La ukuzibulala Ukuphelelwa lithemba okanye ukukhathazeka kulusizi kusapho, izihlobo kunye noluntu ngokubanzi. Inkqubo ye- ukuzibulala kudala ukuziva unetyala kubazali, kubantakwenu, oogxa bakho, kubamelwane ingaba ikhona into abanokuyenza. Le kunye neminye imiba, enamava kusapho, kunzima kakhulu ukujongana nayo, kwaye sicebisa ukuba umntu omaziyo kule meko, okanye ngokwakho, yiya kwingcali.
Nangona kunjalo, sifuna ukujongana nomba wokuzibulala kolutsha, ngokwembono yendlela okuchaphazela ngayo usapho kwaye, sinike izimvo ezithile kunye nezikhokelo ezinokunceda ukuya phambili.
Qalisa inkqubo yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo
Ku abazali kunye nabantakwabo ukusweleka komntu ofikisayo yilahleko engenakuchazeka, ewe okanye ewe iya kuphawula ubomi babo bonke. Kukho iimvakalelo zentlungu ezinokuthi zingaze ziphele, kodwa kukho amanyathelo onokuwathatha ukuqala kwenkqubo yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo.
Musa ukuzenza ikheswa, nxibelelana nabanye, usapho, abahlobo, abamelwane. Zijikeleze nabantu abalungileyo, abaxhasayo ukuba uthethe nabo ngomntwana wakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Onke amalungu osapho ayabandezeleka kwaye elowo uvakalisa intlungu yakhe ngendlela. Abanye abantwana, abantakwabo kunye noodadewabo bokuzibulala banokungafuni ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo, ukuze bangathwali mthwalo ungaphezulu kubazali.
Xa befika umhla obekiweyo, IKrisimesi, imihla yokuzalwa, isikhumbuzo, ziya kuba nzima. Imvakalelo zelahleko kunye noxinzelelo ziyabonakala kwezi ntsuku. Phatha le mihla njengoko uthatha isigqibo, kukho abantu abafuna ukuzahlula kubo nakwabanye abafuna inkxaso njengerhafu.
Kuqhelekile ukuziva unetyala kwaye uzibuze ukuba kwenzeka njani okanye kutheni. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba akukho mpendulo zichanekileyo kuwe. Kuya kufuneka ufikelele kwinqanaba lokuxolela, kokubini emntwaneni kunye nakuwe, okanye kwamanye amalungu osapho.
Ukwenza ukuzibulala kulutsha kubonakale
El suicidio de abantwana kunye nolutsha alubonakali. Ngale ndlela, uninzi losapho olunabantwana abazibulele lubalaselisa ukubaluleka kwe- bahlangule amabali abo kwaye babeke ilizwi, igama naphambi kwabantwana abathatha ubomi babo ukuze bancede abanye abantwana, abakwishumi elivisayo kunye neentsapho zabo. La mava anokukunceda ubone iimpawu ezinokuthintela ukuzibulala kwakho kwaye ufunde ukuphila emva kokuzibulala konyana okanye kwentombi.
Kwizixeko ezininzi nangaphakathi IiYunithi zeMpilo yeNgqondo kukho amaQela amaXhoba amaXhoba aSindileyo, izihlobo kunye nezihlobo kwiNtlungu yokuzibulala. Ngumsebenzi osisiseko kula maqela ukuhambisa uxolo. La maqela akazimisele ukugcina iinkqubo zokulila, okanye ukukhawuleza, kodwa ukuhamba.
Ngamanye amaxesha, xa umfundi ezibulala, izikolo zithatha amaziko okucebisa, oososayikholojisti okanye izihlobo zabantwana abazibuleleyo, ukuthetha nabafundi ndibancede bakwazi ukumelana nazo. Ungalibali ukuxhasa umntwana ofikisayo ojamelene nokuzibulala kumhlobo okanye afunda naye, bakhuthaze ukuba bathethe nawe okanye omnye umntu omdala omthembileyo.
Ihlazo ekuzibulaleni kwabakwishumi elivisayo
Ibala ayisiyonto ingabalulekanga. Nangona izinto zitshintsha, uninzi lweentsapho luzifumana njengokuzibulala Ibala lokwenyani elibazalisa ngeentloniOwu, akukho lula kubo ukumelana nale meko. Le yimvakalelo eyenziweyo, nokuba imeko-bume ithintela naluphi na umqondiso ongalunganga kwaye ihambisa yonke inkxaso.
Ukuthintela la mabala, usapho ngamanye amaxesha lunesidingo sokubona indlela elisebenza ngayo ixhoba hayi njengokuzibulala, kodwa njenge ukufa ngengozi. Oku ekugqibeleni kudala iipateni zonxibelelwano ezigqwethekileyo ezifuna ukufihla inyani ebuhlungu kakhulu. Oku kudala i-taboo yokwenene ngokubhekisele kwinto eyenzekileyo kwixhoba. Oyena nobangela wokufa ufihliwe.
Ukuzibulala kuqikelelwa ukuba yeyona nto Unobangela wesithathu wokufa phakathi kweminyaka eyi-15 ukuya kwengama-24 ubudala, emva kweengozi nokubulawa kwabantu. Kwaye ukongeza, ubuncinci iinzame ezingama-25 zenzelwa umntu ngamnye ogqityiweyo ukuzibulala.