Ulutsha olunemvukelo luzithemba kakhulu, alubazi ubungozi kunye neziphumo zezenzo zalo.
Umntu ofikisayo uhlala enxunguphele, unxunguphalo, ukunqongophala kweenjongo, ukungazazi, ukungazithembi, izimvo ezingacacanga ..., imvukelo ngaphandle kwezizathu. Kule nqaku siza kufumanisa ukuba abakwishumi elivisayo bazalwa benemvukelo okanye benziwa ngexesha kunye neemeko zabo.
Umntwana kunye nexabiso lasekhaya
Kulo ebuntwaneni Umntwana kufuneka akhule enesiko kunye neenqobo zokuziphatha ekufuneka abazali bezikhathaza ngokumnika zona. Konke oku kuyakubakho kwiminyaka ezayo kuphuhliso lomntu. Kuya kufuneka azive ethandwa kwaye ekhuselekile kwaye akhule engumntwana okhululekileyo, ngaphandle kokuthwala iintlungu zabazali bakhe emva kwakhe., iingxaki abanazo okanye imisebenzi engangqinelaniyo nabo.
Ebusheni umntwana ukwithuba lokuvuthwa. Utshintsho lwehormonal luchaphazela indlela umntwana wakho aziphatha ngayo. Kuyinyani ukuba kukho abantwana abanesidima ngakumbi, abangazinzanga nabangathobeliyo kunabanye, kwaye bayaqhubeka nokuziphatha kule minyaka ilandelayo, eyongeza kubunzima obongezwa kukufikisa. Ngale nto, kwaye ngaphandle komsebenzi omkhulu kunye nokuzincama okubandakanya, abazali kufuneka babenolwazi ngakumbi kwaye babandakanyeke imfundo bakho bantwana.
Ukufika kwinqanaba lokufikisa kuzisa ulutsha olunemvukelo
Ukuba lo mfana uqala ukunxulumana namakhwenkwe anedumela elithandabuzekayo kwaye atye uhlobo oluthile lwezinto, ngekhe azi ukuba angathini kwaye abe ndlongondlongo.
Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, ezinye izinto ziyabuzwa kubo kwaye kulindeleke ukuba bahambisane nezenzo zabo. Kumzuzu apho Abazali bayazinyanzela kwaye bachaze iindawo ezingafanelekanga ukuwela, ulutsha luziva lubekelwe bucala kwaye luvukele kwinto abakholelwa ukuba ayifanelekanga. Abazali baba ziintshaba kunye nabahlobo ngokuziphatha okukhuselekileyo. Umntwana ongasenguye umntwana, kodwa hayi umntu omdala, Uyabona ukuba ngexesha elifutshane izinto ziyakhalinyelwa kuye ngaphambili. Abanye imiba echaphazela ukungahambelani okanye ukuvukela, Bazi:
- Khangela ukuze uzifumanele kwaye ungene ngaphakathi: Kufuneka bazi ukuba bayaphi kwaye kutheni, ukuze bazi omnye nomnye, bazichonge kwiqela, ngefashoni ..., ukuziva ukhuselekile kwaye ungacalucalulwa.
- Kholelwa ekubeni akukho nto imbi iza kwenzeka: Umntwana ofikisayouthembele kakhulu, kwaye akabuqondi ubungozi kunye neziphumo yezenzo zabo. Abanye bamphendulela, bamkhusela. Xa efikisa ukufikisa iyatshintsha.
- Ubudlelwane kwezentlalo nakwezemfundo: Umntu omncinci kufuneka ajongane nobudlelwane neqabane lakhe, abahlobo, asombulule iingxoxo, izimvo ezahlukeneyo ... ngaxeshanye kufuneka ijongane nokusebenza ngokugqibeleleyo esikolweni, kunye nokusebenza ngokufanelekileyo kwizifundoYeyiphi kuye, xa ingenzeki, inokukhathaza kwaye ifune ukubaleka.
Iingxaki kwinqanaba lokufikisa
Abantu abaneentloni ngakumbi okanye banexesha elinzima lokuziveza baya kuba nengxaki yokuziva beqondwa okanye bambethe, kwaye abayazi indlela yokucela uncedo. Ukuba umntu omncinci aqala ukunxulumana namakhwenkwe anedumela elithandabuzekayo, asebenzise uhlobo oluthile lwezinto kwaye azive elahliwe, kunokwenzeka ukuba akazi ukuba ajongane njani nayo kwaye abonise ngakumbi nobundlongondlongo kwaye andifuni kudibana.
Ulutsha olunemvukelo aluqhelekanga okanye luyakhathaza, ukuba nje abazali banokukuthwala kwaye balandele ngomonde emanyathelweni omntwana wabo. Xa ulawulo sele lulahlekile ngawo omabini amaqela, kufuneka kuthathwe amanyathelo. Njengabazali, ukuba uzama ukunika abantwana bakho uxanduva olukhulu, kuyimpazamo ukuzama ukubamisa okanye ukubabopha kwimisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla okanye yolonwabo, kuba kufuneka bakhule, bafumane kwaye benze iimpazamo.