Uninzi lwabazali abajongana nomntwana ocela umngeni ngakumbi bazama ukulungisa imeko ngokuba ngqongqo ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ngokwenza njalo, bayalibala ukuba ibaluleke kangakanani ingxelo elungileyo ekukhokeleni nasekulungiseni indlela yokuziphatha - umntwana wakho kufuneka azi ukuba wenza ntoni ngokufanelekileyo okanye akazukuba neenjongo zokuziphatha ezijolise kuzo. Yintoni egqithisile, Ukugxekwa rhoqo kuya kwenza umntwana wakho abacaphukele abazali bakhe.
Xa umntwana wakho esenza umgudu wokukuthobela, mnike umvuzo ngokumdumisa. Kwangokunjalo, kuya kufuneka ukuba ukhangele phambili kwizinto ezintle ezenziwa ngumntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho akacaphuki xa ejongene nomntakwenu onomsindo, umzekelo, mxelele ukuba uqaphele isenzo sakhe sokuzibamba kwaye uyaziqhenya ngaye.
Sukuzama ukunyanzela umntwana wakho ukuba akuhloniphe
Njengokulingwa njengoko kukuqinisekisa ngokuthi, "Ndingu tata, ke kufuneka undihloniphe!" Ukufuna ukuhlonitshwa ngumntwana wakho kuya kubuyela umva. Ngoba? Akunakwenzeka nje ukuba umntu akuhloniphe ke uzibekela usilelo xa usenza la mathandabuzo.
Endaweni yokuzama ukulawula indlela avakalelwa ngayo umntwana wakho ngawe, nikela ingqalelo kwindlela aziphethe ngayo. Mkhumbuze ukuba lo gama engenako ukuwuthanda umthetho, kufuneka awuthobele, kwaye ukumbiza ngegama elibi ngekhe kuyitshintshe loo nto. Gxininisa into yokuba ubukrwada ayilunganga, nokuba uziva njani.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ukungaziphathi kakuhle kuyanda
Kwezinye iimeko ezinqabileyo, indlela yokuziphatha komceli mngeni yomntwana inokuqhubeka nokuba mandundu. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuqhubeka nokuziphatha komntwana wakho kungangumqondiso wengxaki enzulu (njengokuziphatha okungalunganga). Funa inkxaso yabanye abazali kunye noncedo lweengcali zempilo yengqondo kwimeko apho indlela yokuziphatha komntwana wakho ingalawulekiyo. Ngonyango oluchanekileyo, umntwana wakho kufuneka akwazi ukuzinzisa kwaye oyise iingxaki zakhe ngegunya.