Siphila kwihlabathi lasekunene, yinyani leyo. Uninzi lwabemi lubambe isandla sasekunene kwaye ke phantse zonke izixhobo kunye nezixhobo zobomi bemihla ngemihla ziyilelwe abantu abanesandla sasekunene. Ukubona isixhobo esenzelwe kuphela isandla sasekhohlo kunokusothusa. Kukuba inqaku lokuba izinto ezishiyekileyo zibonakala ngathi kufuneka ziqhele kwaye zilungelelanise nendlela yobomi abayinikwa ngabantu abanesandla sasekunene. Abantwana abangamanxele nabo kubonakala ngathi kufuneka boyise ubunzima, ngakumbi xa befunda ukubhala.
Akubonakali kulula kumntwana wasekhohlo ukuba afunde ukubhala, okanye ubuncinci kubonakala ngathi akukho lula njengabantwana abanesandla sasekunene abanephepha nepensile kwaye abangasonakalisi isandla sabo xa besirhuqa emva kokubhala iileta ezibhaliweyo. Yintoni egqithisile, Abasekhohlo kufuneka bafunde ukubhala bethathela ingqalelo indlela eyahlukileyo yokuma kwabo basekunene, akunjalo?
Kukho abantwana aboyikayo okanye abadidekileyo malunga nendlela yokufunda ukubhala, kodwa inyani kukuba akukho mahluko ungako kwindlela abantwana abasisandla sokunene abafunda ngayo kwindlela abantwana abasekhohlo abafunda ngayo ukubhala. Kufuneka ugcine izinto ezithile ezibalulekileyo engqondweni ukuze bafunde ukubhala ngaphandle kwengxaki kwaye bayakwazi ukoyisa imiqobo enokuvela.
Thathela ingqalelo amanqanaba ophuhliso
Khumbula ukuba amanqanaba okukhula abalulekile ukuwathathela ingqalelo ukufundisa umntwana wasekhohlo ukubhala… sithathela ingqalelo ukuba ungumntwana oqhelekileyo ofana ncam nomnye umntwana.
Musa ukumnyanzela
Kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ixesha elizayo likhule ngokupheleleyo ade umntwana abe phakathi kweminyaka emi-5 nengama-6 ubudala. Ukuba unomntwana omncinci obonisa ukuthanda isandla sasekhohlo, unokutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha eyedwa kwaye abe ngumbhali onesakhono esipheleleyo ngexesha afika ngalo esikolweni.
Abantwana akufuneki banyanzelwe ukuba basebenzise isandla sabo sasekunene ukuba banokukhetha ngasekhohlo, yinkqubo yendalo kwaye kufuneka bahlonitshwe nokuba kuyintoni na. Vumela umntwana wakho amathuba okuphonononga ukusetyenziswa kwezandla zombini. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, uya kufumana ukhetho kwaye ekugqibeleni usebenzise isandla osibonisa esona sakhono sikhulu, amandla kunye nobuchule.
Ukuba uyabona ukuba ulinxele, mxelele ukuba unguye
Ukuba umntwana wakho ulinxele, mxelele ukuba unguye kwaye adlulise ukuzola kunye nokuzithemba kuba oko akuthethi nto imbi. Ngokuqinisekileyo. Maninzi amakhwenkwe namantombazana ashiywe ngasekhohlo kwaye oko akuthethi kuthi uneengxaki zemfundo kubo. Kwakhona baninzi abantu abadala abakho kwaye abanangxaki yeemvakalelo ngenxa yayo. Ukushiya ngasekhohlo akuyongxaki kwaye ke umntwana wakho kufuneka azive enoxolo lwengqondo malunga nale nyani.
Esikolweni, gqabaza ukuba umntwana wakho ulinxele ukuze bahloniphe ukuba ubhala ngasekhohlo nanini na umntwana ebonisa umdla wokwenza njalo. Ukumnyanzela ukuba abhale ngesandla esingalawulekiyo kunokuba nefuthe elibi emntwaneni kwaye kunokumphazamisa.
Iifom zokubhala
Ukusetyenziswa kweenzipho ngohlobo 'lweehambo ezintathu'
Ukusebenzisa iinzipho ngohlobo 'lwee tripod' kuthetha ukubamba ipensile ngomnwe wesalathiso nobhontsi nokuphumla ipensile kumnwe ophakathi… Ngokuchanekileyo ngokufanayo nokwenziwa ngabantwana basekunene. Oku kuya kukunceda uphucule intshukumo engcono ngeminwe yakho kwaye uya kuba nendawo echanekileyo yesandla xa ubhala ephepheni.
Uyibamba njani ipensile
Abantwana abangasekhohlo kufuneka bafunde ukubamba ipensile kwi-tripod ngokubamba ipensile malunga neesentimitha ezimbini ngaphezulu kwepensile. Xa abantwana abangasekhohlo behambisa iminwe yabo kwipensile kwaye bayibeka ngaphezulu kancinci kunabanye abantwana abangasekunene, baya kuba nakho ukubona oko bakubhalayo ukuze babe nembono engcono kunye nendawo engcono isihlahla. Ukongeza, oku kuya kubanceda ukuba bangcolise kancinci njengoko bebhala.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ulinxele kwaye akayazi ukuba uyibeka njani iminwe yakhe, beka ileyibheli yokuncamathela kwindawo ephezulu ekufuneka acofe kuyo ipensile ukuze kubelula ukuba abhale kwaye akwazi nokubona ngcono oko akubhalayo. Isitikha okanye ileyibheli yokuncamathela iya kuba yinto ebonakalayo ebonakalayo ukuba uyikhumbule.
Beka iphepha ngasekhohlo
Ingumbono olungileyo ukufundisa abantwana abangamanxele ukuba babeke iphepha ngasekhohlo emzimbeni ukuze bakwazi ukubona oko bakubhalayo. Xa begqiba ukubhala ngaphaya komgca, isandla kufuneka sibe ngaphambili, ngale ndlela banokuhamba ngokwendalo ngakumbi kwaye bagcine isihlahla sabo siqonde kwaye banokubona oko bakubhalayo.
Azidingi zixhobo zokubhala zikhethekileyo
Kangangendlela abazama ngayo ukuthengisa iipensile okanye iipeni ngee-lefties, inyani kukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba bazisebenzise, ngaphandle kokuba kucetyiswa ngugqirha nangenxa yesizathu esithile. Abantwana kunye nawuphina umntu ongasekhohlo bayakwazi ukubamba ipensile ngokufanelekileyo nangokufanelekileyo njengabantu basekunene.
Kuthekani ngesikere? Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana basekhohlo basebenzise isikere sasekhohlo, kodwa hayi ngenxa yokuxakeka kwezandla kodwa ngenxa yendlela ibala elijolise ngayo, evumela abantwana ukuba babone ngcono apho usika khona. Ukuba kuya kufuneka usike kodwa awunazo izikere zasekhohlo, elinye iqhinga kukujika isikere sijongise ezantsi ukutshintsha ulinganiso lwesikere. Oku akulunganga ngenxa yokubekwa kwezandla kodwa sisisombululo esikhawulezileyo kwimeko yokuba umntwana eyifuna ngexesha elithile.
Ukuthi umntwana unesandla sasekhohlo akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka abe nobunzima ngakumbi kunabantwana basekunene. Abantu abadala kufuneka babuhloniphe ubumva babantwana nokuba buyintoni na. Ngaba unonyana okanye intombi esebenzisa isandla sasekhohlo njengeyona iphambili?
Mhle kanjani uMaría José! Ndiyayithanda imbono yokuhlonipha ixesha elizayo, kwaye ndicinga ukuba abantwana basekhohlo baziva benyanzelekile ukuba basebenzise izandla zabo zasekunene.
Ndikunika isizathu sokuba ukuba sasekhohlo okanye sasekhohlo akufuneki kube yingxaki kuye nawuphi na umntwana, kwaye ndiyalithanda lonke icebiso olinike lona, kuba ndilifumana liluncedo kakhulu kwaye kulula ukulisebenzisa. Ufuna ukuhambelana kwicala lomntu wonke, akunjalo?
Enkosi ngokuwola.