Ukungancedi okufundiweyo kuxa abantu befunda ukuba ukuba bayancama okanye benze amandla, umntu uza kungenelela abancede. Mthetho ngokungathi awunakuzinceda iba yindlela yokwenza abanye abantu bazenzele izinto.
Ixesha elingaphezulu, ucinga awunakuzinceda. Sisifundo esibi ukuba usifunde ... Kwaye abantwana akufuneki bakufunde oku kuba kunokubangela iingxaki ezinzulu kwixesha elifutshane nelide.
Xa abantwana nolutsha besebenzisa le ndlela imfutshane, abafundi inkululeko. Ngapha koko, kwiintsapho apho oku kusenzeka, uya kufumanisa ukuba abantwana babengavunyelwanga ukuba bazimele. Mhlawumbi kuye kwafuneka benze izinto ngendlela ethile kwaye lonke ukhetho lwenziwe ngabo. Ekugqibeleni, bancama. Bancamile.
Nokuba kutheni umntwana wakho enokuthi akhulise ukungafundi, njengomzali, kubalulekile ukuba ayeke ukwenza izinto ekufuneka ezenzele zona. Musa ukumenzela umsebenzi wesikolo. Musa ukumenzela imisebenzi yakhe… Cinga ngento anokuyenza ngokuxhomekeke kubudala bakhe kwaye ucinge ngohlobo lomsebenzi anokuzenzela wona. Makhe ndenze ezo zinto. Ungafumaneka xa ufuna uncedo, Kodwa sukuyithatha imisebenzi yakhe kuba uya kufunda kuphela ukuba akanakho ukuyenza yedwa.
Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ngabantwana kukuba kufuneka bafunde ukuzimela besebancinci kakhulu ukuze xa bekwishumi elivisayo bakwazi ukuzenzela izinto ngaphandle kokuphinda-phinda izinto ezizigidi kwaye bade baxabane xa bengenzi njalo. Ndifuna ukusebenzisana. IpheBasenokungafuni ukusebenzisana kuba sele beqhelile kwabanye ukubenzela izinto okanye ngenxa yokuba baziva bengenako ukwenza izinto ngokwabo.
Ngale ndlela abantwana kunye nabakwishumi elivisayo baya kuba nakho ukufunda ukuthatha uxanduva kwaye baya kubanika ithuba lokufunda ukuzimela.