Akukho mntwana ukhula kwinqanaba elifanayo nelinye, bonke banezingqisho zabo ezivelelayo kwaye kufuneka bahlonitshwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba bakhula ngokuchanekileyo. Kodwa unokufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho angabinabo ubuchule uninzi lwabanye abantwana abalingana nalo. Xa oku kusenzeka kwaziwa njengokulibaziseka kuphuhliso kwaye nanini na xa kukho into engaqhelekanga ekukhuleni iqatshelwe, kuyakufuneka uye kugqirha oyingcali ukuvavanya imeko.
Ulibaziseko oluninzi alukho nzulu, kwaye uninzi lwabantwana kamva luyaqhubeka kwaye alusenabo, kodwa xa ulibaziseko lophuhliso lusenzeka, kufuneka banyangwe kwangethuba. Ukuba ufumanise ukuba umntwana wakho unolibaziseko oluthile ekukhuleni kwakhe, uya kufuna uncedo olufanelekileyo ngokukhawuleza, Kwaye ukuba unamathandabuzo, yiya kugqirha ngokukhawuleza ufumane ukuba ingaba umntwana wakho unoluhlobo oluthile lokulibaziseka okukhulayo.
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokulibaziseka kophuhliso, ezona ngxaki zixhaphakileyo ebantwaneni zezi:
- Intetho okanye ukulibaziseka kolwimi
- Ukulibaziseka kwezakhono zemoto
Nangona olunye ulibaziseko lweemvakalelo okanye lokucinga lunokufumaneka.
Intetho kunye nolwimi ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-5
Akukho mhla okanye umhla wokugqibela wokuba umntwana aqale ukuthetha okanye ukusebenzisa izivakalisi ezipheleleyo. Kodwa uninzi lwabantwana lufikelela kwinqanaba lokuthetha nolwimi kwiminyaka ethile. Kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha wakho ukuba umntwana wakho akayazi indlela yokufikelela kwezi zinto zibalulekileyo xa bekuminyaka elandelayo, Kwaye ukuba ubuzuzile obu buchule kwaye ngequbuliso eqala ukuphulukana nabo kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha.
- Kwiminyaka emi-3: yenza izivakalisi ezifutshane, chonga amalungu omzimba kwaye usebenzise amagama amaninzi.
- Kwiminyaka emi-4: Unokubalisa ibali elilula aze akhumbule izicengcelezo. Sebenzisa izivakalisi ezinamagama ama-5 usebenzise 'mna' kunye 'nawe' ngokuchanekileyo.
- Kwiminyaka emi-5: Ungayiqonda imiyalelo entsonkothileyo, usebenzisa amagama okuqala kunye nokugqibela, usebenzisa isininzi kunye nexesha elidlulileyo ngokuchanekileyo, ubuza imibuzo enje: 'ngoba?', 'Ngubani?', 'Nini?' Kwaye uyakwazi ukukuxelela into ayenzileyo ngala mini.
Intetho okanye ukulibaziseka kolwimi
Ezi ngxaki zezona zixhaphakileyo xa kukho ukulibaziseka kophuhliso, kodwa ukulibaziseka kwintetho akufani nokulibaziseka kulwimi. Xa kukho ukulibaziseka kwintetho inento yokwenza nezandi eziphuma emlonyeni womntu. Abantwana abanolibaziseko lokuthetha banokuthintitha okanye babe neengxaki zokubiza amagama.
Ukulibaziseka kolwimi kubhekisa kwizandi nakwizimbo zomzimba. Abantwana abanengxaki yolwimi banokuba nengxaki yokuziveza okanye yokuqonda abanye.
Ukulibaziseka kwintetho okanye kulwimi kunokubakho ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, ezinje: ngeengxaki zolwimi lomntwana, inkalakahla, okanye umlomo owenza ukuba kube nzima ukuthetha, ukulahlekelwa kukuva nangasiphi na isizathu, ukukhubazeka kokufunda, okanye ukungakhuli kakuhle.
Xa oku kusenzeka kwaye ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho anganolibaziseko lwentetho okanye lolwimi, kuya kufuneka wazise ugqirha wakho kwangoko. Ugqirha uya kwenza iimvavanyo ezifanelekileyo ukuze afumanise ukuba ngaba unalo naluphi na uhlobo lwengxaki ebangela oku kulibaziseka. Ukuba emva kokuya kwiingcali ezifanelekileyo umntwana wakho unolibaziseko, kuya kufuneka abe nonyango lokuthetha ukubiza amagama, izandi kunye nokomeleza izihlunu zobuso kunye nomlomo. Nangona ekhaya ungalandela ezinye iingcebiso ezinje:
- Thetha nomntwana wakho yonke imihla, khomba izinto ubize igama lakhe, buza imibuzo uphendule, njl.
- Fundela umntwana wakho ibali yonke imihla
- Landela unyango oluyimfuneko ukuphucula imeko yokuva
Izakhono zemoto ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-5
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bayomelela kwaye balungelelaniswe njengoko bekhula. Kuyimfuneko ukuba wazise ugqirha wakho ukuba umntwana wakho akahlangabezani nayo nayiphi na le miba yophuhliso kule minyaka ilandelayo okanye ukuba uzifundile kwaye kubonakala ngathi akasakwazi ukubalawula.
Kwiminyaka emi-3
- Gcina ibhalansi
- Yenyuka usenyuka izinyuko
- Dlala ngezinto ezincinci
- Stack iibhloko
- Sebenzisa omabini amacala omzimba wakho
- Uyakwazi ukuhamba ngeenyawo zakhe
Kwiminyaka emi-4
- Iphosa ibhola kwaye iyakwazi ukuyiganga ukuba inkulu
- Tsiba kwaye wazi ukuba ungatsiba kanjani ngonyawo olunye
- Khwela ibhayisikile enamavili amathathu ngaphandle kweengxaki
- Gcina kwaye udlale ngeebhloko
- Ususa iimpahla
Kwiminyaka emi-5
- Yakha iinqaba zakho ngeebhloko
- Uyakwazi ukubetha nokutsiba
- Sebenzisa izikere ezifanelekileyo iminyaka
- Ipeyinti ngemibala
- Ususa kwaye unxibe iimpahla
- Uyakwazi ukuhamba ngokungxama ngaphezu kwemizuzwana eli-10
- Yenyuka usihla kwizinyuko ezinyanayo
- Uyakwazi ukuhlamba amazinyo ngaphandle koncedo
- Uhlamba aze ome izandla
Ukulibaziseka kwezakhono zemoto
Abanye abantwana banokuba neengxaki ngeentshukumo abazisebenzisayo kwimisipha (izakhono zemoto) njengokudlala ibhola okanye iintshukumo ezincinci kwizakhono zemoto ezintle njengokupeyinta ngemibala. Ngamanye amaxesha ingxaki ayikho kumandla akho, kodwa ulungelelwaniso lwakho. Ungabona ukuba umntwana wabo ubonakala ngathi unezinto ezimbi kunabanye abantwana abakwiminyaka yabo.
Ngokwesiqhelo xa kukho iingxaki kuphuhliso lwezakhono zemoto zinokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba kukho ingxaki emzimbeni okanye engaphantsi eyichaphazelayo. Xa kukho iingxaki zonyango zinokuya zisiba mbi. Ezinye iingxaki zonyango zinokuba:
- Iingxaki zombono
- Ukungabikho kolawulo lwe-muscle (ataxia)
- I-Dyspraxia (ingqondo inengxaki yokulungelelanisa nokucwangcisa iintshukumo ngokuchanekileyo)
- Izifo zemisipha
- Umvakalelo yokitazo
Xa umntwana elibazisekile kwizakhono zemoto, ugqirha uya kukuxelela ukuba usebenze ngokusemandleni ekhaya kwaye ubhalisele ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo okanye iseshoni yonyango lomzimba. Unyango emsebenzini inokuba ngumbono olungileyo ukuphucula izakhono zokuhamba okanye iingxaki zolungelelwaniso. Unokuyalela amayeza okuphucula iintshukumo zakhe, kodwa kuya kufuneka kuvavanywe ngugqirha oyingcali.