La uvelwano njengoko sichazile kumanqaku aliqela angaphambili yi umthamo ukuba abantu kufuneka bazibeke endaweni yomnye umntu, umva y cinga eyahlukileyo. Abantu abadala abaninzi nangasiphi na isizathu abaludluliseli uvelwano kwabanye kwaye yinto ekufuneka isetyenzelwe.
En los bantwana Kwenzeka into efanayo, uninzi alunamandla okuphucula, kungoko ke kubalulekile ukukhuthaza oku ekhaya, sebenza nabo ukusukela ebuntwaneni, kuba isesifubeni qhe lekile apho unokufumana khona uvelwano kwaye kamva, ewe, esikolweni.
Kubantwana kunjalo kubalulekile ukunceda phuhlisa obu buchule kuba ebudaleni kuya kufuneka babakhathalele abanye abantu kwaye bazikhathaze ngabanye ngaphandle kwabo. Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba azininzi kakhulu kukuzingca kwaye bayayazi indlela yokuzibeka ezicathulweni zomnye umntu, eya kukunceda uqonde iimvakalelo Ukusuka kwabanye kwaye ukwahlula xa ekwazile ukwenza ingozi komnye umntu engazi. Ndiyabulela kwesi sikhundla siya kubanceda ukuba babe ngcono abantu kwikamva kwaye bayazi ukuphatha bonke abantu ababangqongileyo ngcono.
Ukuze ukwazi foment uvelwano ebantwaneni kufuneka, umzekelo, sifunde iindaba Njengentsapho apho bayazi khona ukuzibeka endaweni yomlinganiswa ngamnye kwaye cacisa, ekuqaleni ngoncedo lwabazali, ukuba umntu ngamnye uziva njani, ukuba ulusizi, wonwabile, udiniwe ... Misela umzekelo yinto ebonakalayo xa unabantwana, ke ngoko kufuneka sikhokele ngomzekelo kwaye sibe ngabokuqala ukunceda abantu abayifunayo, singazicingeli, sibakhathalele abanye ... Bafundise ukuba luhlobo luni iimvakalelo zikhona kwaye wenze ukuba ngamnye kubo abone kubantu abasingqongileyo, kwanaxa esihla ngesitrato, uya kuyenza ihambe umahluko nganye yeemvakalelo zethu, ihlala inika imizekelo yeemvakalelo zethu. Enye into esingafanele siyilibale, ngakumbi abazali, kukuba ayimfuneko ukuya kwi-nag Ungaze emntwaneni ngokuchaza iimvakalelo zakhe kuba ukungxolana okungapheliyo kunokubangela ukuba bakhule ukoyika ukuzibonakalisa esidlangalaleni kwaye kubangele iingxaki ezinzulu ze intlalo kwixa elizayo, yiyo loo nto xa umntwana ekhala, makakhale, ukuba uyahleka, makahleke ... makafunde ukuba avakalise iimvakalelo kwaye azi baziqonde kwabanye yinto entle kakhulu emntwini.