Ayingabo bonke abantwana abaguquka kwinqanaba elifanayo, abanye bathatha ixesha elide kunabanye ukufikelela kumanqwanqwa ophuhliso Kwaye oku akufuneki ukuba yinto embi, kude nayo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba bobabini abazali kunye neengcali basihloniphe isingqisho somntwana ngamnye malunga nokuvela kwayo kunye nokufunyanwa kwayo kumanqanaba okukhula. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha, kunokubakho ukulibaziseka okuphuhlisayo okuya kubaluleka ukwazi ukuba ubachonge ngokukhawuleza.
Kodwa kulindeleke ukuba ezinye izinto zophuhliso zifezekiswe phakathi kweminyaka ethile ukuze bazi ukuba kukho ingxaki kuphuhliso okanye hayi. Oku kuyimfuneko ngaphezulu kwako konke, kuba xa kukho uhlobo oluthile lokulibaziseka kokukhula ebantwaneni, kubalulekile ukuba kubekho ukhathalelo olwaneleyo kwaye kwasekuqaleni ukuphuhlisa zonke iimpawu ekufuneka zifundwe ngabantwana.
Emva koko siza kuthetha ngolunye ulibaziseko lokukhula oluqheleke kakhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-5 ubudala, kodwa kufuneka sibonwe ukuze ngale ndlela, ukhathalelo kunye nenkxaso zifunwe kukhuthazo olufanelekileyo ebantwaneni. Ke banokukhulisa amandla abo apheleleyo.
Ukulibaziseka kophuhliso: iimvakalelo nezentlalo
Ezi ngxaki zinokuthetha ukuba abantwana banengxaki yokuvana nabantu abadala okanye abanye abantwana. Amaxesha amaninzi, iingxaki ziyavela ngaphambi kokuba abantwana baqale isikolo.
Unobangela oqhelekileyo wolibaziseko ekuhlaleni nakwimvakalelo unokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba umntwana ene-autism spectrum disorder okanye i-ASD. Esi sigulo sinokuchaphazela indlela umntwana avakala ngayo, enxibelelana ngayo, aziphatha ngayo kunye nendlela afunda ngayo.
Yintoni onokuyenza kwezi meko
Xa kukho ukulibaziseka ekuhlaleni okanye ngokweemvakalelo ebantwaneni, kuya kufuneka ujonge unobangela kwaye ubuchaphazela kangakanani ubomi kunye nomgangatho wobomi bomntwana wakho. Kuya kufuneka usebenze ngokubambisana nogqirha kunye nezinye iingcali ezinceda umntwana wakho ukuba aphucule zonke iimpawu zakhe.
Amayeza okanye iintlobo ezizodwa zonyango lokuziphatha zinokunceda ukuba umntwana wakho uneengxaki zokuziphatha ngenxa yokulibaziseka kokuvuthwa. Unokusebenza kunye nonyango ukuze ufunde ukukhulisa izakhono zentlalo kunye neemvakalelo ekhaya, oku kubalulekile kuba ukusebenza ekhaya yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ukuze abantwana baqhubele phambili kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Kwangoko usebenza kwezi ngxaki, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho abe nakho ukuhlangana nabanye abantwana abakwiminyaka yakhe ngaphandle kweengxaki ezinkulu.
Yintoni eqhelekileyo kwizakhono zentlalo kunye neemvakalelo kubudala beminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-5
Ukwazi ukuba yintoni eqhelekileyo kwaye yintoni engekhoyo, kufuneka uqale uchonge ukuba zeziphi izakhono zentlalo nezeemvakalelo ekufuneka zifezekiswe ngokobudala. Khumbula ukuba umntwana ngamnye wahlukile kwaye kufuneka alandele isingqisho sakhe.
Kwiminyaka emithathu
- Bonisa umdla kwabanye abantwana
- Zive ukhululeke ngakumbi ukwahlukana nabazali okanye abanonopheli
- Unokugcina unxibelelwano oluhle emehlweni
Kwiminyaka emine
- Ukubambelela okanye ukulila kancinci xa abazali beshiya
- Nika ingqalelo abanye abantwana
- Ukuphendula kubantu abangaphandle kosapho
Kwiminyaka emihlanu
- Ubonisa uluhlu olubanzi lweemvakalelo
- Unokwahlulwa kubazali bakho ngokulula
- Uyakwazi ukudlala kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye abantwana ngokulula
Ukulibaziseka kophuhliso: okunxulumene nokucinga
Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni umntwana enokuba neengxaki ngokwazi kwakhe ukucinga, ukufunda nokukhumbula, oku kukwabizwa ngokuba zizakhono zokuqonda. Oonobangela banokubandakanya iingxaki kuphuhliso lwemfuzo, iingxaki zomzimba, iimeko zokusingqongileyo, ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha okanye ezinye iingxaki ngaphambi kokuba bazalwe, kunye neengozi ngexa lokukhulelwa okanye xa bezintsana. Kodwa amaxesha amaninzi Oogqirha abanakufumana unobangela othile wokulibaziseka kwengqondo, kodwa kubalulekile ukujongana nayo ngokukhawuleza.
Yintoni onokuyenza kwezi meko
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukwazisa ugqirha womntwana wakho ukuba ucinga ukuba kukho into engalunganga. Ukuba ugqirha uyavuma, baya kuncoma ingcali eyaziyo ukuba yintoni ingxaki kwaye yiyo loo nto ifumane oyena nobangela kulibaziseko lokuqonda. Ukufumana uxilongo oluchanekileyo kubalulekile ukuze ube nakho ukufumana olona ncedo lufanelekileyo kumntwana wakho. kwaye ke oko kuphucula zonke iimpawu kunye namandla. Kuxhomekeka kwisifo somntwana wakho, unokufumana uncedo ku:
- Ingcali yonyango
- Ukusuka kwingqondo yengqondo
- Ukusuka kwimfundo yonyango
Ngamanye amaxesha amayeza anokunceda kwiingxaki zokuziphatha ezenzeka ngenxa yokulibaziseka kwengqondo. Ezinye zezi ngxaki zokuziphatha zinokuba kukutshintsha kwemozulu, ukungakhathaleli, okanye isimilo esiphazamisayo.
Yintoni eqhelekileyo kwizakhono zokuqonda okanye zokucinga kwiminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-5
Kwiminyaka emithathu
- Ungakopa isangqa
- Qonda imiyalelo elula
- Yenza umdlalo wokulinganisa okanye wokucinga
- Uthanda ukudlala ngeethoyi ezifanelekileyo ngokweminyaka
Kwiminyaka emine
- Joyina imidlalo yokudibana
- Uthatha inxaxheba kwimidlalo emnandi
- Iyakwazi ukukopa izangqa kunye nezinye iimilo zejiyometri ezisisiseko
Kwiminyaka emihlanu
- Iyakwazi ukugcina ingqalelo
- Ungajonga into enye ngaphezulu kwemizuzu eli-10
- Uyathanda ukufunda izinto ezintsha ngaphandle kokuziva ukhathazekile
Khumbula ukuba umazi ngcono umntwana wakho kunaye nabani na, unganqikazi ukuya kugqirha xa uziva ukuba kukho into engalunganga. Landela ithuku lakho Nokuba ucinga ukuba mhlawumbi kamva kuya kuphucuka, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ugqirha ucinga ntoni ngokweziphene ozibonayo kubantwana bakho.
Nokuba kungaluphi na uhlobo lokulibaziseka ekukhuleni komntwana wakho, ukuxilongwa kwangoko kunye nonyango zezona ndlela zokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba akhule ngokukhuthaza bonke ubuchule kunye neempawu zakhe. Unonophelo lwakwangoko lunokuphepha iingxaki kwixa elizayo, ngale ndlela kubalulekile ukuba ufune uncedo ngokukhawuleza ukusuka kwiminyaka ye-3 kwaye nangaphambi koko ukuba ucinga ukuba ukukhula komntwana wakho akuhambelani nobudala bakhe. Uncedo alusoze lube lukhulu kakhulu kwaye unokukhuthaza ukukhula okuhle kwendaleko.