Ukukhulelwa kwesibini ngexesha elifutshane…Ukufumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe kwakhona kwiinyanga ezimbalwa emva kokubeleka kunokuba yinto eyothusayo. udidekile. Kodwa sisenzo esoyiswa ngokulula, kuba nabani na osandul’ ukuba nomntwana usavuleleke ukuba aphinde atyhubele la mava kwakhona ngenxa yokuba yonke into yakutshanje. Ukwamkela omnye umntwana kudla ngokuba namandla kakhulu.
Kwezinye iimeko, nangona kunjalo, a ukukhulelwa okukufutshane kunokuba yingxaki, mhlawumbi ngokwezoqoqosho okanye ngokwasemzimbeni.
Umzimba wethu ngaphambi kokuba ukukhulelwa kwesibini kuvalwe ngexesha
Ngamanye amaxesha kuye kube kuhle ukuba sibe nabantwana abasondeleyo ukuze badlale kwaye ukuze ungabi sazikhathaza ngalo mba, kodwa, ngaba umzimba ukulungele ukuqalisa le adventure entsha?
Akukho mgaqo othi kufuneka silinde ixesha elingakanani phakathi kokukhulelwa. Ukuba iimeko zempilo jikelele zilungile kwaye ikhosi yokukhulelwa kwangaphambili ibe rhoqo kwaye ngaphandle kweengxaki, ukukhulelwa okutsha kunokuthi kwenzeke ngaphandle kobunzima. Ngapha koko, i ixesha elifunekayo ukuze umzimba ubuyele kwisimo esiqhelekileyo sifutshane kakhulu. Ukuba owasetyhini akancancisi, umjikelo we-ovulatory uqala kwakhona kwiintsuku ezingama-30-40 emva kokubeleka, ngelixa isibeleko sibuyela kwimeko yangaphambi kokukhulelwa kwiinyanga ezimbalwa.
Ngaba siya kuba neevithamini eziyimfuneko kumntwana wesibini?
Omnye umbuzo ovela ngokwemvelo kukuba: ngaba ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili kubangele a ukunqongophala kwezinto ezibalulekileyo njenge intsimbi, apho kulungele "ukubonelela" ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa okutsha?
Kwiinyanga ezintandathu ukuya kwezilithoba emva kokubeleka, akunakwenzeka ukuba owasetyhini aswele intsimbi, zombini ngenxa yokuba i-mineral depletion idla ngokuphathwa ngokukhawuleza ngokuthatha izongezelelo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba i-lactation amenorrhea ivumela umzimba ukuba uhlaziyeke ngokufanelekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba izinto zokulandelela ezingekhoyo, oko kukuthi, iivithamini y Iityuwa zeminerali. Ukususela ekuqaleni kolu kukhulelwa kwesibini, ngoko ke, ukuthathwa kakuhle kwezi zinto kuya kufuneka, ngokukodwa ngokutya, apho kufuneka kuhlawulwe ingqalelo ekhethekileyo.
Ukuphumla kuba yinto eyimfuneko kwaye inzima ngaxeshanye
Isahluko esintsokothileyo kwabo sele bebelekile kwaye balindele enye, yile kulala Enyanisweni, kuya kuba nzima ukudibanisa iimfuno zamazibulo kunye nesidingo sokulala nokuphumla ixesha elide, eliqhelekileyo kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala zokukhulelwa.
Ukulala kuyimfuneko ukuba umama anelise u-ewe okanye u-ewe. Ingcebiso kula matyala cela uncedo komnye umntu (kwiqabane, umhlobo, umgcini womntwana ...) ukuba akwazi ukuphumla ngokusemandleni, ngexesha lobusuku, kodwa nakwiiyure zakuqala emva kwemini. Ngamafutshane, ukukhulelwa okutsha kufuna ukuba iiyure zokulala zihlonishwe kungakhathaliseki ukuba umama unezibophelelo kunye nexesha elincinane kunokukhulelwa kwangaphambili. Kodwa yiloo nto simele sikhumbule ukuba kukho abantu abasingqongileyo abanokusinceda, yaye ukuba akunjalo, sinokubakhangela.
Enye into enokuthi ihambe kakuhle kukugxila ngakumbi kumsebenzi womzimba, ngokuzolula okanye zogazi. Kubalulekile ukuba ukususela kwinyanga yesihlanu ungazinikezela ubuncinane iyure enye ngeveki kwi-fetus, apho uphumla kwaye uzinikele kuye kuphela.
Ityala loomama abancancisayo...
Kule meko, umfazi uhlala ezibuza ukuba enze ntoni, ukuba aqhubeke okanye ayeke. Ingcebiso kukucamngca into oyifunayo ngokwenenekungakhathaliseki iingcinezelo zangaphandle.
Ukuqhubeka nokuncancisa umntwana wakho akuthathi nto kumntwana omthweleyo. Ukutya okunokulinganisela kunye okupheleleyo okufunwa ukuncelisa, emva koko, kukwanele ukujongana nokukhulelwa okutsha. Kwelinye icala, kusenokwenzeka ukuba Owakhe umntwana uyala ibele (iphunga kunye nencasa yobisi iyatshintsha ngenxa yempembelelo yehomoni yokukhulelwa), okanye kwezinye iimeko, kwaye ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo, ngamanye amaxesha badla ngokutya ngakumbi. Yinto eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho wokuqala wazalwa ngotyando, ngaba nowesibini uza kuba naye?
Kuthiwa ukuba ukuzalwa kokuqala kwaveliswa ngu Icandelo leKesareya, kufanele kwenzeke okufanayo nakweyesibini. Ngaphambili kwakukholelwa ukuba eyona nto ilungileyo kwezi meko yayikukulinda ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba owasetyhini ajongane nokubeleka kwilungu lobufazi. Namhlanje, enkosi kwiindlela zale mihla zoqhaqho olungenelelayo, akukho zithintelo zalo naluphi na uhlobo. Ukuba umama nosana bafumana imeko yokuphila kakuhle, akukho sizathu sokuba ukuzalwa akufanele kwenzeke ngokwemvelo.
Kuthekani ngabazali?
Ukuba oomama, ngokubanzi, baloyisa ngokulula ukuphazamiseka okunokubangelwa kukufumanisa ukuba bakhulelwe kwakhona kufutshane neyokuqala, ubawo. kungathatha ixesha elide ukuyenza… Emadodeni lixesha lobunzima eliqhelekile kwaye liqhelekile. Umntu kufuneka enze njalo nika isibini ixesha lokujonga iindaba kwaye uzame ukucinga kakuhle.