Ukuba uxelelwe esikolweni ukuba unyana wakho ungumxhaphazi esikolweni, inyathelo lokuqala iya kuba kukufumanisa ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ukuze amenze abe njalo kwaye zeziphi izizathu ezimqhubela ekubeni aziphathe ngale ndlela. Nje ukuba uthathele ingqalelo oku kwaye wazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni, umntwana wakho uya kufuna ukuba ube sisandla sakhe sokumnceda, Kuba ayiyinkwenkwe imbi, kuye kufuneke ukuba afunde ukutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha ukuze azive engcono.
Isandla esinobuhlobo
Abazali abaninzi bayoyika okanye bakhawuleze ukungxolisa ukohlwaya abantwana babo. Oku akuthethi ukuba kunceda ukulungisa isimilo esibi. Ukuxhaphaza kufuneka kujongwane nako kwangoko. Umntwana wakho kufuneka aqonde ukuba indlela aziphethe ngayo ayamkelekanga kwaye uza kohlwaywa.
Uninzi lwabantwana alibuqondi ubunzulu bokuxhatshazwa, ke abazali kufuneka babenze baqonde. Ukufumana isicwangciso sokuziphatha esifanelekileyo, kufuneka ukigxininise ukubaluleka kobuhlobo obusempilweni kwaye uxhathise uxinzelelo loontanga. Umntwana wakho kufuneka ayazi into yokuba, nokuba siyintoni na isizathu sokuxhaphaza, iseyinto ekhethwayo kwaye banoxanduva lwezenzo zabo.
Kuya kufuneka unike inkxaso inkqubo yoluleko yesikolo kwaye ungamhlanguli umntwana wakho kuso. Nje ukuba usazi unobangela, umncedile umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde ukuba kutheni indlela yokuziphatha kwakhe ingamkelekanga kwaye umqeqeshe, ngoku kufuneka umfundise izakhono ezitsha zokubathintela ekungcungcuthekiseni abanye kwakhona. Musa ukumhlazisa umntwana wakho njengendlela yoqeqesho, kuba oku kuyabafundisa ukuba kwamkelekile ukwenza okufanayo nakwabanye. Endaweni yoko, jonga imeko kwaye ugcine unxibelelwano luvulekile.
Unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo
Nokuba kukuhlukumeza ngokwasemzimbeni, ngomlomo, okanye nge-intanethi, abazali kufuneka bajongane nokuhlukumeza ngendlela efanayo. Ukuba nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye novulekileyo kunye nomntwana wakho kunokunceda ukubathintela ekulimazeni abanye. Umntwana wakho kufuneka akwazi ukuthetha nawe malunga nokwenzekayo. Kwaye, ukuze kwenzeke, kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi naye ukwakha ubudlelwane obomeleleyo nothando.