Yintoni esiyiqondayo ngokubaluleka kokunyaniseka? Ewe, imalunga nentlonipho kodwa malunga nokuqonda kunye nokuthembela kunye nabanye abaninzi ekufuneka sihlale sithathela ingqalelo ebomini bethu. Yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kwasebancinane, abantwana bethu nabo bafunde ukufumanisa oku kubaluleka. Kuba kulapho kuphela apho banokuthi babe nobudlelwane obusempilweni ngakumbi nabantu ababangqongileyo.
Lelinye lamanyathelo asisiseko ukuze ukwazi ukunxulumana noontanga bakhoNgoko ke, okukhona bekuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukubaluleka kokunyaniseka, kokukhona kulunge ngakumbi kumntu wonke. Kuyinyani ukuba akusoloko kulula kuba eli xabiso ngamanye amaxesha liyaphulwa okanye alizaliseki. Nakuba kunjalo, simele senze umgudu wethu wokuwubethelela ube ngofanelekileyo yaye ngokuqinisekileyo siya kuwuphumeza.
Qala ngokubaluleka kokunyaniseka kuwe
Kukangaphi singanyanisekanga nakwiziqu zethu! Ewe, yonke into iqala ngenye, njengoko usazi kakuhle. Ke, inyathelo lokuqala lokukwazi ukubonakalisa imfundiso kwabanye kukwenza ukuziqhelanisa nathi. Kufuneka sibafundise abantwana bethu ukuba banyaniseke kubo, bagxile kwiinjongo zabo ukuze bafezekise yonke into abazimisele ukuyenza.. Yindlela yokuba ngokuthe ngcembe bangawancami amaphupha abo kodwa babenze baqonde ukuba yonke into iwufanele umgudu. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka athobele izibophelelo kunye nezithembiso ezizisungulayo. Kodwa ewe, uhlala ehlonipha amaziko okanye izizathu ezibekwe phambi kwethu.
Bonisa intlonipho kunye nokuthembeka
Enye inkalo yexabiso lokunyaniseka kukwazi, okanye ukufunda, ukubonisa intlonelo nokuthembeka kwabanye. Kule meko, abancinci kufuneka bazi ukuba xa umntu esinceda ngendlela engathandekiyo, nangona kunjalo amaxesha amaninzi, ngoko sele sibatyala kakhulu. Asithethi ngayo nayiphi na into ebonakalayo kodwa ngokunyaniseka okuyimfuneko kulwalamano lobuqu. Ngoko xa siziva sikhuselekile kufuneka siphendule ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo.
Ukuthotyelwa kwemigangatho
Enye yezona ndlela zibalaseleyo esinokuqeqesha ngazo ukubaluleka kokunyaniseka kukumisela uthotho lwemithetho okanye imisebenzi yosuku ngalunye. Ngale ndlela siya kubafundisa ukuthobela, ukuqeqeshwa kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, ukunyaniseka kuyo yonke intsapho. Kuba yindlela yokunceda, ngaphandle kokubabiza (nangona ngamanye amaxesha kuya kubabiza ngaphezu kokuba sicinga) kwaye ukuba kunjalo, kuya kuba yinxalenye yokufunda. Bade baphume ngokwabo ukuze bakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi abayabelweyo ukubonisa loo ntlonipho kwintsapho yabo.
Babonise ukuba uyabathemba
Xa befikelela kwiminyaka yobudala, enye indlela yokuhlala bethenjwa yaye benyanisekile kukuyabela bona. Siya kuhlala sihamba ngesinyathelo ngesinyathelo kunye nemisebenzi elula kodwa sithembela kwaye singalawuli yonke into kwi-millimeter. Baya kuqaphela kwaye bazive bekhululekile ngakumbi. Kodwa kufuneka sigcine ilizwi lethu kuba enye yeenqobo zokunyaniseka nayo isekwe kuloo nto. Zizijekulo ezincinci ezinika ixabiso kwigama elikhethekileyo njengokunyaniseka. Ke ukuthembela kufuneka kuzuzwe kwaye oku kufuneka kuqondwe. Xa ningabelana ngezimvo ezifanayo, mbuze ukuba ebeya kwenza ntoni na kwimeko ethile.
Bancede babe nokuqonda ukuze baqonde ukubaluleka kokunyaniseka
Njengoko sisazi, umntu ngamnye unobuntu obuphawuleka kakhulu, kodwa kwasebuncinaneni sikwafunxa oko sikubona ekhaya noko sikuvayo. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba bayasibona sibaqonda abanye abantu, sibaqonda yaye sibacebisa, ngokuqinisekileyo abantwana bethu baya kusithabatha njengesiseko sokufunda.. Ngoxa sisenza nabanye, siya kwenza okufanayo nakubo. Yindlela yokubafundisa ukunceda abo bayidinga ngokwenene. Kwangaxeshanye baya kuqaphela okanye bahoye iimfuno zabantu ababangqongileyo, njengabahlobo babo okanye usapho lwabo. Ngale ndlela, ukuba bajamelana nayo kwasebuncinaneni, baya kuqonda ukuba umntu ngamnye unothotho lobuthathaka kodwa kwanamandla amaninzi afanele aqwalaselwe.