Ukubaluleka koontanga kubomi bomntwana

uphuhliso olunentlalo-ntle

Ebuntwaneni bokuqala, abantwana bayasebenzisana ngokuziphatha okulula njengokujonga okanye ukuchukumisa omnye umntwana. Ukunxibelelana kweentsana kwezentlalo kunye namaqabane azo ebomini kuye kwanda kuntsonkotha njengoko bezibandakanya ngokuphindaphindiweyo okanye ukunxibelelana kwesiqhelo. (Umzekelo, ukuqengqeleka ibhola umva naphambili) ukwenza imisebenzi yentsebenziswano efana nokwakha inqaba yeebhloko kunye okanye ukulinganisa iindima ezahlukeneyo ngexesha lokuzenzisa. Fumana ukubaluleka kwamaqabane!

Ngokudibana nabo, Iintsana ziphonononga umdla wazo kwabanye kwaye zifunde malunga nokuziphatha / ukuhlangana kwezentlalo. Ukusebenzisana koontanga kunika umxholo wokufunda kwezentlalo kunye nokusombulula iingxaki, kubandakanya amava otshintshiselwano kwezentlalo, ukusebenzisana, ukutshintshana, kunye nokubonisa ukuqala kovelwano.

Yintoni ukubaluleka koontanga okanye abahlobo babantwana?

Sele siqale ngokuthi unxibelelwano lusishiya nothotho lweenzuzo eziphambili. Kodwa sinokucacisa ukuba la maqabane aya kuba luncedo olugqibeleleyo ukuze umntu ngamnye, kule meko abancinci, inokukhula kokubini ngokwasentlalweni nangokweemvakalelo. Olo 'ncedo' lwenza ukuba lube luqeqesho olupheleleyo ukuba luphele kubomi bonke. Yiyo ke loo nto sinokuthi abahlobo baphambili kuwo onke amanqanaba nakuwo onke amaxesha esiphila kuwo. Kuyinyani ukuba xa sincinci baya kuba sisiqalo samava amatsha ophuhliso lwethu. Ngoku siza kubona nangakumbi loo mpembelelo kumntu ngamnye!

Indlela ubuhlobo obunempembelelo ngayo ekufundeni

Ubuhlobo buyichaphazela njani imfundo?

Nangona ngamanye amaxesha, kwisihloko esinje, sivelisa uthelekiso, ngoku akuyi kuba njalo. Kuba siza kuqaqambisa kuphela zonke izinto ezilungileyo malunga nokujikelezwa ngabahlobo ukusukela ebuntwaneni:

  • Ukunxibelelana kwezentlalo noontanga babo kuvumela neentsana ezindala ukuba zizame iindima ezahlukeneyo kumaqela amancinci nakwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, ezinje ngokusebenzisana nabantwana abaqhelekileyo okanye abangaqhelekanga. Ukusebenzisana kukunyathela amatye kubudlelwane boontanga ebomini.
  • Abantu abadala kufuneka baququzelele uphuhliso lwendawo enokhuseleko ngokwasengqondweni ekhuthaza unxibelelwano oluqinisekileyo kwezentlalo. Njengokuba abantwana benxibelelana ngokukhululekileyo noontanga babo, bafunda ngakumbi malunga nabanye ngabanye kwaye baqala ukwakha imbali yokunxibelelana.
  • Iintsana zikhulisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nabantwana ababaziyo kwisithuba sexesha, njengabanye abantwana kwindawo yokhathalelo losapho okanye ebumelwaneni, njl. Baba ngabalingane bakho ebomini. Ubuhlobo boontanga banika abantwana abancinci ithuba lokuphuhlisa unxibelelwano lwasentlalweni.
  • Iintsana zihlala zibonisa ukuthanda ukudlala kunye nabahlobo, xa kuthelekiswa noontanga abangabalingani nabo. Kukho iipatheni ezahlukileyo zobuhlobo bosana, usana oluncinci, kunye namaqela eminyaka yobudala. La maqela mathathu ayahluka kwinani lobuhlobo, ukuzinza kobuhlobo, kunye nohlobo lonxibelelwano phakathi kwabahlobo. (umzekelo, ingaba zibandakanya kangakanani ukutshintshiselana ngezinto okanye unxibelelwano ngomlomo).

Iinzuzo zokuba nabalingane kunye nokusebenza njengeqela

Inyaniso yeyokuba kuqala banokuba ngamaqabane, emva koko babe ngabahlobo kwaye ekugqibeleni bahlukane kubo bonke ubomi. Kodwa kufuneka sihambe inyathelo ngenyathelo kwaye ngenxa yesi sizathu, ukukwazi ukuba nabantu abakungqongileyo kunye nokukwazi ukwabelana ngomsebenzi weqela kusikhokelela ekubeni sithethe ngothotho lweenzuzo. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni abayiqwalaselayo ukubaluleka kwamaqabane?

  • Ubudlelwane boluntu luyaphuculwa ngokubanzi, kuba amaxesha amaninzi kufuneka kwabelwane kwaye oku kwenza ukuba amaqhina abonakale.
  • Baya kuphuhlisa ukucinga nzulu.
  • Baya kufunda ukumamela nokuxabisa ezinye izimvo.
  • Baya kufezekisa iinjongo ezintsha kunye kwaye ngenxa yoko, baya kubanika ukubaluleka ngakumbi.
  • Ngaphandle kokulibala ukuba kuya kwenza kwakhona ukuzithemba kunamandla ngakumbi.

Ukubaluleka kokuba namaqabane

Ukungabi nabahlobo kumchaphazela njani umntwana? Ukubaluleka kwamaqabane!

Ngamanye amaxesha sidibana neemeko zabantwana abangenabahlobo. Oku kusenokuba ngenxa yeengxaki ezithile xa kufikwa ekuncokoleni kwaye kuya kukhokelela ekuphepheni ubudlelwane noontanga babo. Phakathi kwabo, lowo uhlala efuna ukuchaneka kwaye uyala abanye, okanye akanalo uvakalelo oluninzi kunye nabanye oogxa bakhe, uyatyhola okanye mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba uneentloni okanye uneentloni.

Kakade ke, kufuneka kuthiwe yinto embi kakhulu. Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, ikwangumsebenzi wabantu abadala ukukwazi ukukhuthaza intsebenziswano ngakumbi phakathi kwabantwana. Kuba kungenjalo, oku kuya kuchaphazela umntwana kwaye kungekhona kwinqanaba lesikolo sakhe kuphela, kodwa yinto eya kumtsala de abe ngumntu omdala.. Yeyiphi indlela? Ewe, ukuba nokuzithemba okuphantsi, ukuba nesithukuthezi ngakumbi, ukungakhathali kwaye mhlawumbi nokuba ndlongondlongo phakathi kwezinye iimpawu.

Buxabiseke kangakanani ubuhlobo babantwana?

Nangona sonke sisazi ukuba ubuhlobo buya kuvela, kufuneka sikhankanye ukuba bubaluleke kakhulu. Kuba abo bahlala besifundisa ukuba bazakhele bomelele kwaye abo bahambayo, ukuba ixesha labo ebomini bethu liphelile. Kodwa akufanele sibe buhlungu ngenxa yoko, kodwa njengoko sisithi lelinye inyathelo kunye nelinye indaleko. Abaninzi ngakumbi baya kuza, ukuba akukho mathandabuzo kwaye into ebalulekileyo kukusoloko ufunda kuzo zonke.

Ngoko, ukubuyela ebuntwaneni, kufuneka kuthiwe kubo yindlela yokuqonda ukunyaniseka nonyamezelo kwakunye novelwano. Baya kufunda ukucombulula iingxabano kunye neengxaki ezithile kodwa rhoqo ngokunyamezelana nentlonipho. Zonke ezi xabiso kunye nokunye okuninzi koko oogxa bethu basenza sizive kwaye siphuhlise kuwo onke amanyathelo.


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