Ukuthobeka Kulungile okuzalelwe ngokwakho, kuyinto onamava azelwe kwisimo sengqondo somntu ngamnye, uziva kwaye ucinga nzulu. Ungaphazanyiswa kukuzinikela. Inyani yokudlulisa olu phawu emntwaneni sesona silungileyo sixabisekileyo onokuthi ubanike sona.
Ukuthobeka ebantwaneni lixabiso lelo ayiphuphumi njengethuku phakathi kwabo. Banobuchule bokuzingca ngakumbi ukuze baphile, kodwa phantsi kobu buchule bahlala behleli baya kuzifumana benembopheleleko yomntu omdala ukuze bakwazi ukuqhelaniswa kwaye ekugqibeleni babe nemfundo echanekileyo ngawo onke amaxesha.
Ungakukhuthaza njani ukuthobeka ebantwaneni
Kuyimfuneko ukuqaqambisa ukuba zeziphi ezona zinto zibalaseleyo zokuchaza igama ukuthobeka kwaye ulidlulisele kubantwana bethu. Inkqubo ye- Izenzo ezinje ngokuziva uhlonipha abanye, ungamjongeli phantsi umntu, ungazicingeli ukuba ungaphezulu kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke unesimo sokufunda esisigxina nesifanelekileyo, iya kusenza sifeze enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufundiseni kwethu. Phakathi kwawo onke la manyathelo sinokubafundisa:
- Ukubaluleka kokubulela kunye nokuxolisa. Ukucela ukuxolelwa ayisiyonto ilula emntwaneni, ngakumbi ukuba wayesilwa nomnye umntwana okanye esenza into embi komnye umntu. Ndenze uxolo kukwenza uzive uthobekile, kanye yiba nombulelo, Apha umbulelo udlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuziphatheni kwabo okuhle.
- Musa ukujongela phantsi nabani na. Ndiyakholelwa ekubeni thina njengabazali singowona mzekelo ubalaseleyo wokuba singanegalelo kweli xabiso, zama ukuyidlulisa ngenyaniso hayi ngamazwi. Ukuba abaziva bethotyiwe kuthi, abayi kuziva bethotyiwe nakubani na. Kufuneka benjenjalo baziva behlonipha bonke abantu ababangqongileyo ngakumbi abantu abadala, kufanelekile bafunda ukuphulaphula.
- Musa ukuzijonga njengomntu ophakamileyo. Singakunceda thobeka ungalindelanga ukuba abanye babe phambili. Akakho umntu ongaphezu komntu. Ukuba umntwana wakho udlala nabanye abantwana, kulungile kuye ukuba afunde ukuba kufuneka phumelela ngaphandle kokuhlekisa ngomntu, kodwa kuya kufuneka umfundise loo nto Ukuphulukana yinxalenye yomdlalo kwaye kufuneka wazi indlela yokuvuyisana nomphumeleleyo.
- Yiba nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunye nokufunda ubomi bonke. mncede ukufezekisa injongo okanye impumelelo, Ngale nto, uya kuzithemba. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukuzithemba kwakho nokuzithemba kuphezulu kuba iyintsika ebalulekileyo yokuqinisa ukhuseleko ngokwalo. Umzekelo unokufunyanwa kumabanga esikolo.Ukuba awukwazi ukwamkela ukungaphumeleli, zama ukucacisa ukuba kufuneka uzame kancinci kwaye akukho mntu unetyala.
- Yiyeke ikratshi nokuzingca. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba kuphi ixabiso lakho lokwenyani njengomntu. Zonke izinto azenzayo, amandla akhe, inkangeleko yomzimba kunye nempumelelo zizinto ezibonisa ukuba umntwana ngumntu obalulekileyo kwaye ke uyahlonitshwa kwaye uyathandwa. Akukho mntu ubaluleke ngaphezu komntu kubandakanya nezona zilwanyana zincinci.
- Funda amabali, iincwadi okanye ubhale imisitho okanye amabali apho kuya kubonakaliswa ixabiso lokwenyani lokuthobeka elimelwe ebantwini nakwizehlo zamanqanaba ahlukeneyo.
Bafunda ntoni esikolweni?
- Ootitshala sele beyazi indlela yokulungiselela abantwana ukuba bakhule kwaye Thetha malunga neemvakalelo zakho kunye neenjongo zakho.
- Bayabanceda basebenzisane njengeqela ukuze konyusa ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokuzithemba okuhle kwaye ke uhlakulele ukuthobeka ngcono.
- Kubalulekile ukuba bafundiswe Isibindi sokwabelana, ukwamkela iimpazamo abazenzayo kunye nendlela yokucela uxolo.
- Itekhnoloji abayisebenzisayo eklasini yinkxaso enkulu yokugqibezela nokwenza eli xabiso, njengoko begqibezela unxibelelwano lwabo.