi ezifutshane umjonge emehlweni ngelixa usenza.
- Funda ukummamelaNokuba abanamagama afanelekileyo, umntwana wakho uya kuzama ukunxibelelana nawe kwaye angaqala enze izandi. Kodwa kufuneka ufunde ukummamela, linda impendulo xa uthetha naye, xa umcela into, uya kukumangaza.
- Cula iingoma: Imvano-zandi yezonesi yindlela yokuqala neyona isebenzayo yokukhuthaza ulwimi. Bazi Kulula ukuyikhumbula, ukuphindaphinda kwaye ikuvumele ukonwabele umdlalo nomntwana wakho njengoko ingqondo yakhe ifunda kwaye isenza amagama.
- Funda amabali: Njengezicengcelezo zabantwana abancinci, amabali abantwana abancinci zizele iisimboli namagama ilungele ukufundisa abantwana abaneenyanga ezili-18 ubudala ukuba bathethe. Funda amabali nosana lwakho yonke imihla, ngexesha lokulala, ukongeza kulwimi luya kumnceda alale ngokulula.
- Sebenzisa ulwimi lomzimbaUkuqonda kubalulekile ukuba umntwana avelise ulwimi olusebenzayo. Sebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba Ngelixa ucula iingoma nosana lwakho, yalatha kumalungu omzimba, yenza iintshukumo kwaye uzincede ngemizobo ukulungiselela ukuqonda.
Ndifanele ukukhathazeka nini
Ukulibaziseka kolwimi kunokuba yiflegi ebomvu, nangona oku kungenjalo kuzo zonke iimeko. Nangona kunjalo, Iinyanga ezili-18 zibalulekile malunga noku, kuba ukongeza kuphuhliso lolwimi kufuneka kubekho ezinye iintlobo zotshintsho kunye nokuziphendukela kwemvelo kusana. Ukuhlolwa kwabantwana kubalulekile, kuba kungale ndlela kuphela abanokuthi babonwe ziingcali kwaye, ukuba kukho obunye ubungqina, ukuze bakwazi ukungenelela kwangethuba.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba ubakhuthaze ukuba bafundise umntwana wakho ukuthetha, kodwa ngaphandle kokumthelekisa nabanye abantwana abalingana naye. Unokufuna nje ixesha elincinci kwaye oku kuqhelekile. Dlala nomntwana wakho, ukonwabele ukukhula kwakhe kunye nazo zonke iinguqu oya kuthi uzibone kuye. Ukuba ulwimi lulibazisekile okanye alufiki, namhlanje kukho amacebo asebenzayo kunye nezixhobo zokunceda abantwana kwiimeko ezithile.