Izifundo zokufunda zemveli aziyondlela ilungileyo yokuba abantwana bafikelele kumandla abo apheleleyo okanye bafezekise eyona nto bayifunayo ebomini. Ukufunda kufuneka kuhlala kuyinto ekhethiweyo, into ofuna ukuyenza ... Kuya kufuneka ukhethe kwaye kunye nokubekwa kunye noxanduva kunokuba nzima ngakumbi. Ukuba abantwana badlala ebusaneni babo baya kuba belungele ubomi, baya kuba nezakhono ezingcono zokusombulula iingxaki zemihla ngemihla.
Ixhala labazali labantwana lokwazi izinto kwinqanaba elithile, liyabatshonisa kwaye liphelise ukukhanya kwabo kunye nobuchule. Abazali kufuneka balubeke ecaleni ixhala kuba ngumqobo omkhulu kakhulu obavimba ithuba lokuthemba kunye nokuvumela ukukhula kwabo kwendalo.
Abantwana bayilelwe ukuba babenomdla, kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba ukudlala kwabantwana akufuneki kumakishwe kwikhalenda. Ukususela ekuzalweni, abantwana bafuna ukwazi nokuqonda yonke into ebangqongileyo kwaye oku kufuneka kuphakanyiswe ukusuka kowesibini. Abantwana bafuna ukuphumelela kuzo zonke iindleko. Bahlala becela umngeni kubo kwaye banokufezekisa amandla abo apheleleyo okoko nje kufundwa ngokudlala.
Kukho umzimba omkhulu wophando oxhasa iziphumo ezilungileyo zomdlalo wokuyila. Umdlalo wokuyila unxibelelene ngokuthe ngqo nolwimi oluphuculweyo, izakhono zeemoto, ukukhula kakuhle kwengqondo kunye nophuhliso lwentlalo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenze umdlalo ngokuzenzela kwakho, ushiya bucala imidlalo ejolise ngakumbi, imidlalo enesikrini okanye imidlalo yokuhlala ngaphandle kwabazali. Ukudlala ngokwakho kuyafuneka ebantwaneni nakuphuhliso lwabo.
Umzekelo, xa abantwana bedlala ngeebhloko, ngeemoto, ngoonodoli ... ngumzuzu omkhulu wophuhliso kwaye badlala ngokwabo.