Kumfazi okhulelweyo, iintlungu zokuqhomfa ayisiyonto ilambathayo okanye engenangqondo, yinto enokubambeka kwaye ibonakale kwiimvakalelo.
Ukuphulukana nokuphuma kwesisu lixesha lokungaqondani kunye nentlungu ekunzima ukuba ibhinqa loyise. Emva kwelo xesha linzima, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo amanyathelo athile achaziweyo apha ngezantsi.
Umtshato wokutshata
Malunga neepesenti ezingama-20 yabasetyhini bafumana olu hlobo lokuqhomfa. Ukuphuma kwesisu okanye ukufa kwe umbungu, kwenzeka phakathi kwesibini sokuqala nesesibini sokukhulelwa, njengomgaqo jikelele phambi kweveki 20. Kubalulekile ukongeza ukuba le lahleko ayenzeki ngenxa yokungakhathali okanye ukungakhathali kowasetyhini. Ezinye zezinto ezinokwenzeka, akuqinisekanga, izizathu zokuphuphuma kwesisu:
- Ukubandezeleka kwezifo ezinje ngedlala lengqula okanye isifo seswekile esibi.
- Ukulimala kakubi okanye ukusuleleka.
- Iingxaki zesibeleko.
- Ukuchaphazeleka kweChromosomal.
- Emva kokuba uphulukene nezisu ngaphambili, ukutyeba kakhulu okanye ubudala zizinto ezinobungozi.
Yintoni elandelayo elandelayo
Ukuqhomfa akusiso isiphumo sento engalunganga eyenziwe ngumfazi, izizathu zahlukile.
Ukutshata ngaphandle komtshato lixesha elinzima apho umfazi ahamba khona ngokupheleleyo. I-duel kufuneka yenziwe nguye kunye nabathandekayo bakhe kwaye uphilise amanxeba. Kubantu abaninzi, le ntlungu ayinangqiqo kwaye iyabonakala kuba umntwana akekho. Nangona kunjalo, kwelinye icala lesipili, kuba umama ebenguye, uyamthanda kwaye uyamthanda. Unaye naye, mhlawumbi uye wamva naye. Xa umfazi okhulelweyo ehlupheka ngokukhawuleza, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba aphathwe ngokukhawuleza, kungekuphela emzimbeni kuphela, kodwa nangokomzwelo. Ukudlulisa le trance, umfazi:
- Kuya kufuneka uthethe ngayo engavali okanye agcine kuye iintlungu. Ukwabelana ngentlungu yakho kuya kukukhulula kwaye kukuthuthuzele.
- Kuya kufuneka athethe nabantu abanokumqonda, iqabane lakhe, umama wakhe ..., kwaye bafumane uluvo lwabo lokuveza ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukuba uyadlaliswa. Umfazi uya kudinga ixesha lakhe lokuphilisa.
- Ndiza kusindisa duel Umntwana wakho uya kubizwa ngegama ukuba sele enalo. Kulungile ukuba uthethe ngaye, ngaphandle kokwenza ngathi akazange abekho. Usana olungekazalwa lunexabiso kubazali, koomakhulu nootatomkhulu nabahlobo abasenyongweni, ukumgcina enesidima yinxalenye yenkqubo yobomi.
- Kufuneka ukhathalele impilo yomzimbaMalunga nenyanga umzimba uzakonakala. Kunokubakho ukopha, amaxesha angaqhelekanga, isisu esibuhlungu, iintlungu zebele, ukuvuza ubisi, kunye nokuguquka kwehomoni. Abasetyhini badinga ixesha kunye nendawo, inkxaso, ubuqabane kunye nokuqonda ukuze baphumelele.