Ukulungiselela ezinye izichasi akukho lula kwaye ukuba uyongeza koku Ungumama ophikisayo, izinto ziba nzima kakhulu. Kodwa akukho nto ingenakwenzeka. Oomama abaninzi bajamelana nenkcaso, kwaye bayayifumana. Bangabafazi abomeleleyo, abanesibindi, kunye nenkxaso ebalulekileyo.
Isizathu sokuba uninzi lwabantu lukhethe uviwo lokhuphiswano kukhuseleko lomsebenzi. Uyazi ukuba xa ufumana indawo oyifunayo, uya kuyifumana Nika usapho lwakho umgangatho ongcono kunokuba unako ngoku. Esi siphelo yile nto yenza ukuba uhambe ngokuncama kunye neeshedyuli zemarathon. Sifuna ukukunika iingcebiso, kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into kukukhuthaza.
Inkxaso yosapho kumama ophikisayo
Kubafazi bonke inkxaso yosapho ibalulekile. Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuqalisa umsebenzi ophikisayo, kungcono ukuba iqabane lakho livume nalo, kwaye longeze uxanduva lokukuxhasa ngekhulu leepesenti. Khetha kwaye uvavanye kakuhle abo ufuna ukuzibonakalisa kubo, zezona zilungele ixesha lakho, uqeqesho, cinga malunga nento ofuna ukuzinikezela kuyo ngokusebenza.
Sithethile ngendima yesi sibini, kodwa ukuba ungumzali ongenaqabane, uyakufuna ngakumbi inkxaso yosapho kunye nabahlobo ukumelana nale meko. Kwaye ungothusi ukuba abanye abantu ababoni ukuba bazilungiselela iimviwo kufuna umgudu, kwaye bayithatha njengeyona nto uyithandayo. Awuyi kubenza ukuba baqonde isidingo sakho sokuzahlula.
Ukuba ngumama kunye nomchasi wexesha elizeleyo kuthetha funa ukulingana phakathi kweemfuno zosapho kunye nezo zenkcaso. Vavanya ubudala babantwana bakho, inqanaba labo lokuxhomekeka kukhathalelo loomama, esikolweni nakwizinto ezenziwa emva kwexesha ... Ewe, siyazi ukuba konke oku kunzima kakhulu ukulinganisa, kodwa isibindi, singenziwa.
Hlela indawo kunye nexesha
Ukusukela ngomhla wokuqala uba ngumama ophikisayo, khetha indawo oza kufunda kuyo. Esi iya kuba yindawo yakho. Yenza umkhwa wokufunda, nokuba ixesha onalo ngemini lincinci okanye lincinci kakhulu, ukuba utyale imali kwelona liphezulu unokuba nenzuzo enkulu.
Siyancoma ukuya kwiiklasi okanye kumkhapheli ukukunceda ulungiselele iimvavanyo. Le yeyona ndlela ethe ngqo yokufikelela kwinqanaba. Ukuba nezinto ezilungileyo nezisexesheni kubalulekile. Ukuya kwiiklasi uya kufuna uthotho lweziphumo ngeveki okanye ngenyanga. Unokujonga kwinqanaba lakho kunye nelabo ufunda nabo. Ukongeza, ezi yure uziya kuzo eklasini zikwasphumlo kuxanduva lwendlu.
Ngokumalunga neeshedyuli zokufundela ekhaya, iyunithi yosapho nganye iyayazi ukuba isebenza njani. Kukho oomama abaphikisayo abavuka ekuseni kakhulu kwaye xa usapho luvuka sele befundile. Abanye basebenzisa izithuba zokulala, ubusuku, iiyure zesikolo ... nantsi uya kuthi kuxhomekeke kubudala babantwana bakho.
Uqeqesho lukamama ophikisayo
Ukuze ube ngumama ophumeleleyo kunye nomchasi, kufuneka ukudibanisa uqeqesho kubomi basekhaya. Uya kubona indlela onombulelo ngayo kwesiqhelo oya kuthi ube nakho ukukhokela isingqisho esihle sobomi apho usapho lwakho kunye nabantwana bakho beqhubeka nokukhathalelwa. Kancinci ingqeqesho akaze abuhlungu
Kuya kubakho iintsuku ezininzi xa uzibuza ukuba kufanelekile. Vumela ukuhleka, ukukhala, ukonwaba, ukusilela kuvavanyo lokuqala, ayilulo lonke uloyiso oluza kuqala, uqhubeke. Inkqubo ye- iimpazamo zinceda ukufunda kuzo. Khumbula umzekeliso: amava enza ugqibelele.
Zibekele iinjongo ezincinci, okanye kancinci okanye kulula ukufikelela kwiinjongo, oku kuya kukunceda uhlale unomdla kwaye ubone ukuba uhambela phambili. Emva kwexesha, bonakalisa kwaye ujonge indlela oyihambileyo. Ukuba uzilungiselela kakuhle, uhlala ungatshintshi kwaye uzinze, uya kuwufezekisa. Kwaye khumbula: ukuba ngumsebenzi waseburhulumenteni, njengoko izinto zinjalo, kubonakala kuphela kwendlela eqinisekisa uzinzo kunye nethuba lokudibanisa usapho lwakho kunye nobomi bobungcali.