Ukukhusela amantombazana kwinkcaso

Injongo 3

Ndize ku Esi sithuba sintatheli uCarme Chaparro esipapashe kuYo Dona (El Mundo) kwaye utyhola uluntu olujika amantombazana abe ngamabhinqa, ukusukela oko ayeke ukuba ziintsana. UCarme ubhekisa kwibali lomama owathi, xa ejongene nezikhalazo ezivela esikolweni zokuba intombi yakhe (eneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala) yaya esikolweni ngaphandle kokwenza izithambiso, waphendula ngelithi ootitshala mabayeke nokuziqaba ... Njengokuba ibifana, ngokungathi umsebenzi wentombazana nganye kunye / okanye inkwenkwe wawungekho (ukongeza ekufundeni) ukudlala kunye nokonwabela obo buntwana kubudala be-9 bubonakala buhlala buhleli, kwaye kwi-20 siphoswa, sazi ukuba amaxesha okubaleka, ukungcola, ukungazikhathazi phantse ngayo yonke into, kwaye ukukhululeka akunakuze kubuye.

Ayisiyongxoxo efanelekileyo, kuba zininzi izinto ezingenakwenziwa ngabancinci kuba bengonelanga okanye ngenxa yokuba bengenabuchule bokwenza oko. Umzekelo, imovie eyoyikisayo egqithisileyo inokuba yingozi nge-7, umntwana akanakunyuka e-Everest, kwaye umntwana oneminyaka emi-4 akufuneki avule i-oveni enze ikeyiki. Kwelinye icala siyabakhubekisa ukuba bonwabele ubuntwana, kwelinye icala bafuna ukukhula okungalunganga: bapakishe ubhaka wabo wesikolo, bacele uncedo ukuba bayangcungcuthekiswa esikolweni, njl. Ngokoluvo lwam kufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo kakhulu. UValeria wayesele esixelele oko I-hypersexualizing ubuntwana sisandulela sokuchaswa kwamantombazana namakhwenkweNamhlanje siza kunika ithuba elinye kwesi sihloko.

Kwixesha apho sinokunxibelelana nomntu okwelinye icala lehlabathi, kwaye sifunde amaphephandaba apapashwe eHawaii, nAmandla okwenza izigqibo abonakala ngathi aya esihla; kwaye oku kubonakala ngokukodwa kwabasetyhini kunye / okanye kumantombazana. Imizimba yethu iphantsi kolawulo: ifashoni iyalela ukuba sinxibe njani, sibhengeza ukuba mabangakanani amabele ethu ...

Uhlaziyo

Oku kukwabundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini.

Umncinci ngonaphakade, engenasiphako eluswini kwaye ebumba umzimba kwinkonzo yobukhoboka ... uloyiso olufunyenwe kumashumi eminyaka eyadlulayo lusemva kakhulu. Sinokuvota, sifunde, simke ekhaya siye kusebenza kwaye siye kwiindibano ngaphandle kokuhamba kwamadoda; Nangona kunjalo, kwiifom ezothusayo ze ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini, umntu omtsha uyajoyina: ngakumbi ngakumbi ukuqonda, ngakumbi kobuqili. Ubuhle bangaphakathi, basixelela; kodwa kuphela ibonwa ngaphandle isebenza.

Kule posi siza kuphinda sibuyele ngakumbi kumbono wokuchaswa kwamantombazana, kwaye Siza kunika nemibono yokuba ubakhaphe kwinkqubo yokukhula. Singangabinako ukuthintela uphazamiseko, kodwa ifuthe kubomi babo linokuncitshiswa. Kungabonakala ngathi kukuzibaxa xa ndikuxelela ukuba kukho umdla wokwenza abantu basetyhini (nanjengabantwana) izinto ezinqwenelekayo. Intengiso inoxanduva lokudibanisa le mbono, hayi kuphela ngenxa yobukhulu obungenakwenzeka obunxitywa ziimodeli, kodwa nangenxa yokuchongwa kwemveliso ekujongwe ukuba ithengiswe..

Injongo 2

Amantombazana alandela iimodeli zobuhle?

Kwaye uyazi? Ngomzamo wokubonisa ukuba kukho injongo ethile yokuxhatshazwa kwamantombazana, ndiza kukuxelela ukuba uthotho lweeopopayi azisekho msulwa, ukuba abalinganiswa abathandekayo abancinci bethu abasenazo iimilo ezijikelezileyo (kodwa endaweni yoko zenyama), kwaye kukho 'amaziko obuhle' athi-ngokungathi ngumdlalo-athembisa ukonwaba kumantombazana amancinci azakwenziwa kwaye ngubani oza kunikwa 'unyango lonyango'.

Ndifuna ukubuyela kwiziphumo zokuchaswa: ayisiyi kuba ngamantombazana kuphela aya kufuna ukufana neenqobo zobuhle, ukubhitya okanye ukunyanga iinwele kunokuba yinxalenye yencoko phakathi kwabahlobo abancinci okanye oogxa babo. Ezantsi kuthi, kukho ubugqwetha esingafane uve ngabo. UJean Kilbourne uyasicacisa kule vidiyo ibizwa ngokuba "Ukusibulala kancinci": inkcaso iyaluthethelela ugonyamelo, kwaye lwenzeka ngokwesini kunye nohlanga (umzekelo).

Khusela amantombazana.

Sisoloko sithetha lonto Unxibelelwano lusisiseko salo naluphi na ulwalamano olusempilweni losapho, kodwa yintoni esinokuyenza? Ukuhambelana okusebenzayo kunye nobukho rhoqo ecaleni kwabo xa bebancinci kuthatha isigqibo; kodwa kuya kukunika umdla ukwazi ukuba yonke imihla, Kukho ezinye izinto ezincinci, ezinje:


  • Kukulungele ukuba sinomdla kwilizwe labo, izinto abazithandayo, ukuthanda kwabo; Olu luphawu lokusondela, kwaye lwenza kube lula kubo ukuba basiqonde njengofikelelekayo.
  • Umxholo kumabonwakude, okanye kwi-Intanethi: ukuba siyababona kunye nabo, sinokuveza amaxabiso ethu, kwaye sincede oonyana neentombi zethu ukuba baphuhlise ukuqonda kwabo.
  • Abafazi bokwenyani abafani nabanye boonodoli ababaziyo, ke kulungile ukuba bafumane iintlobo ezahlukeneyo.
  • Ukuhlonipha indlela abaphila ngayo: ukwamkeleka kunika ukhuseleko kwabancinci.
  • Mababe ngamantombazana: mabadlale ngokukhululekileyo ngaphandle koloyiko lokuba bangabo.
  • Iintombi zethu azidingi kukhuphisana namanye amantombazana ukuze zamkelwe; iququzelela ubudlelwane bokulingana kunye nokulingana.

Umzekelo wakho unokuba sisalathiso samantombazana, ukuba ezantsi bafuna ukuba nophuhliso oluhambelanayo, singabanceda?

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