Ukubaluleka kokuqinisekisa iimvakalelo ebantwaneni

qinisekisa iimvakalelo abantwana

Xa sifundisa sinokwenza iimpazamo ezinje ngokuthomalalisa iimvakalelo zabantwana. Ingakumbi lawo anamava ngendlela engathandekiyo njengosizi, umsindo okanye ingqumbo. Zonke iimvakalelo ziyasebenza kwaye zinomsebenzi emntwini. Ukungazisebenzisi kudala kuphela iingxaki zeemvakalelo eziya kutsala ubomi bakho bonke. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngokubaluleka kokuqinisekisa iimvakalelo zabantwana.

Ixabiso leemvakalelo

Zonke iimvakalelo ziyaguquguquka kwaye zifeze umsebenzi webhayiloji. Ukubakhanyela kukukhanyela inxalenye yobuntu bethu. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi malunga nemisebenzi yeemvakalelo, ndincoma iposti "Iimvakalelo ezisisiseko, zezantoni?"

Njengokuba singazi ukuba singajongana njani neemvakalelo ezingalunganga kwabanye, ngakumbi kuthi, sihlala sizijongela phantsi ezi mvakalelo. Ukuba sibona umntwana elila simxelela "akwenzeki nto" o "Abantwana abakhulu abalili". Ngamabinzana alolu hlobo umntwana ukhula efunda ukuba ezi mvakalelo azisebenzi, kwaye akanalungelo lokuziva enjalo. Okuya kukhokelela ekubeni ubaphephe nangayiphi na indlela ukuze ungajongani nayo nangaliphi na iindleko. Ukuphika ezi mvakalelo akuyi kubenza bahambe. Uyakungazithembi kwaye angaqondwa kakuhle, kuba uya kuba neemvakalelo angazi ukuba uza kulawula njani.

qinisekisa iimvakalelo

Ungaziqinisekisa njani iimvakalelo zabantwana

Ukuqinisekisa iimvakalelo zabantwana kusivumela ukuba sinxibelelane nabantwana bethu, sibenze bazive beqondwa, beviwe kwaye bekhuselekile, njengoko befunda ukulawula ezona mvakalelo zabo zingathandekiyo kwaye bazibonakalise ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuqinisekisa kukuvuma indlela omnye umntu aziva ngayo nokuba asivumelani. Mhlawumbi isizathu sokuba nomsindo okanye usizi lwabo asibalulekanga kuwe, okanye kubonakala ngathi asilingani kuwe. Kodwa emntwaneni ohlaselwe yile mvakalelo, akaqondi ukuba ayilingani na okanye hayi, nokuba ibaluleke kakhulu okanye hayi. Apha uvelwano lwethu luya kudlala ukuze sikwazi ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zabo.

Makhe sibone ezinye iingcebiso zokuqinisekisa iimvakalelo zabantwana:

  • Xela imvakalelo. Kwaye ukwenza konke oku kufuneka siqale siqaphele kwaye sahlule iimvakalelo. Abantwana badinga uncedo lwethu ukufezekisa oku, kuba uninzi lwamaxesha abazi ukuba kutheni besenza ngale ndlela. “Ndiyabona ukuba unomsindo kutheni ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi epakini. Ndiyakuqonda, yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba buhlungu ngenxa yokushiya indawo apho wonwabile.
  • Qinisekisa iimvakalelo. Ukuba uyayiqonda into yokuba uyamqonda kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba noluvo. Ungakhankanya umzekelo apho uziva imvakalelo efanayo.
  • Chaza ukuba kutheni. Abantwana, abantwana banjalo. Abachaphazeli zishedyuli okanye uxanduva lwabantu abadala. Kananjalo asinako ukubanelisa ngalo lonke ixesha, abazali banokubeka imida ngelixa beqhubeka nokuqinisekisa iimvakalelo zabo. Nje ukuba sichaze iimvakalelo zakho kwaye saziqinisekisa, lixesha lokuba unike izizathu. "Lihambile ixesha, kufuneka sigodukile siyokwenza ukutya."
  • Ndikunike enye indlela enomtsalane. Ukuthi hayi kwinto kusoloko kuthwala ngakumbi ukuba basinika enye indlela enomtsalane. Unganikezela ngokudlala umdlalo awuthandayo ekhaya emva koko, okanye uye ezantsi epakini kamva. Nantoni na abakunika yona, kuya kufuneka uyihambise.

Iziphumo zokungaqinisekisi iimvakalelo zabantwana

Ukuphika iimvakalelo zakho kuya kuchaphazela ukukhula kwakho ngokweemvakaleloAbayi kuziva beqondakele okanye bekhuselekile, baya kukhula benokuzithemba okuphantsi, baya kucinezela iimvakalelo zabo kwaye siza kubabamba abantwana bethu izixhobo kunye nezixhobo zokujongana neemvakalelo zabo kwaye singabi likhoboka labo.

Ekuqaleni kunokuba nzima kuthi kuba siyazikhanyela ezo mvakalelo, kodwa ukuze sifundise kufuneka sifunde. Zikhulule kwiipateni ezindala ezingasebenziyo ezisempilweni ebantwaneni bethu.

Kungenxa yokuba khumbula ... akukho ndlela ingcono yokunxibelelana nomntu xa usenza ukuba babone ukuba uyamqonda kwaye uqinisekisa iimvakalelo zakhe.


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