Ukuba ngumama yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini. Ngayo siya kufunda yonke imihla, kude kube sekupheleni kobukho bethu. Sinikela yonke into ngenxa yabo, kungenxa yoko ngamanye amaxesha sizilibala kancinci. Kuyinyani ukuba ngumama ngumsebenzi osisigxina kodwa Kuya kufuneka sichithe ixesha, kunye nokuziphathela iziqu zethu kwaye sinyamekele isini sakho njengomama.
Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kusenzeka kuthi, ayenzi ukuba sibi ngakumbi ngoomama ngokujonga okuncinci kuthi, kwinto esiziva ngayo okanye ekufuneka siziva. Ukonwabela ubomi obupheleleyo besondo kuyafana nolonwabo. Ke kufuneka sihlale siyikhumbula. Nangona abantwana bethu bebubomi bethu kwaye besizisela ulonwabo oluphezulu, kufuneka sigqibe kwezinye iindawo.
Ukunyamekela isini sakho njengomama, inyathelo eliphambili
Kuyinyani ukuba xa abantwana bengena ebomini bakho, yonke into iyatshintsha kwaye siyayazi loo nto kakuhle. Kwiinyanga ezininzi bafuna thina umzuzu ngamnye emva koko, nathi. Kodwa kancinci kancinci, siyakufezekisa ukulingana phakathi kobomi bethu obutsha njengomama nanjengomfazi. Kuba Kukho isitshixo sempumelelo, ekubeni sikwazi ukuzinzisa yonke into eyenzekayo kuthi, kunye neemvakalelo.
Elinye lawona macandelo asisiseko obomi kukukhathalela isini sakho, kuba ibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo-ntle yakho, kulonwabo lwakho kunye nokuziva ukhululekile. Kuba izibonelelo ze-orgasms zingaphezulu kokwazi kuwo wonke umntu. Yiyo loo nto ukuba uxinzelelo lusoyisa, lixesha lokuba ucinge ngalo. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba usebudlelwaneni okanye akunjalo, kuba ngendlela efanayo kufuneka uyazi ukuba ubomi bakho ngokwesondo kufuneka buphuculwe okanye bube khona, kwezinye iimeko.
Zenzele ixesha elininzi
Uqala njani ukukhathalela isini sakho? Ukuyiphucula kancinci kancinci, eyona nto intle kukuthatha ixesha lethu. Kuyinyani ukuba ngamanye amaxesha iyinto engacingekiyo, kodwa ngobukrelekrele obuncinci sinokuyiphumeza. Ungalisebenzisa ixesha apho abantwana basegumbini lokufundela okanye esikolweni, xa sele beqala ukulala iiyure ezininzi ngokulandelelana okanye xa ootatomkhulu noomakhulu bafuna ukuhlala nabo ukushiya imva kwemini simahla. Nokuba ungakanani na, kuya kufuneka uzame ukuyikhupha. Ngenxa yokuba unexesha lakho, ukuzikhathalela kunye nokuphumla sisiqalo sohambo olude oluya kulonwabo.
Cwangcisa imihla neqabane lakho
Ukuba uhleli nesibini, lixesha lokuba ubheje ngokuba wedwa kunye nothando. Kuba Ukongeza ekunyamekeleni isini sakho, iya kukunceda ekukhuthazeni ubudlelwane njengesibini. Kuba, njengoko nisazi kakuhle, baninzi abathi emva kokuba benabantwana, babe buthathaka yile nto, kuba abanakubafumana thuba labo ngaphandle kwabantwana abancinci. Ke, ngeempelaveki ungabheja kwindawo yokubaleka, kwisidlo sangokuhlwa nobabini okanye niyokuyonwabela indalo kodwa ngoku ngaphandle kwabantwana.
Sukuziva unetyala ngokubeka phambili izinto zakho amaxesha ngamaxesha
Sele siyikhankanyile kwaye yinto esiyiphindayo kwakhona kuba yenzeka ngaphezulu kunokuba sicinga. Xa sizibeka kwindawo yokuqala, siziva sinetyala. Kusinika imvakalelo yokuba sibeka bucala imisebenzi yethu njengoomama. Ewe, akukho nto inokuthi iqhubeke nenyaniso. Kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba sonke siyalidinga ikhefu, ukuze sibuyele kumaxesha athile aya kuthi asenzele okuhle ukuphelisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ke oku kuya kubonakala kwimood yethu kwaye abancinci baya kuyifumana, njengotshintsho oluphawuleka kwaye oluqinisekileyo.
Funda ngesini
Ukunyamekela isini sakho kukwathetha ukuba uqhubeka nokufunda kuso. Kungenxa yokuba sihlala sinokuninzi esinokukufumanisa kwaye oku sinamaphepha okufundisa ngesondo anje Ezahlukeneyo kwaye oko kusinceda ukuba sazane ngcono kancinci. Indlela yokusombulula onke amathandabuzo, ukuzivumela ukuba sihambe kwaye uvumele umbono ubhabhe. Into iyimfuneko ngokwenene ukuze sikwazi ukwenza into entsha kwicandelo elinje. Kungelo xesha kuphela oya kuthi uzazi ngcono kwaye ulufezekise olo lonwabo lupheleleyo.
Yongeza imidlalo kumava akho
Umbono ubhabha ngakumbi xa usongeza izinto ezithile ngendlela yemidlalo. Ukunyamekela isini sakho kukwabheja ngokuzama izinto ezintsha. Kubhetele ukuyenza le nto yokudlala ngenkanuko! Yindlela yokufikelela kuvuthondaba ngendlela yoyilo ngakumbi. Kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela, kodwa ungabheja nakwiseshoni yokuthanjiswa kweminqweno okanye, ukubheja kwezona zangaphantsi zintle kwintengiso. Iingcamango ezilungileyo kunye nezixhobo ezifanelekileyo zokuzonwabisa ngokuzeleyo yedwa okanye kwinkampani. Ngaba ubhalisela ukukhathalela ubuni bakho njengomama?
ngokungathandabuzekiyo koomama ngokwesini kunye nokubajonga kubaluleke kakhulu.