Ukomelela kukukwazi ukuziphilisa ngokwakho emva kokufumana ubunzima. Ngamanye amagama, ukukwazi ukujamelana neemeko ezimbi ngeyona ndlela ibhetele.
Nangona kungumbono ongaqondakaliyo kwaye kunzima ukuwuchaza, ukomelela kufuneka kukhuthazwe ebantwaneni kuba kubalulekile kulawulo olufanelekileyo lweemvakalelo. Andibhekiseli ngokufanelekileyo kwingqondo yokomelela kodwa kwindlela yokuphuhlisa kunye nokuyifumana ebomini babo.
Kwimeko esihlala kuyo kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bayazi indlela yokuchacha kubunzima kwaye bakulungele ukujongana nemiceli mngeni yabo.
Uyakha njani ukomelela ebantwaneni
Ukomelela kukhula njengoko umntwana ekhula, ukubonelela ngezixhobo eziluncedo kakhulu zokujongana nemiceli mngeni yokufikisa kunye nokuba mdala.
Imiba esisiseko yokukhuthaza ukomelela kubantwana bethu:
- Iziqhelo.Iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla zinika abantwana ukhuseleko, ngakumbi abancinci. Bayabavumela ukuba bazi kwangaphambili ukulandelelana kwexeshana kwezona zenzo zemihla ngemihla.
- Imikhwa esempilweni.Ukusukela ebusheni kufuneka sifunde ukubaluleka kokukhathalela impilo yethu ngokufumana imikhwa esempilweni (ukutya, ukuphumla, ukuzilolonga, njl. Ukutya okunempilo kunye nokulinganisela kubalulekile ukuba ube ne-immune system.
La ukuzithemba
Ubunzima busomeleza kwaye busilungiselela ukujongana nemingeni ezayo. Simele sakhe ukuzithemba kwabantwana babo nakwizixhobo zabo zokumelana neengxaki. Ukuba abazali banesiqhelo sokusombulula bonke ubunzima babantwana bethu, umyalezo esibathumela wona kukuba abakwazi ukuzenzela ngokwabo. Oku kwandisa ukungazithembi kwakho kwaye kunciphisa unyamezelo lwakho ekukhathazekeni.
Ulwalamano lomntu kunye nolusapho
Bonke abantwana bafuna ukuziva bethandwa, behlonitshwa, kwaye besamkelwa. Ukuziva usapho kunye nenkxaso yoluntu kuya komeleza ukomelela kwabo kwaye kubakhuthaze ukuba bavakalise iimvakalelo zabo kunye namava. NgokukaGqirha Kenneth Ginsburg "abantwana kufuneka bazi ukuba kukho umntu omdala ebomini okholelwa kubo kwaye ubathanda ngokungagungqiyo." Lo gqirha wabantwana ngomnye wabanikeli kwisikhokelo esenziwe yiAmerican Academy of Pediatrics ukunceda abazali bakhe ukomelela kubantwana babo. (Ukwakha ukomelela kwaBantwana. Abantwana abasempilweni).
Ufundisa njani umntwana ukomelela
- Ukuzazi. Emva kokujongana nemeko enzima lixesha lokuba ucinge ngendlela owenze ngayo kunye noko ukufundileyo. Ezi ntlobo zokubonisa ziya kunceda umntwana ukuba akhule kwaye azazi ngcono.
- Umbulelo. Esinye isitshixo sokwakha ukomelela kukwenza ukuba abantwana babone zonke izinto ezilungileyo abanazo ebomini babo kwaye bazive benombulelo ngayo.
- Unonophelo. Njengabazali kufuneka sikhuthaze isimo sengqondo esihle nesizolileyo ebantwaneni bethu xa bejamelana neengxaki kunye notshintsho. Nangona ngalo mzuzu kubonakala ngathi umhlaba uyatshona, siyazi ukuba emva koko kuzolile ukubuya. Izinto ezimbi zikwicala elihle kwaye utshintsho luyinxalenye yobomi.
- Iinjongo. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba azibekele usukelo olusengqiqweni nolufikelelekayo. Ukufikelela kolo sukelo yenye yeendlela zokuziva uluzuzileyo. Ibafundisa ukuba bahlale behlala bekulwa xa bejongana nemiceli mngeni yobomi.
Izibonelelo zokwakha ukomelela kwabantwana
- Ikuvumela ukuba ufumane ukucoceka komzuzu ngamnye okanye amava obomi.
- Kuyanceda ukuthatha iimeko ezigabadeleyo kunye nokuguquguquka okuthile.
- Ufundisa indlela yokujongana neengxaki usebenzisa izakhono zakhe.
- Yomeleza xa ujongene nobunzima.
- Inceda ufumane okungcono kuwe.
- Ukukhuthaza ukukhula komntu
- Ukunyusa ukuzithemba
Umntwana owomeleleyo uya kuyazi indlela yokumelana nengcinezelo, uya kufunda ukumelana neengxaki zakhe enoburharha kwaye uya kuyazi indlela yokwenza izinto ukuze uzive uzolile ukuba uyonganyelwa. Uya kusebenzisa izakhono zakho ukumelana neemeko zongquzulwano kwaye usebenzise amava akho ngendlela elungileyo.
Ngamafutshane, uya kujongana nobunzima bobomi ngcono, uya kuyazi indlela yokoyisa kwaye ubenze ngokupheleleyo.