Kuyinyani eqala xa oomama nootata abaninzi kufuneka bathathe abantwana babo baya nabo enkulisa kuba bayayidinga nyani. Ukungaqiniseki kunye nosizi kuhlala kusiwa ngenxa yokucinga ukuba abayi konwaba kunamakhaya abo, kodwa kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba ziziza ezikhethekileyo apho ingazukuba lilo lodwa usana oluza kubakho kwindawo yokugcina abantwana.
Ukusa umntwana wakho kwisikolo sabantwana, uhlala usenza njalo Yinxibe ngoncumo olugqwesileyo. Ukuba uchitha ulonwabo, siqinisekile ukuba nosana luya kuba nalo. Ukuba ungena kunye naye ezingalweni zakho ngokuzithemba okukhulu, ngokuqinisekileyo omncinci naye uya kuba nayo kwaye uya kuba nakho ukungena ngokhuseleko olukhulu.
Ithuba lokuba unxibelelane kwaye unxibelelane
Ukungena kwi-nursery kwangethuba akuyi kuba yinto ephambili yokuba abantwana baqale ukunxulumana, ngokuxhomekeke kubudala babo baya kuqala ukudibanisa kwiqela labo okanye okusingqongileyo kwaye ukuziva isidingo sokuhlala nayo.
Okokuqala abayi kuqonda umxholo wokwabelana, Kuba obu buchule buqala ukuqondwa ukusuka kwiminyaka ye-3, xa beqala isigaba sabo sobuntwana. Kodwa kwelinye icala, sinayo olo lungelelwaniso nezinye iintsana. Baya kufunda ukudlala nabanye abantwana, baya kufumana isigama, kuya kufuneka babelane ngezinto zokudlala kwaye ngale ndlela baya kufumana ukuzimela.
Umsa njani umntwana wam enkulisa?
Kukho abazali abathandabuzayo ukuba babashiye njani abantwana babo bekhathalelwe ngumntu ukuzibophelela emsebenzini. Kukho iindlela ezifana nokubasa ukukhathalela abantwana okanye ukukhathalelwa ngumntu omthembileyo njengomhlobo okanye isihlobo. Siza kugxila kukhathalelo lwemini, apho baya kungqongwa ngabanye abantwana nasezandleni zabanonopheli abafanelekileyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazazisa ngayeizibonelelo onokuthi zikunike zona Okanye awunandlela mbini ngaphandle kokukhetha eyona ikufutshane nekhaya lakho. Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka unolwazi malunga nokuba izibonelelo ziya kuba njani kunye noluvo lwabanye oomama.
Kukulungele ukubuza kwaye ufumanise kwiziko elinye injani indlela yakhe yokufundisa, babondla njani, okanye indlela yabo yokulungisa indlela yokuziphatha engalunganga. Ukwazi ezi ngcamango yinto ephambili ukuvavanya imfundo yeziko.
Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuyithatha, kuyakufuneka ulungiselele yonke into oyifunayo ukuze ikwazi ukuyisa kwigumbi labantwana abancinci. Kufuneka uyazi luhlobo luni lwempahla okanye igawuni encinci oza kuyinxiba, ukuba uya kusebenzisa uhlobo oluthile lwencwadi kwaye ukuba uvunyelwe ukuphatha into ethile.
Iingcebiso kusuku lokuqala lokhathalelo lwemini
Ukulungiswa komntwana nokuba zingaphi na iinyanga kubalulekile. Yonke into kuya kuxhomekeka kubume bomntwana kunye nendlela yokufumana ukwahlukana kwabazali. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka baqale ngokutyibilikayo hayi ngokurhabaxa. Ukwenza ngendlela egqibeleleyo kunokubhidanisa olo nxibelelwano lukhulu umntwana wayenalo nabazali bakhe. Inokuchaphazela nemikhwa engaqhelekanga okanye yokutya kunye nokwehla kobunzima.
Yenza umntwana avuke kancinci kancinci kunokuba yinto ekuxoxwa ngayo, kuba abazali banokufuna ukuyenza, kodwa iziko lisenokungathandi ukulandela elo qhinga. Xa ushiya umntwana okanye umntwana kufuneka mazise ukuba abazali bakhe bayahambaKuya kufuneka indlelantle emfutshane ngaphandle kwempawu zosizi kunye nenkxalabo.
Ulwazi kufuneka lunikwe umntwana ka bazobuya nini bazokuyithatha Kwaye ngubani oza kuphatha, ukuze ungaziva uziva ulahliwe. Iintsuku zokuqala apho oku kwahlulwa kwenziwa khona, kuya kufuneka ke ngothando ukubuyekeza ukungazinzi uxinzelelo. Akufanele bashiywe benoluvo lokuba abantwana bacinga ukuba ngabazali babo Baza kuhamba kwaye kukho into eza kwenzeka kubo, okanye abayi kubuya okanye baya kudlala nomntakwabo omncinci. Kubalulekile ukumqinisekisa nokuzola umntwana ngamaxesha onke.