Le nyaniso iyonyusa ukutyeba okukhoyo kuluntu lwethu kunxibelelwano lwasentlalweni kunye nokufumana 'ukuthanda' okungakumbi kubomi babo (eyaziwa ngokuba 'ndiyathanda'). Ngamanye amaxesha kwanolutsha kunye nabantu abadala bayazazi iinethiwekhi zokunxibelelana xa bepapasha umxholo (ividiyo, umfanekiso okanye isicatshulwa), ukuze nje bazi ifuthe ebenalo kunxibelelwano lwabo.. Oku kunokuba kukugqithisa kwaye kukhokelele kwiingxaki zobuntu, njengokungaqiniseki okanye ukuxhomekeka. Kungenxa yoko le nto kunyanzelekile ukuba ukhulise abantwana abakhuselekileyo ukuze bangaweli kolu thando lukhulu.
Ngale nto yonke, kubonakala ngathi ukuzithemba kwabantu kusongelwe kubukho babo bedijithali. Abantu abanabalandeli abaninzi babonakala bebaluleke ngakumbi ... Ubomi bokwenene yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu xa kutyhalwa.
Abazali banokukufumanisa kunzima ukufumana abantwana ukuba bathathe inxaxheba ebonakalayo kubomi bokwenyani, ukuqinisekisa ukuba bafunda izinto ezibenza bazive bezalisekisiwe, ukuba bakhule ngempumelelo, ngokuzithemba ngaphandle kwelizwe elibonakalayo. Iitekhnoloji ezintsha zinezibonelelo zazo, Kuyacaca, kodwa kuyafuneka ukuba ukhulise abantwana ngaphandle kobo buchwephesha buxhomekeke kubo.
Abantwana banokwenza impazamo yokulinganisa ukubaluleka kwabo buxhomekeke 'kwizinto abazithandayo' abazifumanayo kuthungelwano lwazo. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqonde ukuba ilizwe ledijithali labantwana likhoyo ngoku kwaye kufuneka babakhulise ngezixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuze inyani ebonakalayo ingalahleki.
Abazali akufuneki benze impazamo yokuthintela zonke iinethiwekhi zentlalo ekhaya, esi ayisosisombululo. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukubeka phambili ngaphandle kwezithintelo, bafunde ukuphuma kwilizwe ledijithali ukonwabela okwangoku. Abazali kufuneka bafundise abantwana babo ukuze babe nezixhobo ezoneleyo zokusetyenziswa kwedijithali ngokukhuselekileyo nangokufanelekileyo. Kule nto, kubalulekile ukudibanisa i-Intanethi kunye nemithombo yeendaba zentlalo kubomi babantwana, kodwa ngendlela elungileyo.
Indlela yokukhulisa abantwana abakhuselekileyo kolu luntu luthande 'ukuthanda'
Beka imithetho
Kuyimfuneko ukuba abantwana kunye nabakwishumi elivisayo banemithetho ecacileyo malunga nokusetyenziswa kweendaba zosasazo kunye neetekhnoloji ezintsha. Kuya kubakho ixesha elincinci lokuchitha kunye nosapho. Umzekelo, amajelo asekuhlaleni akufuneki asetyenziswe ukuba:
- Ityiwa njengentsapho
- Ukuhamba ukuphuma kosapho
- Xa ukusetyenziswa kwezixhobo ekhaya kudlula iiyure ezimbini
Abantwana kunye nolutsha kufuneka bafunde ukuba ubomi babo akufuneki busekwe ekuvezeni izinto abazenzayo okanye abangazenziyo kwimithombo yeendaba. Ubomi bungaphezulu kokuboniswa siscreen.
Khokela abantwana kwiindlela ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zokunxibelelana nabantu
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali baliqonde ixabiso losasazo kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo, kubandakanya nemidiya yoluntu. Elinye ilizwe kubomi babantwana kwaye liyabachaphazela, Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka uphephe ukugweba okanye ukugxeka ngalo lonke ixesha, kungcono ukufundisa izakhono zokusebenzisa kunye nokulawula uthungelwano lwasentlalweni.
Kuya kufuneka ube ngumzekelo olungileyo wokusetyenziswa ngokuchanekileyo kwenethiwekhi, thetha ngendlela elungileyo malunga nokusetyenziswa kwayo kunye nokuseka imigaqo ukuze abantwana bafunde ukuyisebenzisa ngaphandle kokuba babe yityhefu. Umzekelo, ukuba ubona umfanekiso ongalunganga womnye umntu okanye umntu odumileyo kwi-Instagram, Ungaqala incoko malunga nayo ukuze uthethe ngokuziphatha okuza nayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthetha ngemizekelo yabanye abantu (kuhlala ngentlonipho) kusebenza ngakumbi ebantwaneni ukuba bacinge kwaye babonakalise isimilo sabo. Ngale ndlela baya kuba nakho ukuphucula ukucinga kwabo ngokubhekisele ekusebenziseni iinethiwekhi zentlalo.
Ukuphucula izakhono zonxibelelwano (buqu)
Abantu abaninzi baziva benesibindi sokubhala emva kwescreen, mgama. Kodwa ke aba bantu bajongana nabo ubuso ngobuso baphulukana nesibindi. Kuyimfuneko ukugxininisa ukuba abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukulawula izinto ezenzeka ebomini babo ngaphandle kokuba semva kwesikrini.
Xa abantwana befumana ukungqubana nabanye abantu, abazali kufuneka babakhokele kwiincoko ezinzima naloo mntu. Akuonwabisi kwaye kunzima, kodwa kufuneka bafunde ukwamkela kwaye boyise uloyiko olunokuvela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde izakhono zonxibelelwano, kwaye ekuphela kwendlela yokwenza oku kukuziqhelanisa.
Yomeleza isimilo
Kunzima ebantwaneni ukuba baxabise kwaye baxabise izinto xa benika kuphela 'ixabiso' kwizinto abazithandayo 'kwiinethiwekhi zabo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba abantwana baqeqeshwe kwaye bazive benelunda ngomzamo abawenzileyo kwinto abayenzileyo ngaphandle kokuxhomekeka ekuqinisekisweni kwabanye ukuba bazive bonwabile. Ukuxhomekeka kwangaphandle kufuneka kuphele, kufuneka bazi ukuba zixabise ntoni ngaphandle kokufuna ukwamkelwa ngabanye.
Abantwana kufuneka basebenze ngokuzithemba kwabo ngemilinganiselo yangaphakathi nangaphandle efana neyabazali babo. Abazali kufuneka bancome amandla abantwana babo abonisa umzamo, ukuthembeka, unyamezelo, kunye nokunyaniseka. Nokuba imithombo yeendaba zentlalo inokuba sisixhobo sokuqaqambisa amandla omlinganiswa ebantwaneni, xa bebonisa ukuba 'ukuthanda' akubachaphazeli.
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu ebantwaneni kukuba abazali bagqabaze ngendlela elungileyo nanini na xa bebona ezo mpawu zibalulekileyo ekukhuleni kwabo. Umzekelo, ukuba ubukele umdlalo wezemidlalo umntwana wakho awuthandayo kunye naye kwaye ubona indlela umdlali abonisa ubuchule kwezemidlalo, gqabaza indlela enza ngayo into elungileyo nokuba akukho mntu ubukeleyo. Unokusebenzisa imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ukubonisa okufanayo.
Wenza njani ukuba ufundise abantwana bakho ngaphandle kokuzixakekisa nge 'likes'?
Ndiyayithanda le mbonakalo! Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuvunywa kwilizwe ledijithali kunokusitya xa singenangqondo, kwaye eyona nto sinokuyenza kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo kukubanika izixhobo ukuze bakwazi ukuzithemba, ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni abanye bacinga ntoni ngabo.
A ubingelele.