Indlela yokufumana ubuxoki ebantwaneni

Ubuxoki ebantwaneni

Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, bafumana izakhono zokuqonda ezibanceda baqiqe ngeembono zabo ngcono, yiyo loo nto benazo ukukwazi ukuxoka, Nokuba kunjalo ukulawula okanye ukulawula imeko. Iindaba ezimnandi kuko konke oku yile ukuba umntwana uyakwazi ukwenza ubuxokiItalente yakho ukuyiphuhlisa ikumkhondo ofanelekileyo, kuba unobukrelekrele.

Ngokutsho kwesifundo esele sikhona I-20% yabantwana abaneminyaka emibini kunyebalala bevuka I-90% yabo xa befikelela kubudala beminyaka emine. Kususela kwiminyaka ye-7 xa beqala ukuqonda ubungakanani ezinokuthi bafikelele kwizenzo zabo, nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukufumana abantwana ukusuka ebusheni xa bephindaphindeka.

Singabubona njani ubuxoki babo

Umntwana ngamnye ukhula ngendlela eyahlukileyo, ukukwazi kwakhe ukuxoka kunye nendlela abucacisa ngayo ubuxoki bunokusinika izikhombisi zendlela aziphethe ngayo ngalo mzuzu, ezinye zezi zinto zinokuba zezi:

  • Ukuthetha kwakho kunokuzibonakalisa ngendlela exineneyo kwaye unako ebomvu ubuso. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba umntwana uthetha inyani, uya kuzola kwaye akhululeke.
  • Iintshukumo zomzimba wakho zihlala zihombisile kwaye izandla zakho ziya kuqala ukubila, ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho kunye nokuphefumla kuya kukhawuleza.
  • Ukuthetha kwakhe kuqhelekile kakhulu, banika iinkcukacha ezimbalwa zento abafuna ukuyithetha, kunzima kubo ukuba bacinge ngalo mzuzu, iinkcukacha zabo zigcwele ukuphikisana xa benika iinkcazo kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba bagqibe ekubeni ayinangqondo okanye isizathu sokuba kuxelwe.
  • Ukuzithemba okuncinci kunjalo enye yeempawu, kubonakala ngathi akayibali ngokwendalo kodwa kubonakala ngathi uyenza ngokunyanzelwa, nakwimeko ezininzi iyaziphikisa kwiingcamango zayo.
  • Kulwimi lwakhe lomzimba siyayibona loo nto izandla zakhe aziphumli, nokuba uzijijile, endaweni yoko ubuso bakhe busebenzisa umqondiso omncinci kakhulu. Abanye abantwana Bazigquma ubuso ngezandla ngenxa yokuba bengonwabanga ngokuyinxenye besazi ukuba bayaxoka.

Ubuxoki ebantwaneni

Kutheni bexoka?

Nangona kubonakala kungakholeki kuthi ukucinga, uninzi lwabantwana benza ngokuxelisa abazali babo. Ukuba yinto abayibonayo ekhaya rhoqo baya kuqhubeka ukuyenza ngendlela efanayo. Ukungabikho kwengqwalasela kuyakwenza abantwana basebenzise ubuxoki ukubamba inkathalo yabo.

Uloyiko Ikwayenye into edibeneyo, kuba phambi kwezenzo zophuculo lomntu kunye nokungakwazi ukuthobela, babe yinxalenye yabo. Ukujongana neziganeko ezinjalo, kufanele ukuba kuqatshelwe ukuba oko bahlala bezama ukukwenza Ukubaleka kuwo nawuphi na umqolo okanye isohlwayo y Yila iminqweno yakho yangaphakathi.

Indlela esimele sisabele ngayo:

Eyona nto isengqiqweni kukuba kufuneka phendula ngokuzolileyo kangangoko, akufuneki sibonise umsindo kwaye ewe kufanele thetha ngokuqinileyo nangobubele. Umntwana kufuneka angqinelane ukuba akulunganga ukuxoka.

Ubuxoki ebantwaneni

Ukuba uthatha inxaxheba ekuvumeni ubuxoki bakho singasoloko Khuthaza ukubhengezwa kwayo, kufuneka yenza imeko yokuthembana phakathi kokubiniMxelele ukuba xa ekwimeko efanayo akuyi kubakho ziphumo zihle.

Kufuneka iqatshelwe into yokuba abantwana kufuneka benze igalelo kulungelelwaniso olufanelekileyo ekuvakaliseni izimvo zabo kunjalo zama ukubafundisa ngokunyaniseka, imfundo yakho kufuneka iqine kwaye izithembe. Nangona ubuxoki buhlala bubonakala buhlekisa, akufuneki sibahleke.


Kwelinye icala, ukuba uninzi lwezenzo zakho zivela ezandleni zezenzo ezinjalo, kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukwahlula oluphi uhlobo lobuxoki bayasinika. Ubuxoki obunomdla vuka kubuntu kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba elithile loxinzelelo kwaye kufuneka sibuyele kwingcali ukuze isincede.


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