Ukwamkela iqabane lakho kubalulekile kubudlelwane obunyanisekileyo. Ewe uyathanda ukuva amagama amnandi kwiqabane lakho, ngubani ongathandiyo? Ikwangumzekelo olungileyo wabantwana bakho, inyanzelekile!
Ekuqaleni, ubudlelwane bungokomzimba ngakumbi, wenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuzikholisa, kodwa njengoko ixesha lihamba, umtsalane wesini uyanyamalala kancinci ... Kwaye yingxaki kunye nosapho olwenza ubudlelwane obomeleleyo phakathi kwakho.
Uyonwabile neqabane lakho, kufana nokuzaliseka kwephupha, kodwa gcinani engqondweni ukuba kuya kubakho into enye okanye ezimbini ngawe ekunzima ukuba azamkele. Ukuba ufuna ukusebenza ngokunyaniseka kubudlelwane nakusapho lwakho, kwaye ufuna ukuba olo lwalamano lube lolwexesha elide, kufuneka uzive ezi zinto ngaphandle kokuzikhusela. Kuya kufuneka uyiqonde le nto ayithethayo, Thetha ngengqondo evulekileyo kwaye ubone ukuba ungayitshintsha njani imeko.
Ukunyaniseka kuthetha ukwabelana nabanye
Xa uthandana kwaye ukulungele ukunyaniseka okwenene kubudlelwane nakwintsapho yakho, wabelana ngentlungu yakho, iimvakalelo zakho, ukukhohlisa kwakho, amabhongo kunye neengxaki njengombandela. Ixesha elingaphezulu, ulwalamano lwakho lukhule ngokumangalisayo. Uyoyisile ngempumelelo imiqobo yokuqala, niziva nikhululekile omnye komnye kwaye ubudlelwane bubonakala bukhuselekile.
Ukuba ufuna ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo nobuthembekileyo nosapho, kufuneka wabelane ngalo. Ukwabelana akuthethi ukuba uthelekisa amanqaku kwimicimbi yakho edlulileyo ngaphandle kokuba, ewe, kuyanceda ngokunyanga. Ukwabelana ngamaxhala njengengxaki yemali kubalulekile kubudlelwane obunyanisekileyo, ngakumbi ukuba omnye wenu akanankathalo ekusebenziseni inkcitho, umzekelo. Cinga indlela ekungafanelekanga ngayo ukungena kubudlelwane obusekwe kukunganyaniseki okunjalo.
Kubantu abaninzi, ukunyaniseka ngowona mgangatho uphezulu iqabane kunye nosapho olunokuba nawo. Kulula ukuqonda ukuba kutheni, ukunyaniseka kuyathuthuzela, kukunika uxolo lwengqondo, kwaye ukuba ufuna ubudlelwane obunentsingiselo obusekwe kuthembekile, into elungileyo ekufuneka uyenzile kukunyaniseka. Njengoko uBenjamin Franklin watsho, ukunyaniseka yeyona migaqo ilungileyo.