Phakathi kwinqanaba lokufikisa, uninzi lwemvukelo lumalunga nokwenza umahluko kubazali kunye kuvavanya isazisi kunye nenkcaso eyimfuneko yokuxhobisa amandla okuzikhethela.
Xa abazali baziva becinezelekile zezi zenzo zemvukelo, ezinje ngokwaphula imithetho yentlalo, ukuba kunye nabahlobo abanokuziphatha okuyingozi. Umzekelo, ekufundiseni ulutsha kulunge kakhulu ukuvumela iziphumo zendalo ukuba zenzeke kwaye ngokunika isikhokelo rhoqo.
Yenza oku ngokuqhubeka nokwenza ingxelo malunga nokuziphatha okufanelekileyo, kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezixhasa ukukhula eyakhayo iyafuneka kwinqanaba lokufikisa.
Ngalo lonke ixesha usenza njalo, banika umntwana into entsha anokuyenza ukuze basebenzisane nabo. Ngokukodwa, xa uvukelo lutyhala ngamandla, njengoko kuqhele ukwenzeka kwinqanaba lokufikisa, luxanduva lwabazali ukuqhubeka nokunxibelelana nesalathiso esiya kukhokelela umntu osemtsha kwindlela eyakhayo yokukhula.
Ulutsha kufuneka uziva uxinzelelo oluqinisekileyo kwicala elifanelekileyo. Bafuna isikhokelo esingadinwayo, kufuneka bahlale becala ecaleni kwabantwana babo ukubaxhasa kuyo nayiphi na into efunekayo.
Inyaniso yokuba abayihoyi into ethethwa ngabazali kwaye ufuna ngeli xesha akuthethi ukuba akufanelekanga ukunika isalathiso. Kuba imvukelo ihlala iqiniswa yimiyalezo evela koontanga, abazali kufuneka banike imiyalezo yabo eyakhayo neyakhayo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Unyana okanye intombi engawuthobeli lo myalelo namhlanje inokugqiba kwelokuba iwulandele ngomso. Ngoba? Kungenxa yokuba abantu abancinci bayazi ukuba ngabazali babo kwaye hayi oontanga babo abathi ekugqibeleni babe neminqweno emihle kubo. Abantwana bakho baya kwazi ukuba uya kuhlala ufuna okona kulungileyo kubo, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni kwaye nokuba ngubani onobunzima.